The Unhappy Thread

[BlueX]

Thanks, I'll get over it sooner or later. Living with a 5 year old niece is difficult because I always get blamed for her shortcomings and when she doesn't get her way, she calls me 'mean' (which is typical for a 5 year old, I know) but it gets worse when my parents automatically take her side without hearing my side of the story.

Why do parents do this?

I am really sorry that you have to deal with this.

 

[Elin]

Well you shouldn't believe that. No one is ever above nor below anyone else. Your sister has her skillset and traits and you have yours. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

Not until you see her onestock me again because she's so ****ing perfect. I think the only thing she isn't good at is geometry. Which isn't saying much because I struggle with algebra, which is supposed to be easier than this!

I've come to accept that some are created superior in this stupid little world.

 

[Murlough]

Not until you see her onestock me again because she's so ****ing perfect. I think the only thing she isn't good at is geometry. Which isn't saying much because I struggle with algebra, which is supposed to be easier than this!

I've come to accept that some are created superior in this stupid little world.

Hmm. Well maybe later on in life when you both move out you'll see you have just as much in you as your sister. Yeah siblings suck sometimes and parents do have trouble with favoratism. You just gotta be strong and tough it out for the time you have to deal with it. Suicide won't answer anything. If anything it'll give your sister leverage in the afterlife if you believe in one.

Try to be the bigger person and I think you'll prove to your family one day how wrong they are about you. That is what fuels me anyway. When someone tells you that "you can't" and it makes you angry, think of the amazing feeling you'll get at seeing thier expression when you prove them wrong.

 

[Elin]

Hmm. Well maybe later on in life when you both move out you'll see you have just as much in you as your sister. Yeah siblings suck sometimes and parents do have trouble with favoratism. You just gotta be strong and tough it out for the time you have to deal with it. Suicide won't answer anything. If anything it'll give your sister leverage in the afterlife if you believe in one.

Try to be the bigger person and I think you'll prove to your family one day how wrong they are about you. That is what fuels me anyway. When someone tells you that "you can't" and it makes you angry, think of the amazing feeling you'll get at seeing thier expression when you prove them wrong.

What's funny is we're twins. Yet we're absolutely nothing alike.

For example, in Smash she prefers fast character like Pikachu and Fox. As for me, I like 'em floaty.

Since fast characters are always top tier, I think that's why she's beating me.

 

[Murlough]

What's funny is we're twins. Yet we're absolutely nothing alike.

For example, in Smash she prefers fast character like Pikachu and Fox. As for me, I like 'em floaty.

Since fast characters are always top tier, I think that's why she's beating me.

That could very well be it. XD

If you really want to beat her a smash then just practice more than she does. I don't know much about melee so I can't help a whole lot there.

 

[Elin]

That could very well be it. XD

If you really want to beat her a smash then just practice more than she does. I don't know much about melee so I can't help a whole lot there.

It's actually the first game.

I do main a top tier, but still, Kirby has a rough matchup with Pikachu.

 

[Murlough]

It's actually the first game.

I do main a top tier, but still, Kirby has a rough matchup with Pikachu.

Oh, 64. He I know next to nothing about that game. Good luck with beating your sister though!

 

[Scarlet Knight]

Looks like I'm not the only one here that has family issues...

I am the "accident" of the family
So I get the "you don't exist" treatment

 

[Deleted member 269706]

Ugh, I always hated it when people said, "I was never enough" or something along the lines of that. I always thought it was among the stupidest phrases out there, if not at the top of the list. Anyone who thought it was just dumb or silly...And now that's the only phrase that can even describe what I'm feeling. Isnt it funny how insensitivity tends to stab us in the back?

 

[Murlough]

Ugh, I always hated it when people said, "I was never enough" or something along the lines of that. I always thought it was among the stupidest phrases out there, if not at the top of the list. Anyone who thought it was just dumb or silly...And now that's the only phrase that can even describe what I'm feeling. Isnt it funny how insensitivity tends to stab us in the back?

I don't know the situation but whatever happened try to use that to make next time a victory. Just keep on moving forward.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

My friend told me about a job that became available at his work and it looked like a good opportunity

I had the right experience and all that

He told me the emails for people were sent out today, and asked if I received one

...whelp, looks like I didn't make it. They were sent out today, and I didn't get one

 

[Deleted member]

Jealously is an awful feeling and I hate it. I'm sick of being jealous of other people.

 

[Froggy]

My top 3ds screen began malfunctioning today, gotta find time to go to gamestop and cash in on my warranty.

There is no warm water in my apartment. Gotta put in a maintenance order.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

I am having such a terrible time trying to figure out DOSBOX

It's in directory Z:

Which I didn't even know existed

It would be a simple task if I could just get it to look through C:

 

[Rie Sonomura]

I just found out my father has COPD...is it fatal? Because if so and combined with his history of (now treated) prostate cancer and Parkinson's and almost dying from gallbladder stones two years ago...I fear he might not have long to live.

After my last failed relationship, I had hoped he would at least be around for when (and if) I ever get married and/or have a kid. He's been through the bigger milestones of my life though like graduating college. But...dammit I'm still not ready for the thought of losing him I still think 26 is too young to lose a parent. Doesn't help that both of my parents are elders...

-edit- spoke to dad. He says it's not true but I really need to know the truth from mom as she said it to someone that he had COPD, which may or may not be true now, in a phone call. If she's just casually throwing that term around not knowing how serious it is I swear

-edit 2- he does indeed have COPD but it's not as bad as how my late grandmother had it and he's managing it. But still...

 

[Elin]

I somehow got premium membership today. This should be happy but I feel I don't deserve it. I'm rather new, and haven't done anything to write home about on this board.

 

[BlueX]

I somehow got premium membership today. This should be happy but I feel I don't deserve it. I'm rather new, and haven't done anything to write home about on this board.

I have seen some members getting premium on the day they have joined.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

One of the worst days of my life

One bit of it - The person using my work station before me at work had an eye infection and was leaking green slime out of it all over everything. Good thing they decided to tell me and disinfect the area...3 hours after I already worked using everything

 

[Froggy]

I was late for work today because I was up last night baking a chicken for breakfast and lunch today. I got to serve myself this morning and I find the plastic gilbet bag s in there. I do some research and learned I can't eat the chicken now because the plastic bag melted so the chicken is now contiminated with harmful chemicals. This really pisses me off.

 

[AnchorTea]

I can smell weed in my house almost every day. What should I do?

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

The moment when people give you the advice "If "x" person wanted to talk with you, they'd message you. So you don't message them and you realize they really aren't going to message you.

 

[Elin]

The moment when people give you the advice "If "x" person wanted to talk with you, they'd message you. So you don't message them and you realize they really aren't going to message you.

Exactly my life.

 

[2thesky]

Hey, everyone. I'm new to this site and the Smash community as a whole. But I saw this thread and thought maybe I could get some help.

My life is literally falling apart at the seams. Everything I've ever worked towards is gone, my family is seperated and hates each other. My dad was never there for me, and when he finally came around. He was nothing but a scumbag who doesn't care about me or what happens to me. I've been trying to pull myself out of this hole of partying and drugs that I've dug myself into. I'd like to go into more detail about this if anyone out there would be cool enough to talk to me about it. Cause no one here cares enough to give me even a second to talk about my problems, even though I take the time out of my day to listen to their woes and worries. I have no one who likes the things that I do, plays the games that I do, listens to my kind of music, watches the movies I like to watch. I'm a black sheep in just about everything.

On a side note, is PMing possible on here? I'm pretty clueless on a lot of this.

 

[Scarlet Knight]

Hey, everyone. I'm new to this site and the Smash community as a whole. But I saw this thread and thought maybe I could get some help.

My life is literally falling apart at the seams. Everything I've ever worked towards is gone, my family is seperated and hates each other. My dad was never there for me, and when he finally came around. He was nothing but a scumbag who doesn't care about me or what happens to me. I've been trying to pull myself out of this hole of partying and drugs that I've dug myself into. I'd like to go into more detail about this if anyone out there would be cool enough to talk to me about it. Cause no one here cares enough to give me even a second to talk about my problems, even though I take the time out of my day to listen to their woes and worries. I have no one who likes the things that I do, plays the games that I do, listens to my kind of music, watches the movies I like to watch. I'm a black sheep in just about everything.

