Pop their egos.
I might as well be real here. Well it is seems everyone in that backroom are the older members from the thread's start (and some from the 1st thread). Everyone in there has an ego, I'd be mad if you didn't think I let mine get the best of me in thread at times.
What I can see is that the difference between that group and the main thread is. The interaction is a lot more mature and arguments are a lot more subtle and less flaring, if you get what I'm saying. I only see the people in that backroom flip out on the main thread and I don't blame them, it's kind of a stress reliever.
Anyways, I could definitely see you back there. It's pretty chill and you'll see Chu, Pieman, and Toise aren't as bad as people in the main thread make them out to be. You get to see different sides of people in there. Sure we make call-outs, but isn't that how like works with confrontations?