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The Stoopid Unikorn

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I am sorry...
I feel like I must go down this path and see what happens.
No you do not.

Why would you want to go on a path that will give you either absolutely nothing or just more pain?

You get nothing and can lose everything!

Plus I already know how to social interact, if I am ever in a job, I can do it fine.
You say that, but at the same time, the word "overconfidence" exists...

All I need to focus on is education and I am all good.
And yet you spend your free time with us...
 

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The thing that bothers me the most is the girl that plays Daphne has a butt chin.

...and the girl that plays Velma has no chin.
 

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Today in Mandala vs Windows:

>Yesterday the ****er tried to update every hour, I postponed every attempt
>I deleted 20GB in preparation for the update but I want to delete other 20
>Perro, if you could stop with those attempts I could defrag the disk (process takes around 7hrs) in peace to open more necessary space
>I turn on the computer today
>Window pops out: "Imma update in 15 minutes"
>I postpone
>Another window appears: "Imma update by force at 2:48pm"
>No postpone option this time
>All the shutdown options have the "and update" text
>Windows: "Ur mom gay"
>Me: "No u"
>I force shutdown using the power button at 2:47pm
>I reboot at 2:49pm

Succ it, Ventanas
 
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I got here not long ago so I don't know what's going on, but if you're having a surgery I hope you come out fine too.
No, Red is not the one having surgery. Here is his original post:
Hey y'all.

Girlfriend's having a pretty major surgery today. Removing parts of her liver, gall bladder, and some parts she probably doesn't want me broadcasting.

Gonna be some five to six hours long in the operating room, and even if it all goes as planned it'll be a pretty rough recovery to boot.



People of Nintenzone.

Send her your power.
All the more reason to interact with more people then! Shiny, you'd seriously be surprised by much benefit you can gain by making study partners from your school.

It's definitely a life saving tactic for me right now, especially when my dumb *** thought it was okay to go solo first year college without any help. I'm making connections this time, and man does that make a huge difference second year.
My people around me are just not...no.
That is one reason why I want to take an Honors class next year.
You guys are better than my peers.
 

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No, Red is not the one having surgery. Here is his original post:


My people around me are just not...no.
That is one reason why I want to take an Honors class next year.
You guys are better than my peers.
Ah. That sounds rough.

redfeatherraven redfeatherraven I hope your girlfriend makes it out OK. That definitely sounds pretty nasty.
 

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Rick is too pure for this world. <3

CUTENESS OVERLOAD, I REPEAT, CUTENESS OVERLOAD.:4alph:

I am sorry...
I feel like I must go down this path and see what happens. Plus I already know how to social interact, if I am ever in a job, I can do it fine.
All I need to focus on is education and I am all good.
No, Shiny, nobody but yourself is forcing you to go down this path. And only you can change it.

Let me explain you one thing Shiny. Socializing with others peoples isn't easy, I get it. But here is the thing, you don't need to go, "I must make friends with everyone or else nobody like me!". No, take it easy, start talking with your family, the peoples you know and like, then, try little by little with peoples you see everyday. It is slow, but you will get better at talking in general

For me, for most of my life, I didn't have any friends. I was the weirdo, always doing stuff that nobody understood. I had a mental sickness from birth that make everything for me harder to do. Frankly, I sometime think it's a miracle I am here, talking with you and you all. Without feeling like a stranger or someone who get angry/sad at everything.

The thing is that, I would have never come off of this dark age alone. My parents & my sister and all the peoples who helped me in real life are the reasons I became a better person. Before, I wouldn't talk with peoples and always stayed in my corner, not wanting to be hurt or saying something stupid. Now, I crack joke at peoples at my work or with my family. I go outside alone to get off my computer. I try to do sport from time to time to make sure my health is good. All of this, the old me would have never done.

And I am not making any of this up. This isn't Blue Hunter Z, the guy who always talk too much about Xenoblade 2. This the real person behind the computer, trying to warn you and help you not following the same path as the old me.

Life is hard, and life is only going to be harder as time move on, this is reality. But you are still young Shiny, contrary to alot of us, you have still times to use to be a better person. Do not give up now, do not let a forum make your entire life, do not let your depression take over you. You are going to get hurt no matter path you choose, but trying to be a better person will only help you in the long run. While shutting yourself down is only going to hurt you in the long run.

I hope I doesn't sound too harsh in this post, and that you get this Shiny. We only want you the best, and I, in particular, hope you will have a great futur ahead of you.
 
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My people around me are just not...no.
Have you just been looking at them or have you actually tried to talk with them? And if you are unsure, there are plenty of other people you could get to talk with and know better.
 