On a side note, is PMing possible on here? I'm pretty clueless on a lot of this.

Yes, PMing is possible here

 

[2thesky]

Yes, PMing is possible here

Well, awesome. One step closer to learning, I suppose

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

Spent my time working toward a degree that's useless

Failed love

Failed attempts at getting a better job

Early this year I was so intent on writing my book that I've wanted to for a while. But after all the other problems started coming up I haven't really worked on it since. Even if I do finish it, it's not like it would be some super popular thing people like - at most it would be a personal achievement.

I don't know know what to do anymore.

I'm sick of this stagnation. I thought I was actually advancing my life this year. That I could actually achieve something...

 

[Elin]

My mom lost something that's so important for my choir class.

She's so ****ing irresponsible. How can I tell my choir teacher?

 

[Pega-pony Princess]

Well I just found out something that ruined my day. Got an F on my math test in college. As if I didn't have enough to deal with.

 

[Elin]

Well I just found out something that ruined my day. Got an F on my math test in college. As if I didn't have enough to deal with.

Can't be as bad as getting nonstop Ds every test you take.

You'll get better grades, I'm sure. You're actually smart.

 

[~Skelly~]

So, do we post something unhappy here? Very well.

21 years old and I never had a girlfriend despite having a great personality, being pretty decent looking and other positive traits.

Then again, I never try and hit on girls due to fear of being already taken and other such things. I might need some outside influence...

 

[Scarlet Knight]

So, do we post something unhappy here? Very well.

21 years old and I never had a girlfriend despite having a great personality, being pretty decent looking and other positive traits.

Then again, I never try and hit on girls due to fear of being already taken and other such things. I might need some outside influence...

We share the same fear...

 

[Buffoon]

Saw my work schedule today, found out I'm working 8 sodding days in a row.

...Bring it on...

 

[~Skelly~]

We share the same fear...

Which is why I may have to resort to having a friend hook me up. My brother's girlfriend tried hooking me up some time ago but I turned it down.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

So, do we post something unhappy here? Very well.

21 years old and I never had a girlfriend despite having a great personality, being pretty decent looking and other positive traits.

Then again, I never try and hit on girls due to fear of being already taken and other such things. I might need some outside influence...

Try being 30 without having a girlfriend ever

That'll be in 5 months

 

[MewtwoMaster2002]

Try being 30 without having a girlfriend ever

That'll be in 5 months

I know a guy who didn't have his first girlfriend until 36. He ended up marrying her. She's younger than him too.

I'm unhappy because I don't know in which direction I should take my life...career-wise.

 

[Darth Tobito]

I'm glad I found this thread because I needed a place to vent how I felt about today. My grades in college are kinda eh right now along with me just not knowing what to do career wise. This girl I thought I hit it off with just randomly stopped replying to me so that kinda sucks. I like to play Smash as a way to feel better but after getting bodied by all my friends during the past week, I've been considering dropping my main because I'm just so prone to SDs and it's taking a toll on my mentality when playing.

I feel like I don't know where to go in any aspect of my life right now; be it love, work, or hobbies. My job sucks in both the work and pay because I get so few hours and a lot of work to do during that time. I'm almost constantly broke and I've been wanting to move out for a while now. Going on 21 soon and I'm on the no girlfriend train.

So there's that.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

Is it ok to just not take any action if you don't know what action to take?

 

[Scarlet Knight]

Which is why I may have to resort to having a friend hook me up. My brother's girlfriend tried hooking me up some time ago but I turned it down.

If I do somehow get a gf, It will be her making the first move, not me xD

 

[Deleted member]

The moment when people give you the advice "If "x" person wanted to talk with you, they'd message you. So you don't message them and you realize they really aren't going to message you.

Now that you mention it, this is one of the problems I've been getting as of lately.

 

[Frizz]

Now that you mention it, this is one of the problems I've been getting as of lately.

Same. On Steam, it's usually me who starts the conversation; my friends rarely start the conversation for me. The only exception to this is when they want to show me something. Is it really too much to ask for the interest in talking with me to be returned?