Elyssa Xey Hexen
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A number of months ago I recall a conversation I had with a physician about death and coping with the fears of it. The overall advice she was selling was to put the thoughts to the back of my mind. To think of other things in place of the original fears.
While contemplating about this method, it occurs to me that while this might be a good strategy for a number of decades, it will eventually be unavoidable. Everyone dies and there is no escape from that thought.
Therefore, while one still has many years ahead of them, would it beneficial to start a long journey into accepting and coping with the thought of one's own death or to continually ignore it?
I would purpose it is beneficial to confront it early. What does ignoring your own death provide? For one, it might be a relieve on the mind each day. Fewer things on the mind tends to remedy stress. On the other hand, facing death with purpose might add drive to one's life.
What might be a way with coping with death? Purpose by resolving the fact that one will die, but find recollection and relieve in the fact that life will continue on. Or while the flesh no longer lives, a biography or child and others you know still live on. By doing so, perhaps you work harder to achieve these end of life goals. You work harder to try leaving an imprint in the world that might benefit others.
Does anyone have any benefits to ignoring your death until much, much later in life? Perhaps more to add the opposite?
While contemplating about this method, it occurs to me that while this might be a good strategy for a number of decades, it will eventually be unavoidable. Everyone dies and there is no escape from that thought.
Therefore, while one still has many years ahead of them, would it beneficial to start a long journey into accepting and coping with the thought of one's own death or to continually ignore it?
I would purpose it is beneficial to confront it early. What does ignoring your own death provide? For one, it might be a relieve on the mind each day. Fewer things on the mind tends to remedy stress. On the other hand, facing death with purpose might add drive to one's life.
What might be a way with coping with death? Purpose by resolving the fact that one will die, but find recollection and relieve in the fact that life will continue on. Or while the flesh no longer lives, a biography or child and others you know still live on. By doing so, perhaps you work harder to achieve these end of life goals. You work harder to try leaving an imprint in the world that might benefit others.
Does anyone have any benefits to ignoring your death until much, much later in life? Perhaps more to add the opposite?