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Today in Mandala vs Windows:

>Yesterday the ****er tried to update every hour, I postponed every attempt
>I deleted 20GB in preparation for the update but I want to delete other 20
>Perro, if you could stop with those attempts I could defrag the disk (process takes around 7hrs) in peace to open more necessary space
>I turn on the computer today
>Window pops out: "Imma update in 15 minutes"
>I postpone
>Another window appears: "Imma update by force at 2:48pm"
>No postpone option this time
>All the shutdown options have the "and update" text
>Windows: "Ur mom gay"
>Me: "No u"
>I force shutdown using the power button at 2:47pm
>I reboot at 2:49pm

Succ it, Ventanas
Who’s Mandala? You’re Mythra. :troll:
 

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I got here not long ago so I don't know what's going on, but if you're having a surgery I hope you come out fine too.
Not I - they wouldn't let me near a phone on anaesthesia. Recipe for disaster.

Girlfriend's under the knife. Been in there since 8:30 AM.

Update on that, actually. We know she's officially out of surgery now. Last part took longer than anticipated - was supposed to be an hour and a half, here we are more than two hours later - so just crossing fingers everything wrapped up ok.

Ah. That sounds rough.

redfeatherraven redfeatherraven I hope your girlfriend makes it out OK. That definitely sounds pretty nasty.
See?

Mobile typing folks.

It's s l o w.
 
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Today in Mandala vs Windows:

>Yesterday the ****er tried to update every hour, I postponed every attempt
>I deleted 20GB in preparation for the update but I want to delete other 20
>Perro, if you could stop with those attempts I could defrag the disk (process takes around 7hrs) in peace to open more necessary space
>I turn on the computer today
>Window pops out: "Imma update in 15 minutes"
>I postpone
>Another window appears: "Imma update by force at 2:48pm"
>No postpone option this time
>All the shutdown options have the "and update" text
>Windows: "Ur mom gay"
>Me: "No u"
>I force shutdown using the power button at 2:47pm
>I reboot at 2:49pm

Succ it, Ventanas
I hate it when my windows calls me gay.

Like, I know, alright?

Geez.
 

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Not I - they wouldn't let me near a phone on anaesthesia. Recipe for disaster.

Girlfriend's under the knife. Been in there since 8:30 AM.

Update on that, actually. We know she's officially out of surgery now. Last part took longer than anticipated - was supposed to be an hour and a half, here we are more than two hours later - so just crossing fingers everything wrapped up ok.


See?

Mobile typing folks.

It's s l o w.
here hoping for ya red, after surgery is a ***** as well, keep those fingers crossed well after its all over, get her through this mess!
 
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Not I - they wouldn't let me near a phone on anaesthesia. Recipe for disaster.

Girlfriend's under the knife. Been in there since 8:30 AM.

Update on that, actually. We know she's officially out of surgery now. Last part took longer than anticipated - was supposed to be an hour and a half, here we are more than two hours later - so just crossing fingers everything wrapped up ok.
I really hope your girlfriend turns out okay. :)
CUTENESS OVERLOAD, I REPEAT, CUTENESS OVERLOAD.:4alph:



No, Shiny, nobody but yourself is forcing you to go down this path. And only you can change it.

Let me explain you one thing Shiny. Socializing with others peoples isn't easy, I get it. But here is the thing, you don't need to go, "I must make friends with everyone or else nobody like me!". No, take it easy, start talking with your family, the peoples you know and like, then, try little by little with peoples you see everyday. It is slow, but you will get better at talking in general

For me, for most of my life, I didn't have any friends. I was the weirdo, always doing stuff that nobody understood. I had a mental sickness from birth that make everything for me harder to do. Frankly, I sometime think it's a miracle I am here, talking with you and you all. Without feeling like a stranger or someone who get angry/sad at everything.

The thing is that, I would have never come off of this dark age alone. My parents & my sister and all the peoples who helped me in real life are the reasons I became a better person. Before, I wouldn't talk with peoples and always stayed in my corner, not wanting to be hurt or saying something stupid. Now, I crack joke at peoples at my work or with my family. I go outside alone to get off my computer. I try to do sport from time to time to make sure my health is good. All of this, the old me would have never done.

And I am not making any of this up. This isn't Blue Hunter Z, the guy who always talk too much about Xenoblade 2. This the real person behind the computer, trying to warn you and help you not following the same path as the old me.

Life is hard, and life is only going to be harder as time move on, this is reality. But you are still young Shiny, contrary to alot of us, you have still times to use to be a better person. Do not give up now, do not let a forum make your entire life, do not let your depression take over you. You are going to get hurt no matter path you choose, but trying to be a better person will only help you in the long run. While shutting yourself down is only going to hurt you in the long run.

