This is a lot to work through so I'll move slowly
*Inciting a mob against and publicly accusing someone of **** without evidence (rarely even filing a police report)
**This happens often. The next time somebody accuses a public figure of ****, take a look around and see who's asking/waiting for evidence and who Listens and Believes. Until two or three years ago, it was almost unheard of for the public at large to wait for actual evidence before commencing the Two Minutes' Hate, though this is thankfully changing.
Give me an example from the past to work with, not entirely sure of what you mean.
*telling white people that their very existence is oppressive
**This is common. It's not usually this direct, but the implication is there. Usually it takes the form of shaming white people for the actions of white people hundreds of years ago for slavery or colonialism or something else. It's not even punishing the child for the sins of the father, it's punishing the child for the sins of someone else's father.
I don't hear this often, and I went to a very liberal university.
What people do talk about are the systems and institutions that were set up often being to the detriment of black people ie segregated housing and educational systems from the 50-60s generally being worse for wear for black people. These systems have repercussions, and can be felt in society today. Remember that the 50-60s are not that long ago.
Don't mistake idiots from Tumblr for the mainstream.
*manspreading
**We sit like that because testicles. It's just more comfortable. If you'd like somebody to move over a little, ask. Don't take pictures of the guy and shame him on Tumblr because you're too socially awkward to ask for a little room. That's your problem, not his. If this is all that feminism has to complain about these days, it truly has accomplished everything of worth.
Both manspreading and complaints about manspreading are insignificant in the large scheme of things.
*mansplaining
**This is directly intended to silence someone because of their gender. It's the very definition of sexism. Or was, before certain people decided to change the definition to suit their political agendas.
Nah, mansplaining is used to stop what sometimes occurs when a woman is trying to speak her point and gets shut down for a man to talk in her place. I agree however that it can sometimes be used to silence a man trying to give an opinion, but I think the former happens more than the latter.
*only offering positions of power to people who they ideologically agree with
**This one is definitely on less firm ground than the others, but it makes sense if you'll bear with me. Hasn't it ever struck you as odd how, almost overnight, everyone in high places began marching in step to the same agenda? Or how quickly thing nobody had ever heard about became major political issues? I think it has something to do with the Internet mobs conducting campaigns to fire people in high places for what their opinions were a decade ago. Github's new (Jan 2014) removed their meritocracy rug. Google, which had previously not taken any position on the information their search engine presents, announced a think tank (Google Ideas) and suddenly decided that they were going to step in to stop online harassment. Two members of this think tank are Anita Sarkeesian (who thinks all criticism of her is harassment) and Randi Harper (who's known to be a bit of a bully herself). Mozilla's CEO was forced to step down in 2014 for a political donation made in support of a 2008 law. The replacement, a few months later, tweeted anti-GamerGate stuff, as though that has anything to do with what Mozilla does. Speaking of GG, the conversation started by criticizing some writers for lack of disclosure... Which was immediately met with cries of "Sexism!" for some reason, and nearly the whole gaming press decided to throw their audience (gamers) under the bus less than 24 hours apart. Before I stopped reading their biased shilling, I don't remember it being anywhere near that ideologically driven, which makes me think that the changes happened in those few years.
The tides of politics is forever changing. Segregation wasn't a problem until it became a problem. The crack (and now Oxycontin) epidemic wasn't a problem until it became a problem. There are always new problems emerging and new things to solve, and as such there will be new political issues.
Meritocracy as a ideology is super shaky, and I can talk about that in more detail later.
Google stopping online harassment is good, no? Sarkeesian and Harper aren't great representatives but the benefits of a panel is that there is a wide base for opinions.
GamerGate got derailed, same as Occupy Wall Street. Their original message got diluted by other ****, allowing it to be attacked outside of it's main domain. GamerGate got derailed SUPER hard, Jesus.
Mozilla's CEO was forced out by the community, not the board, which is a big difference. It is completely legitimate to be upset at a law, and not wanting to stand with a company that does not fit their views. Prop 8's effects are still heavily felt in California, so it is definitely still a recent issue. He had the right to free speech in giving the donation and sticking to his cause, and his community had the right to disagree with that stand and refuse to work with Brendan, and to freely say so.
If you want more examples of any of my points, subscribe to Sargon of Akkad and watch his series "This Week in Stupid". Neoprogressives make the news literally every week. Sargon himself is away on vacation right now and has guest posters doing his videos, so watch the ones from a few weeks back. He even puts links to the articles in the description, so if you're skeptical you can go look at them directly. If TWIS is too long, he often does rebuttals to videos made by neoprogressives.
I'll look into it.
To address the rest of your post:
Affirmative action is enough. The system gives incentives to employers and colleges for having more women and minorities, regardless of their actual ability. Today, not only are women 60% of college graduates, but in But, for more examples, there's the entire family court system (which heavily favors women over men), domestic violence laws, where the man is seen as the aggressor by default, how breast cancer research is by far the best-funded, and the general gynocentrism of Western society. Every time men have a problem, nobody cares, but whatever minor piddling nonsense feminists say women have to deal with about is suddenly Top Priority(tm).
Minorities continue to have poor economic, health, and social outcomes, irregardless of things like AA. It is a massive program but it remains clear that there are gaps that needs to be dealt with earlier in life.
Meritocracy as an ideology, again, is super shaky.
Family court system heavily favors women, yes, due to past societal failures. Don't think it should remain the same though.
Domestic violence is a very dangerous topic to go into. It is very hard to say men are treated unfairly when the Stanford **** incident has been blowing up and the rapist got 3 months in prison and the father treated it as "20 minutes of action".
Breast cancer is one of the most common forms of cancer and really easy to treat if caught early. We've also had a lot of celebrities come on board to help the cause, which has led to the pouring in of funding. Testicular cancer is similar in ease of treatment, it's not as marketable though.
I think mens issues are underplayed in society, and we'll have to examine the roles men and women play in the 21st century. However, just because men's issues aren't brought into the fold as much doesn't mean women's issues aren't also problems.
Black people born in the last 20-30 years have not experienced any significant amount of racism. BLM is trying to take a nonracial issue and make it about race. Doing so obscures the real problem, which is the justice system's reliance on the police which spawns an unwillingness to hold them to the same standards as ordinary people. Of course, this isn't mentioning the blatant hatred the group displays to white people.
Yeah, no, this is false. Look at the effects of the crime bills passed in the 1990s, the crack epidemic that played out in the 1980s, general economic, educational, and health trends up to now, racial profilling of police of both Black and Muslim people, etc. Nah, this is false. Just because black people are not having fire hydrant opened up in their faces doesn't mean they are no longer facing discrimination at all. Cmon, man.