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It’s funny, because I admitted to being Bisexual in High School, and I fooled around with a few guys. This seems to erase the fact that I’ve dated many more girls than I have guys, in girl’s minds. They seem to forget that being bisexual is a two way street. I’m down for both genders, yet ever since I’ve told everyone how I really am, no women will admit to liking me, even when I know they do. I’m an attractive guy if I do say so myself, and I know some girls think I’m cute. But they just WILL NOT ENGAGE.
For example, I have a pretty little friend, who I have some history with… in that way. She let me mess around with her prior to ever DATING a boy. Even after I had told her I was Bi, she was okay with it. (In fact, she got more pushy in some respects) But eventually I dated my first guy, and she moved on to another boy as well. Well, three years later, I’m at her party, watching her second relationship crumble, and she’s giving me signals. She’s talking like she used to, and she’s being the girl she once was… but the difference is, she won’t pursue anymore. She feels it, but she won’t go for it. She’s someone I want, I’m someone she wants… but she won’t play.
It’s such a curious thing. Am I not allowed to like both? What is to blame? Is it the tag on the bottom of my foot that reads “Bisexual”? I feel like I have to somehow impress, or beef up my relationships with past girlfriends in order for a girl to even think about talking to me. I’m not really looking for relationship advice. I’m looking for opinions on the matter. And if it means anything, I’m not uber feminine, or anything like that that may be off putting to girls, like I said.. I’ve dated more girls than I have guys. All attractive. PRIOR to telling everyone how I was “Bi”.
What is so off putting about being what I am? Opinions? Anyone?
For example, I have a pretty little friend, who I have some history with… in that way. She let me mess around with her prior to ever DATING a boy. Even after I had told her I was Bi, she was okay with it. (In fact, she got more pushy in some respects) But eventually I dated my first guy, and she moved on to another boy as well. Well, three years later, I’m at her party, watching her second relationship crumble, and she’s giving me signals. She’s talking like she used to, and she’s being the girl she once was… but the difference is, she won’t pursue anymore. She feels it, but she won’t go for it. She’s someone I want, I’m someone she wants… but she won’t play.
It’s such a curious thing. Am I not allowed to like both? What is to blame? Is it the tag on the bottom of my foot that reads “Bisexual”? I feel like I have to somehow impress, or beef up my relationships with past girlfriends in order for a girl to even think about talking to me. I’m not really looking for relationship advice. I’m looking for opinions on the matter. And if it means anything, I’m not uber feminine, or anything like that that may be off putting to girls, like I said.. I’ve dated more girls than I have guys. All attractive. PRIOR to telling everyone how I was “Bi”.
What is so off putting about being what I am? Opinions? Anyone?