I hope I doesn't sound too harsh in this post, and that you get this Shiny. We only want you the best, and I, in particular, hope you will have a great futur ahead of you.
Thanks. I do not have the strength to go ask someone. I feel like they are not going to care at all and go on Snapchat and stuff.
You guys on the other hand care. :)
 

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I really hope your girlfriend turns out okay. :)

Thanks. I do not have the strength to go ask someone. I feel like they are not going to care at all and go on Snapchat and stuff.
You guys on the other hand care. :)
We care, yes, but we won't always be here forever. One day, we will go, for any reasons, we won't be here. And once it happen, what will happen to you?

A forum shouldn't be someone life. A forum should be a place where peoples go to make their life a bit better, but not replace it entirely.
 
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You'll never know if you don't ask.
Would it really hurt to try?
Yes, it would.
We care, yes, but we won't always be here forever. One day, we will go, for any reasons, we won't be here. And once it happen, what will happen to you?

A forum shouldn't be someone life. A forum should be a place where peoples go to make their life a bit better, but not replace it entirely.
What will happen to me? O_O
 

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I feel like I must go down this path and see what happens.
Don't do it bro. I used to be and at times am still on that path. You really shouldn't isolate yourself from the world. Humans are social creatures and you must interact with other people face to face. I've been through my periods of suicide in the past due to feeling lonely and useless. I have been lucky enough to find some friends to whom I can always go to when I need something. At times I have my doubts about them but I return to them always. You can't play life in single player, man...
 

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Yes, it would.

What will happen to me? O_O
I let your 3 guesses as to what will happen to you once we are all gone.

Also, you mention you would be hurt. But are the peoples you are talking would truly hurt you? Or are you afraid that you would hurt yourself by trying to talk to them? Because you think you can't have have normal discussion with real peoples?
 
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Guys, I do talk to people. It is just making friends? Nah, do not want those.
I will focus my life on working hard and earning money without friends and children.
 
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Thanks. I do not have the strength to go ask someone. I feel like they are not going to care at all and go on Snapchat and stuff.
You guys on the other hand care. :)
How would you know if you don't even try?

Look, I'm not gonna lie, the world has plenty of unpleasant people in it, and for some of us, trying to interact with certain people can be tough, or it can turn out that you might not be befriending the right kind of people. But that's just life. You can't let bad experiences drag you down in the long run. You have to learn from the experience, leave it in the past, and move on and try again. For some people making friends just comes naturally. With others it'll take more work. You, I think it's gonna take time for you to get there. But believe me, when you've made friends, you'll probably know it. And you won't want to not have friends again afterward. You'll feel more lonely than you probably are now if you lost them.

I barely even know you, but I know that your mindset is the exact opposite of a good and healthy one to have. Your life is going to be a rough one down the road if you're going to be some completely anti-social shut-in.

If you understand that much of the Nintenzone here cares about you, then how about you actually take their advice?
 
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Guys, I do talk to people. It is just making friends? Nah, do not need those.
I will focus my life on working hard and earning money without friends and children.
But is this realistic? How much years can you go on without talking to real peoples?

All you are doing is letting your depression win. Closing yourself to others won't help, it will only get worse.
 
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Yes, it would.
i'm sorry, but you are jumping straight into conclussions, and that's not good. Seriously, just try. Also, I have been told time and time again, that of you want to WORK, it will surely require human interactions, so, get on it, the sooner you do it, the EASIER it is going to be later on.

What will happen to me? O_O
I think it's...kind of obvious.
 

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Guys, I do talk to people. It is just making friends? Nah, do not want those.
I will focus my life on working hard and earning money without friends and children.
dude thats a crappy way
and i know from experience, not myself, but my older brother konnie
works a 12 hour 7days a week job, guy turned into a bitter grumpy qute possibly old man who actual intimidates people apparently
and what he gets out of it is constant exhaustion, horrendous luck, never enough sleep, and sleeping on a couch every single day
people need to live a life, you need to live a life for fun and entertainment and you need to spend that with real human emotions and body language and ****
DON'T EVER BECOME KONNIE, thats an advice i've been telling everyone when they want to work hard at a life, and all it does is shrivle you up, work a good job, don't kill yourself doing a job, and experience the life ya got
 
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i'm sorry, but you are jumping straight into conclussions, and that's not good. Seriously, just try. Also, I have been told time and time again, that of you want to WORK, it will surely require human interactions, so, get on it, the sooner you do it, the EASIER it is going to be later on.
I can interact with humans finely. It is just I do not want to have a "best friend". Friends, sure.
 

