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Connecticut Player Finder: We're better than you <3
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Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
oh just like I never see some of my best friends unless I take the initiative and say "let's hang out at this specific time, at your place." Literally the only way I can see them. one way. Just annoying is all.
With the exception of bro weekends in Connecticut, all of my friendships are like this.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
Doesn't it get frustrating? Like... why do WE have to be THOSE people?
Because everyone knows that Ryans are the best and they have to wait for us to give their lives meaning.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
...I just found my new life philosophy. *high five*
lol. Seriously though, I haven't found a good way to talk that sort of issue out so I just don't say anything and cut back on my effort in the friendship to see if they'll pick up the slack. If they don't, it sucks but it usually means they don't value the friendship as much as I need them to for it to be something worthwhile in my life. If they call up and are like, "hey, how come I nevar see you anymore!?" just tell them that you've been busy and tired with **** but that you'd love to hang out if they can come to <insert convenient location for yourself here>.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
the insecure ***** in me thinks that if I did this, all my friends would just stop talking to me because they don't really like me.
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
:3 But they do like you buddy!the insecure ***** in me thinks that if I did this, all my friends would just stop talking to me because they don't really like me.
>_> Does the relationship seem like something that would end any time soon?
-DD
yea, I understand the feeling, but I guess I just got over it. I think I just told myself that it was better to be a confident guy that no one likes rather than an insecure ***** who no one likes but they're willing to hang out with him anyway since he makes it so dern convenient for them.the insecure ***** in me thinks that if I did this, all my friends would just stop talking to me because they don't really like me.
HollaAtchaBoy
Smash Master
I just keep on it. If my friends truly want to hang out, we make it happen. I just reconnected with a kid I knew from back in pre-school that I hadn't seen since I went to college. Turns out he's just getting into the drum and bass scene. I go over to his place, drop like fifty gigs of music on him, we catch up, play Halo, and he may start playing Smash.
Look at the bevy of potential awesome things that can happen when you're persistent.
Look at the bevy of potential awesome things that can happen when you're persistent.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
I dunno...why don't you ask...YOUR MOMMMM (because your Mom is the friend I'm talking about)
haha I'm actually a little worried that I come off as an arsehole because I am confident and opinionated and really sarcastic. It's a great combination.
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
D: Oh nooooooo!
My mom goes out all the time with people though. :[
And wtf @ the thought of my mom being a hipster.
Tone down the sarcasm and you look less like a ****.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
A friend at work here apparently wears contacts and she forgot them today and walks in with the most giant hipster glasses ever and I'm just like ಠ_ಠ
sarcasm is my like defining characteristic...I'd be lost without it. LOST.
sarcasm is my like defining characteristic...I'd be lost without it. LOST.
Smooth Criminal
Da Cheef
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
this is my interpretation of lost:
AxelSlam
Smash Ace
don't be taken my business boy
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
Yo this was totes my idea son.
Ryann and I ran train on the ticket sharing business last year.
And now that she's out of the picture I stand to make more profits.
Mwahahaha.
-DD
S l o X
Smash Champion
anyone still up for smashfest in stratford manana?
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
Squirrels are cheeky little jerks.
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
squirrels are ****ing awesome. they run on power lines like they don't give a ****
AxelSlam
Smash Ace
dude i totally did that last year
and i made mad loot son
also
this thread broke 1mil views. ****
and i made mad loot son
also
this thread broke 1mil views. ****
Zombie Lucille Ball
Smash Master
S l o X
Smash Champion
that's really disturbing.
Ryan, I don't think it's necessarily a matter of them valuing the friendship less than you. Some people really are just lazy/perfectly content to hang out at home all the time, but if you're actually worried that they secretly hate you or whatever, realize that if you bring it up with them, it's likely to backfire when you come off as needy/insecure. Although, I do agree that no friendship is probably better than a one-sided friendship.
Also, intentionally withdrawing would be completely backwards. "None of my friends ever try to hang out with me so I will change this by never trying to hang out with them." wut
Also, intentionally withdrawing would be completely backwards. "None of my friends ever try to hang out with me so I will change this by never trying to hang out with them." wut
Hazygoose
Smash Lord
as someone who loves my friends but is often very ****ty about contacting most of them, just be candid about it - try to find an appropriate time to bring it up, and just say "hey i'm always the one who calls, you should call more"
if they're like "sorry yes i suck, i'll keep in contact better" it'd be pretty safe to assume they're the same way...if they do the whole "well...i've been busy" routine there's a much larger chance they aren't prioritizing you as high as you are them, and in that case it's your call to make if you want to put the effort in for someone who consciously won't do the same.
if they're like "sorry yes i suck, i'll keep in contact better" it'd be pretty safe to assume they're the same way...if they do the whole "well...i've been busy" routine there's a much larger chance they aren't prioritizing you as high as you are them, and in that case it's your call to make if you want to put the effort in for someone who consciously won't do the same.
Hazygoose
Smash Lord
arbitrarily confrontational as per usual, i see
AxelSlam
Smash Ace
yes, shallow and pedantic
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
Hazygoose
Smash Lord
oh mike, i miss you
nick! i heard you played some ok smash players in lol, ha 22222 goot
nick! i heard you played some ok smash players in lol, ha
22222 goot
S l o X
Smash Champion
#1 Akali, obviously.
DarkDragoon
Smash Champion
Not even close, I'm afraid. I get too ahead of myself sometimes.
:3 Yeah!oh mike, i miss you
nick! i heard you played some ok smash players in lol, ha
I thought of you.<3
We played more smashers today too, one was from CT but I never met/ heard of him before. :\
-DD
HollaAtchaBoy
Smash Master
What is up with all the Peter Dinklage avatars?
most horrifying bathroom ever:
