The plight of trans folk doesn't even end in the household. I can imagine how this all feels to you and I'm sorry. If you want or need another girl friend in your life to help you through it, I'm willing to give it a shot.
In other news, I spent approximately 15.5 hours creating this:
It was hell. I barely managed to get through it at all without some constant encouragement from a friend. However, I'm glad that I did. This is character art for an original character of mine. I took inspiration for her design from multiple places, primarily because when I tried searching for exotic and fancy princess dresses literally nothing in real life could trump video games. |D The writing behind her character is a click of her picture away.
GTA 5 is the only GTA game I don't have, and I occasionally--only occasionally regret it. vwv