My parents, do not let me go to tournaments out of city or state, period.
I've always wanted to go to one of those bigger tournaments, but I'm just at an age where everything is a down side for me because of what I can't do (I'm 14). With my parents that don't understand me when I'm trying to convince them that I want to go out and smash at a big tournament, They tell it isn't worth it. I can't benefit from it. I'm pretty sure, if I would be able to compete in more tournaments, I could be just as good as the usual ranking player (But what I'm saying is probably bull, why would someone believe this).
As for what I know, I've gotten as far as I had with the support of my friends and neighbors. I can't go to big tournaments that are way out of city/town/state, but I can pay visit some friends to smash. I have also made some progress in my smashing with local/area/store tournaments. The summer of 6th grade for me(2004?), was the time where I had spent all summer practicing technical things and actually getting good at the game. Though I never have a daily opponent, I've made all my progress off CPUs and Training Mode. You're probably thinking, "what a scrub," but it was the truth. I had no one else literally.
It's not really the money that's in concern for me going, but just things that would get in the way suchs as parents. Parents want their children to be safe. Parents want us home, doing productive things. It's going to be a long 4 years until I can start driving unfortunatly. There were many big tournaments I could make, but my parents are just saying it isn't worth the time and money.
I'm not sure if I'll ever be a tournament going smasher. It has been my passion to do that but is has had many bad turn downs and hard emotions at times. After discoverying the fun of Smash, my life had been difficult wanting to be a competetive smasher and going out of my city, but not being fit. Not having things supporting, but things denying.
I do hope, one day, I would be known as one competetive player. This whole post probably didn't sound important, and you're probably thinking this is just another random post, blah blah. I really wanted to smash. I really wanted to be good. I really wanted to participate in big tournaments. But I can't. I can't deny it.