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I can interact with humans finely. It is just I do not want to have a "best friend". Friends, sure.
So...that was all the ordeal? If you don't want to have a "best friend" for some reason, alright then. Just don't isolate yourself and don't keep saying you don't want to have ANY, or not even wanting to play a game with your siblings because you want to spend too much time here.
 

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Guys, I do talk to people. It is just making friends? Nah, do not want those.
I will focus my life on working hard and earning money without friends and children.
Okay, I'm going to try this again. Those people you described as the "just...no." I'm going to assume that you're referring to the "cool party people" and that's fine. Stay away from them. That's understandable for an overachiever like yourself. But you can't be the only one taking an honors class. Those type of people you will most likely will be mentioned as valedictorians for having the highest averages in an honor roll ceremony.

Look, my point is that if you're going push yourself in this "isolation phase," you're seriously deriving yourself from any possible form of benefit. If you truly think you can overcome any difficult obstacle alone without any help, you're wrong.

Do you know that having social skills is ALSO required for a job too? Like, I'm taking about basic ones too such as forming positive and strong relationships and being part of a team. Managers are going to want you to have experience based on those because odds are you're likely going to be asked behavioral questions on how you handled this situation with another co-worker. They will be asking this because they want to see if you understand the importance of working in a team.

I know it's already been mentioned Shiny, but please take our advice. We are the older adults after all with the experience to back it up.
 

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@ShinyLegendary I know you like us and all. But we are still strangers on the internet who happen to share a similar interest. It's not the same as being with physical people.

Nothing beats going to a cinema or the zoo with friends. Don't get me started on the amount of fun it is spending a day in a theme park.




Never though i'd be giving advice about friendship of all things...
 
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All right. Maybe next week when I have the time, I am going to try to make a best friend. You all happy?
 

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Man, this soap opera is amazing. :x
were a bunch of grumpy old senors who don't wanna see the youth waste their life with mistakes we made in the past

my opinion, is a beautiful soap opera, thats half a joke half a privilege
 

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Guys, I do talk to people. It is just making friends? Nah, do not want those.
I will focus my life on working hard and earning money without friends and children.
In all seriousness........this is not a good mindset to have.

You don't have to worry or think about having a family until you feel ready for such a thing, but friends are something people of any and all ages should have. If nobody here can convince you right now, then I hope you start to realize the importance and benefits of having them on your own soon.

I can interact with humans finely. It is just I do not want to have a "best friend". Friends, sure.
That's not what you've been saying, though. You've been saying you don't want any friends at all.
 
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Do you know that having social skills is ALSO required for a job too? Like, I'm taking about basic ones too such as forming positive and strong relationships and being part of a team. Managers are going to want you to have experience based on those because odds are you're likely going to be asked behavioral questions on how you handled this situation with another co-worker. They will be asking this because they want to see if you understand the importance of working in a team.

I know it's already been mentioned Shiny, but please take our advice. We are the older adults after all with the experience to back it up.
I have social skills. I talk to strangers when I am in a public area, like school.
It is just I do not want to have a friend.
 

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1: redfeatherraven redfeatherraven I already kinda implied this but I really hope things work out, had a similar situation in November with someone who was practically a second mother. Didn't turn out sadly
2: @ShinyLegendary shut the **** up about not needing friends. Don't you ****ing DARE skim through this and just give me a like without reading it


Sure, friends I made on the net have helped me but what happens if your internet goes out? No access to them! Having friends at school can make you look forward to school and keep you motivated for school. I did EXACTLY what you're planning on doing in high school and did it at my current job for a few months. **** went bad, no motivation to actually go and it was bad for my mental health, and trust me, you don't want to be in a situation where you constantly think "The train station is close, should I make that jump?" for months. I like it here, but I'd gladly choose to never go here again if I had to choose between this place whenever I want or my weekly gatherings with friends, I love Tuesdays more than anything because I know I get to see some of my best friends, and while we argue and a friend of mine is highly aggressive at times, we laugh together when we make dumb jokes, we yell at eachother for dumb **** we do, we scream at eachother when playing Smash because we play with at least 6 people at a time, it's easily the best thing that's happened to me in a while
 

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I can interact with humans finely. It is just I do not want to have a "best friend". Friends, sure.
You don't need to be "best friends" with everyone. Heck, I don't have alot of "best friends" in real life, in fact, I don't have alot of friends in general. But I have peoples at my work who I have a good relationship, we make jokes, we laugh, we talk a little here and there, and that is socializing. Talking to a real human is a different experience than talking with strangers on the internet, and liking this post isn't going to make me happy.
All right. Maybe next week when I have the time, I am going to try to make a best friend. You all happy?
Read to rest of my post and:

No, I am not happy, and I won't be until you are happy with real peoples.
 
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