Swamp Sensei
and
Opossum
and
PsychoIncarnate
and
@Curious Villager and
@Substitution and
@sonicbrawler182 and
A Distant Demon
and whoever else was interested in this discussion:
So uh, funnily enough 'Jew' is a word that goes both ways. It's a word that is currently being "reclaimed" by the Jewish community. My friends use "Jew" all the time, it's shorter and easier. Now reclaiming words and all of this stuff is just difficult to work with. Personally I'm a big fan of intent. My non-Jewish friends have made some ridiculously dark jokes that to anyone else would seem horrible. I know that my friends have the 'intellectual nuance' to understand those jokes
aren't internalised prejudices, so we all have a good laugh and go on our merry way.
Using the word 'Jew' out of context needs intellectual nuance and sensitivity. There are people out there who will feel offended at the short-hand. I personally don't like the idea of being triggered by buzz-words and I personally feel intent is a whole lot more important, so you're far more likely to be able to use the word around me and not feel demonised than you are with say, a Jew (ironic - and it does annoy me slightly that I'm able to use this word more freely than you are) who has had that used as an insult against them on occasion or one who has had family members or themselves been in the holocaust where 'Jude' was a literal translation of 'Jew' in German and that obviously had its connotations.
So tl;dr - The word 'Jew' can be triggering for some Jewish people who prefer the longer term. As part of that specific minority group, I get more free use over this term than others but I still have to be sensitive to the people who are actually triggered by it (but this whole fact still annoys me). To me it matters most about intent and sensitivity - as I'm not triggered by the word at all, I do not mind my friends and acquaintances using it around
me - but other Jews are cases you have to be sensitive to, and make sure that by using this word you're not internalising pre-existing prejudices or stereotypes of Jewish people.
At the end of the day it'll probably soon get to the point where that word stops triggering people and people can finally use the convenient short-term without being shouted at, but on the other hand, anti-semitism is currently on the rise in the greater scene right now so lawl, we'll just have to wait and see.
P.S. I just have to stress how funny it is that you guys are asking me, because to me it's such a non-offense to me from you guys that I actually had to think about this post a lot more than I initially wanted to.