Sigh... I really hate having to defend both games I really do, on the other hand I do like voicing my opinion on discussions like these...
I play and have been playing Melee competitively since 2005. I play because I am playing with some of the best friends I've ever had in my life. We like the flashiness and we like the technicality of the game. We will probably play for years to come. Honestly we have stopped playing this game to try many many new games as we are pretty dedicated gamers, but we always come back to Melee. I would like to participate in tournaments if I had the time, but I usually don't. I'm not in it for the money or to become the next big star of smash, I just want to have a good time. If you're in it for the money, you're in the wrong league. You should be playing high rated eSports games like CS,Dota2/LoL, and such.
I have also been playing Sm4sh since it has come out give or take weeks of inactivity. My friends don't like it all too much, but are open to sometimes playing. The things @
Spak
has mentioned, he is not lying. Reading down these many pages I see the same thing from the more... how should I put it, thoughtful posters. Sm4sh is what it is. I will not and never try to make it out to anything more than what it is. The skill ceiling, it is not as high and highly achievable. The tech-skill is just not in that game (at the same level), you cannot kid yourself with that. Mindgames and such? There is not a lot to offer. It's redeeming qualities? Easy to pick up, fun to play (depending on matchup... good god some of them are just...), a CURRENT meta of "you can do it!" with many characters (I love stomping with Ganon), online play (say what you like, I like FG), and whatever else you make it out to be. I mean, stuff is there, but stuff some people really liked are not there. Oddly enough I have alot of Tekken friends who like Sm4sh. I think they like the neutral game it presents. It really is all about frames in a game like this because there's no canceling and movement is limited. I guess they like that, that's cool.
No one is forcing anyone to play either game. No one is forcing someone to like a game. Seriously, you can hate a game and that's okay, I don't care. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but sometimes you have to face the fact that some opinions are really dumb (and potentially ignore or try to correct). Try to distinguish good and respectable opinions civilly.
Another nice thing about Sm4sh because hell, why lie to you guys? The new blood. I feel like a super saiyajin among mere humans when I play the new blood (obviously depending on the opponent). I will always help others when they ask and have a good attitude, don't get me wrong, but ripping new buttholes into newcomers is fun for me. Spread 'em