If I could search SWF/show logs from Xat, I would. Either way, my point wasn't which side is right or wrong (like I said, I don't really care since it doesn't affect me)..... it's just that you seem to brush it off/immediately deny it every time it's brought up.
As a TO, you serve the community to some extent. If people are discontent, you should be doing what you can to improve that, whether it means changing your ways or doing a better job of making sure everybody understands the process (so that this doesn't keep coming up in the future).
/2 cents