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So, I'm pretty sure I'm a bad kisser, any tips?

Rici

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He actually was, for you non-believers.
 
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Darqhart

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jepepper said:
Long story short, last night I hooked up with a girl for the first time in... oh, five years I think, and I really had trouble connecting. I don't know if she was being nice or just a skank but, after the first 10 seconds of lip action, she shoved her tongue down my throat, and I kind of had no idea what was going on, so I just went with it. The kiss was relatively short, because I was dropping her off with her friend and it was as she was getting out of the car, so I'm just going with the worst and assuming she broke it off early because I have no idea how to kiss.

I want to avoid situations like that, where the girl leads and I follow. That shows inexperience, and I'm pretty self conscious about that kind of stuff. Should I just kind of do my own thing? You know, experiment until I'm comfortable, even if it may ruin a few hookups?

I really want to nail the art of kissing. All the girls I'm friends with, which is about two hundred times the amount I've hooked up with, all tell me about how kissing is so important and how it can steer the course of any relationship or future hookup.


I'm 18, by the way, I can post pics of myself and her if you really want to see them.
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The reason she cut it short, and I know I don't know her but I do know enough about women to tell you this, is you didn't reciprocate. Instead you went with the flow, think of it as one upping her. Women, for the most part, who are assertive like men who are more assertive then them.

Work things into your favor to get another date with her, or hell, tell her the truth and ask her to help teach you how to kiss. You would be AMAZED how the direct approach works, women, just like men; can tell when you are ***** footing around. Neither sexes like it...

Oh, kissing is easy; aim for the lips and match her lips. If she opens her mouth wider, you open your mouth wider. Play with her tongue with your tongue, if she shoves her tongue all the way to the back of your throat; she is an inexperienced kisser.

I could go on and on about this, but I will leave you with those tidbits.
 
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Cookiez

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LOL This just reminded me of my first kiss. I ended up clanking teeth with my gf, was the most hideously embarrassing thing ever.

Luckily i've improved... :chuckle:

It's already been stated however, you won't become a great kisser by reading up, it's something you need to experience.
 
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