Say thank or good job every now and then.

[INSANE CARZY GUY]

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Part of the reason why I am insane is because as a small(if not smallest)child no one ever said good job or anything like that. In a school play my dad told me I did bad and wasn't even singing and even yelled me over, i was 6. He did that at chruch to why I rarly go anymore. No one would ever say good job. Today I can't think of myself as good at anything. I when I paint I see it as if someone took a S*** on some paper even if I am told it's really good. I still think I am short even when I am taller than some of my friends I see them as taller. That plus being insane turns even good times into the same feeling. Just when someone says nice drawing it touches me even when my mind yells otherwise.

I doubt I will ever me able to say I am proved of what I make.

It means something to someone so please every now and then just give some one a pat on the back.

 

[Hyper_Ridley]

I can relate to that.

I do the right thing 100 times...no response.

I do it wrong once...my parents act like I commited a felony.

 

[Kinzer]

It's a cold, lonely world out there, and you'll have to get used to it.

That's why I always strive to do better even though I get complimented, because I think everything I do is stupid, meaningless, s***, blah blah blah.

Reality is not everybody is willing to go out of their way to make you happy, you will have to do it yourself.

In fact you should go watch the ending of that one Futurama episode where Bender met "God", the stellar system acting as God made a very nice quote.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

You've gotten better on posting. Good job.
I can relate to that too.

I can relate to that.

I do the right thing 100 times...no response.

I do it wrong once...my parents act like I commited a felony.

I'm exactly the same.

I'll tell you this: Compliments never hurt.
That's the reason you still feel good despite the fact that you think otherwise. It's a good thing that you get praised for something you do though... I don't think that I'm either good in sprites nor drawing, but some people compliment me on those. It makes me feel as good as you do at these moments.

And you're not insane. You've got complexes and low self-esteem. I know all about it.
Just strive to get better for your own. You might reach a point where you'll think: Hey, I'm not half that bad!

 

[INSANE CARZY GUY]

No what pushed me was my step-brother he treated our little brother like **** and everyone esle. I wanted to rip out his organs because he was a waste of F***ing life when there were people who are dieing in need of organs. I even picked out A knife to use. Again just part of the reason and I could never kill/hurt anyone without going through more than one can take. I just beat my self up on the inside really bad anymore.

thanks

 

[RyuReiatsu]

You still need to work on your grammar and sentences.
I seem more fluent than you despite the fact that I don't use english in my everyday life except on forums.

On-topic, I'm not sure I've understood. But from what I can see, you're classifying yourself as insane because you wanted to kill your step-brother? I actually wanted to kill my father with a baseball bat. He treated my mom and my siblings like ****. Does that make me insane? Not really. I've dreamed of the worst scenario possible, making me wake up with the biggest smile I could ever have. Oh and I've threatened him the last times I've seen him.

 

[INSANE CARZY GUY]

I know when I can't win. Fine I,m noncrazy sane guy.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

I know when I can't win. Fine I,m noncrazy sane guy.

Totally, you're not crazy.
You might have some traumas regarding stuffs that happened in your life.
Developing complexes and losing self-esteem. Just keep on doing whatever you like, maybe check on a psychologist if you want to get better.

 

[bobson]

It means something to someone so please every now and then just give some one a pat on the back.

when I paint I see it as if someone took a S*** on some paper even if I am told it's really good.

Sure sounds like it means something.

 

[INSANE CARZY GUY]

nice. but you know I mean don't tell 6 year olds there picture isn't good. I have it engraved into my mind. But for a min. I pull out of my habit. lol once I even cried. It feels good, know you don't suck and someone cares.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

Still stands: Compliments never hurt.
Go for a doctor I say.

 

[bobson]

Still stands: Compliments never hurt.

Overcomplimenting is the worst thing you can do to an artist.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

Overcomplimenting is the worst thing you can do to an artist.

Bobson, I wish at times that you weren't as clever .
I've overlooked that factor. But anyways, I should've specified better.
I meant that true compliments never hurt. When people overcompliment, that's because it's not really what they feel/not true.

 

[¯\_S.(ツ).L.I.D._/¯]

Overcomplimenting is the worst thing you can do to an artist.

He's not an artist.

He was 6.

 

[bobson]

He's not an artist.

He was 6.

True statement: Needlessly putting down a six-year-old is a bad thing.
False statement: Compliments never hurt.

 

[lax guy5]

I can relate to that.

I do the right thing 100 times...no response.

I do it wrong once...my parents act like I commited a felony.

I totally know what you mean!!!! Same here dude!

Cool blog post btw.

 

[Sosuke]

*pat on the back*

 

[REL38]

Overcomplementing = Pity

No one likes to recieve pity because it just brings them down even more.

 

[INSANE CARZY GUY]

Not saying complement every single person you see but sometimes. And don't sound like a 1st grade teacher, you know why.