This post is one of the most wonderfully refreshing pieces of smash (& life) psychology/philosophy I've ever read. I'm curious which parts would you write differently now?
I don't have answers I feel confident in right now, but I've been working to figure this out. I'll just list what I directly take issue with:
-"This is because of partly what Jeff Schaefer talked about. We let our conscious system get away from us and begin making judgments it doesn't need to make. Will I win? Will I lose? Why is that person trash talking me? Everyone wants me to do well and is cheering for me, oh no I can't let them down!
The more you reflect on these thoughts and make judgments, the worse you will do. Always."
If you frame things that way, then I'm telling the truth and you will do worse. Usually. Some people do better when anxious, some people like playing for others and purposes beyond themselves, some people might have developed their strengths through fear and tap into those when they consider these things. I'm not sure I'd say that these things are the overall best strategies for any given person, but they might be the strongest that a person has developed over time. Then there are the first two questions about the result. Initially I thought focusing on the result was ALWAYS bad, but I don't think that's the case so much anymore. I still think people should be focusing on the win, but making it the primary objective might be person-dependent. I prefer to consider it a secondary objective, with my purpose of empowering others and connecting with them as well as doing my best being my primary objectives. That's my best way, but it's possible you could flip those two things and be successful based on some things I've learned, I think. See, I continue to learn that visualization is much stronger than we give it credit for and can really help us create meaningful, empowering emotions that drive the result we visualize. So if I visualize winning and pump up the vision and make it feel awesome and tell myself I can do it, then I create the belief I really can do it, the emotional force that lets me do it and train for it, and the ability to play well in the moment to make it real. I'm simplifying things here but I have really found this to be possible. I need more of my mind to play around with visualizations myself and to encourage others I privately work with to mess with them so I can learn more about how they directly affect others(in addition to some books I need to finish), but this is where I stand on visualizations and the desire to win currently. The reason I am confused is due to my poor health and also not having full information. I got to this point through questioning of the things I felt certain I knew and also a new subject area.
-"Your motivations! You need those too lol. People play this game for a lot of reasons. There are reasons common across (e)sports and I will go ahead and list some of the incorrect reasons to do anything now.
Playing to:
1. be good
2. be stylish
3. be respected
4. be perfect
5. for health(mental exercise in this case, rare for mental activities I'd say but listing anyway lol)
....are all wrong reasons to play. They were also, almost always, NOT the reason we started playing the game."
This is somewhat similar to the above where I think that people can start playing with these motivations being primary, their interruptions in focus are mitigated by having stronger healthier focuses like having fun(that still tends to wear off later). I don't think I'm wrong about these being less helpful motivations, but I probably undervalue some of them in their effectiveness.
-"There are two reasons to play this game that allow for maximal improvement, enjoyment of the game, and keep the conscious cleared from focusing on judgments.
These two motivations are:
Playing to:
1. Have Fun
2. To Learn"
I would probably add/change this part to say that growth and giving back to others are what make you enjoy the game most. That can manifest as people think about it as learning/fun, which is probably why I had such a hard time reconciling those things before. Anyway, when you're growing you're having fun and enjoying the process of improvement, and when you're using the game to give back to others(teaching or entertaining or sharing knowledge gained, etc) you also find a sense of purpose that can be very empowering. Most people don't really think about things this way but I've found it to be especially powerful motivation, even though playing to have fun and to learn made more sense to me and how I normally think. Like I said above as well, these motivations tend to be stronger in the early days of playing the game because you're learning constantly and growing and then able to appreciate the game as a way of growth. When that way gets harder because newer information is harder to come by without work, many people don't like it and those old motivations listed above can kick in hard and obstruct progress. While I'm definitely more satisfied with this explanation than the old one, I feel it's not complete yet either.
-"Of course it helps to have good biological fitness etc to have stamina and focus, but what I list here is more relevant to your concerns and more effective than perhaps biological fitness for us(though working from every angle is most profitable.)"
I have learned from very separate disciplines that your biological fitness is the underlying force for you to be able to strengthen your emotion and focus. This isn't my natural inclination since I'm more mentality-focused, but in retracing my steps of progress I've always done best when exercising a lot and eating/sleeping okay. While I'm still right to suggest mentality is what this person asked for so I'm going to give them that, I must also include that people make their best decisions in a high energy state. You can only be in a high energy state to motivate yourself consistently if you consistently take care of your body. Now of course for short-term decisions or sets you don't need to be in amazing shape just do quick exercises/movements to give yourself new insights and that can set you on a good path. I also need to experiment with the nuances of this and how to easily get people to see something that was also confusing to me at first when learning more about mentality.
So really, the post is still good, but I have some important corrections to make that I believe cover more of the real human experience playing the game. My ultimate goal is getting people to be their best in whatever pursuit their choose so I'll keep at this =)