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Hello there. For those of you that don't know me, I'm a final year 6th Form/Senior High student. Come June, I'll have graduated, and will have left school life behind forever. University may be education, but it sure as hell isn't anything like school.
Wow, shouldn't I be happy? Just 2 more months and I'll be free forever right? School sucks blah blah. Well guess what?
I've come to realise over the years that school is the most incredible experience you could ever hope for. The friends, the memories, the atmosphere. You think you're being oppressed? Get out in the real world and the workplace and think again. People say a lot of things make a man. Well, I think your school experiences make up for 90% of what you become. In those crucial years of early formation, we discover ourselves, and open our eyes to the world gradually (or go on the internet and learn in 5 minutes).
You may find it weird that I'm so sad to let go, but perhaps you might think differently when you've left school. There's a whole unofficial code and atmosphere underlying school life, and most of us have a personal harmony we build with the codes. All the traditions, the little things, they'll all disappear, as I walk out the doors for the last time in June.
I've had a great time in both elementary school and high school, never not taking a decision, no matter how mischievous, and for this reason, I feel I have no regrets about wasting my youth. I've also academically achieved, so I guess I don't have to worry that I misbehaved too much. Despite all this, there's still so much I feel I could do and could have done. So much I want to do now that I don't have time for, and of course, it'll all be over in June.
What I want everyone at school who reads this to think about is whether they're really so big and grown up, and whether they're really ready to move out and face the world. Why do you think school sucks? Do they work you too hard? Not enough freedom?
School gives you the ultimate liberty. The liberty of youth. You think you're so oppressed, but wait until the oppression of responsibility ties a noose around the neck of your soul, and tell me you don't want to be a child again.
Practically every adult will tell you that childhood is the best time of your life, but you always argue back and say "I wanna be an adult and then I can do what I want."
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You have far less freedom as an adult, realise this now. I'm not saying being an adult doesn't have it's perks, pleasures and satisfactions, and adulthood is still an incredible experience.
However, don't ignore the incredible thing called youth. Milk it, don't waste it trying to always act grown up. Have you ever heard the phrase "act your age?". Yeah, that's right, if you're 15, you don't need to act like a 20 yo, admirable though that may be, you'll regret not making the most of that period you had when you COULD get away with doing stuff a 15 yo would do.
It's all coming to an end for me now, and as I look back with a heavy heart, I want all to know, that school is amazing, childhood is amazing, and that you should never deny yourself the pleasures you're entitled to.
Oh and for good measure
Edit: A response that I think you should all read.
Hello there. For those of you that don't know me, I'm a final year 6th Form/Senior High student. Come June, I'll have graduated, and will have left school life behind forever. University may be education, but it sure as hell isn't anything like school.
Wow, shouldn't I be happy? Just 2 more months and I'll be free forever right? School sucks blah blah. Well guess what?
I've come to realise over the years that school is the most incredible experience you could ever hope for. The friends, the memories, the atmosphere. You think you're being oppressed? Get out in the real world and the workplace and think again. People say a lot of things make a man. Well, I think your school experiences make up for 90% of what you become. In those crucial years of early formation, we discover ourselves, and open our eyes to the world gradually (or go on the internet and learn in 5 minutes).
You may find it weird that I'm so sad to let go, but perhaps you might think differently when you've left school. There's a whole unofficial code and atmosphere underlying school life, and most of us have a personal harmony we build with the codes. All the traditions, the little things, they'll all disappear, as I walk out the doors for the last time in June.
I've had a great time in both elementary school and high school, never not taking a decision, no matter how mischievous, and for this reason, I feel I have no regrets about wasting my youth. I've also academically achieved, so I guess I don't have to worry that I misbehaved too much. Despite all this, there's still so much I feel I could do and could have done. So much I want to do now that I don't have time for, and of course, it'll all be over in June.
What I want everyone at school who reads this to think about is whether they're really so big and grown up, and whether they're really ready to move out and face the world. Why do you think school sucks? Do they work you too hard? Not enough freedom?
School gives you the ultimate liberty. The liberty of youth. You think you're so oppressed, but wait until the oppression of responsibility ties a noose around the neck of your soul, and tell me you don't want to be a child again.
Practically every adult will tell you that childhood is the best time of your life, but you always argue back and say "I wanna be an adult and then I can do what I want."
...
......
You have far less freedom as an adult, realise this now. I'm not saying being an adult doesn't have it's perks, pleasures and satisfactions, and adulthood is still an incredible experience.
However, don't ignore the incredible thing called youth. Milk it, don't waste it trying to always act grown up. Have you ever heard the phrase "act your age?". Yeah, that's right, if you're 15, you don't need to act like a 20 yo, admirable though that may be, you'll regret not making the most of that period you had when you COULD get away with doing stuff a 15 yo would do.
It's all coming to an end for me now, and as I look back with a heavy heart, I want all to know, that school is amazing, childhood is amazing, and that you should never deny yourself the pleasures you're entitled to.
Oh and for good measure
Edit: A response that I think you should all read.
Despite what people say, yeah. School is amazing. It's a period of time when you are pretty much free of anny worries or cares. The most important thing you have to do is keep up your grades. The most traumatizing thing that will happen to most people is breaking up with someone. (Lol how menial...) Around sixteen and seventeen are the years when people should begin to realize, "I don't have much time left. I need to enjoy it for everything I can."
As a child in a five to thirteen age range, it's rather easy to say, "I wish I was older. Then I could do whenever I want." And who can blame them? At that age, they truly do believe that they are restricted. I can only say one thing to their foolish thoughts- Ignorance is ever so bliss. When a parent is restricting you from getting something you want; when you're too short to reach the cookie jar; when you're not allowed to go play with your friends until you finish with your homework...Looking back on it, those actually were much more lenient times than they are now. Sure, I can reach the cookie jar. Sure, I have money to buy the things I want. But I have to work to make the money for the things I want. I have to watch my intake on those delicious cookies, otherwise I'll get incredibly fat and lose the self-esteem I've worked so hard to build. My homework is far harder than it was prior to high school, and I can't see my friends as often.
As people grow, things get progressively harder. Due to the standard of living, though, we honestly don't realize that we had it so easy back when we were children until it's far too late to enjoy the freedom we were granted. I'm only sixteen, and while I've got most of my life planned out, (Even though it won't go anything as planned. It usually doesn't- and that's the fun of it!) I'm not looking forward to the day I turn 18 and my parents say, "Time to go!" and boot me out. (We've mutually agreed on this. I have funds for an apartment saved up for my 18th birthday.) Even when I'm "Free" from the chains of my parents, I won't be free from the chains of other things. From school, I go straight into college or work. Whichever. When I graduate college, I start working for real. Hey look- I'm now working the old 8-6. My life has just become monotonous and boring.
For the love of god, all of you still in your teens. ENJOY IT. This coming from someone in your age group, I don't think there is any reason for you to think your life is a swirling abyss unless something TRULY terrible happened. Enjoy your young life. ENJOY SCHOOL. THE TIME OF DAY WHEN YOU CAN SEE YOUR FRIENDS OFTEN. It really is the only relaxation you'll get for a while.