Oh well... for me playing to win is for example pick falcon and always do uair combos... Or pick Pikachu and Kirby and spam the broken moves. Secure wins...
I play to have fun (but still trying to win), so what i do is pick almost every char even if i have to lose some matches with my worse chars.
There's no point playing to win with a low level strategy like spamming moves. Anybody who plays falcon will use upair, and grab, a lot. They're his best moves. Using ONLY those moves or something is obvious, obvious is predictible, predictible is bad and gets you dead.
I mean I guess it can be fun online since with the delay and everything utilt camping and everything is a lot more effective but I just plain will play vs someone else if I don't find it fun.
Yes, I do play MATTS! because I don't johnz with him and he don't johnz with me. He never made a video of him OWNING me with a matts combo
Point being, this game is for fun and you let anything get in the way of that and you're not open to learning new stuff then you can't really be good at smash and you will find the game VERY frustrating.
This applies to just about every competitive video-game.
Also a good anti-john thing to tell yourself when you get killed in an annoying way for example utilt to bair to dair ownage vs a good kirby. Just tell yourself the point of the game is to knock the other person off the screen in anyway possible, it doesn't matter how just do it and don't bi**ch.