Relationship Help? Solice? Spill your guts!

[lain]

Hey there. Pretty sure there's no topic about this.

I find that dealing with relationship problems or tough times are easier when there are people to listen.

I recently (today) broke up with my girlfriend. Probably the worst thing I've gone through thus far.

 

[Mith_]

Sucks man. I'm lookin for a GF now but school is more important.

 

[lain]

That's partly it. I need to focus on life and getting my **** done (I'm a freshman in college).

But I guess I got bored ya know? I admit, it's been the longest run thus far, but ultimately I got bored. This seems to always happen to me. : /

I feel like such a horrible person for doing it too. She didn't have any friends at her college, and basically only had me and her family. Plus I did it almost out of the blue. sighhh i hate myself forever. haha. But I knew I had to do it soon, cause I didn't want to lead her on. I just feel bad about her own well-being.

 

[OmegaXXII]

Yea, it's definetly rough, but there's a saying: there are plenty of fish in the sea meaning you shouldn't feel so bad about this relationship, instead of feeling grief, try to move forward and hope you'll find another mate out there someday.

 

[lain]

I don't feel remorse for breaking up. I feel remorse for almost leaving her alone, bound to be more miserable then she was beforehand.

 

[Mith_]

I hope you told her lets just be friends, because if you left her out like that on her own then you suck xD.

I'm a freshman in college too, and I haven't met anybody new that I could truly call my "friend". It kinda sucks sometimes, so I kinda know how she feels lol.

 

[Sporkman]

Nothing to worry about lad, as long as you've got money you'll get another one!

 

[Azua]

Just so you know, topics like this haven't worked out well in the past.

If this turns into another 'women want ____' thread, it's getting closed.



The way you did it didn't really sound like it was the greatest [but then again, what is?], but it's good that you decided not to lead her on - that would be far worse, imo.
People are resilient, though, this might even help her develop social skills as a way of coping with it.

 

[lain]

This is what I considered. :D

I hope it doesn't turn into that kinda thread haha.

 

[Canvasofgrey]

You have plenty of time to find the right person for you. Don't rush with love.

 

[samalamading]

It is horrible when you break up with a guy. But I get over it quickly. I hate breaking up with girls, because not every girl is gay or bi. So your wondering if their is gonna be other.

Through experience with some of my friends, a break up for a guy can be just as bad or even worse for girls if the guy truly loves you. My best friend thats a guy broke up with a girl who he had been trying to get with her for over a year, nearly O.D. on anti-depresants.

 

[Zook]

I'm lucky that women in general find me repulsive. I'll never have to endure the pain of getting my heart stamped on by an ex-girlfriend during my high school years!

Also, I honestly don't think I'm ready for a relationship.

 

[XACE-K]

I had a gf before the summer of 8th grade. We got to know each other, went on dates, and we had a relationship. But than she started to act w****-ish and I had to break up with her. And 2 months after school started, she moved and I moved on. I didn't get depreesed about it probably because I didn't truly like her. *shrugs*

Now, I'm looking for a gf. Problem is, all the girls I know I have no chance with, are okay looking, or I need to know them better.

 

[Waluigi911]

8th grade? A bit early to be getting into a relationship, don'tcha think? T'ain't stuff to be taken lightly.

If this turns into another 'women want ____' thread, it's getting closed.

Women want mah munny!



Azua edit: /slap

 

[Kinzer]

I'm lucky that women in general find me repulsive. I'll never have to endure the pain of getting my heart stamped on by an ex-girlfriend during my high school years!

Also, I honestly don't think I'm ready for a relationship.

WEEE!

*coughthat'sactuallythewayIfeel/thinkaswell...isthereaforcedspacesomewherehere?cough*

Women want mah munny!

Azua edit: /slap

We need a face slapping emoticon.

Also Lol.

 

[Waluigi911]

Owchies.

Anyways, I wouldn't be surprised if many people on here fall into that category of awkward and not the best-looking in his (or her, heaven forbid) class. Many of them find solace (this is the proper spelling, btw... I'm a grammar Nazi) in nerdy things like video games, and some of those people get into Smash communities. Granted, there are studs here as well. *points to self* But, that's just the general concept. Online communities can't see your face, and it's just easier to get along with people through words, rather than face-to-face when all you can think about is whether or not they think you're ugly or your fly's down or your hair's not right, or if only you could get your hands on some Pantene Pro-V or... etc.

That might've been a little random, but... yeah... We serve a purpose. And while it's not good to regress into your computer and avoid any possible (or further, for some cases) confrontations of awkwardness and such, it is good to have faceless people who can judge you according to who you are, not how you look. There is a good balance for everything, I'm sure we all know.

 

[choknater]

Good that Azua is a mod here. The internetz

Spoiler

(aka loser men)

have no respect for women.

lain: So the feelings just sorta faded, eh? Initial passion can last, but sometimes it's hard for it to last through life's times of monotony. Well, that's good you care for her well-being. Do you plan to still be her friend after this or what?

 

[Mith_]

I'm lucky that women in general find me repulsive. I'll never have to endure the pain of getting my heart stamped on by an ex-girlfriend during my high school years!

Also, I honestly don't think I'm ready for a relationship.

I tried to think the same thing but truly I was just masking my sadness from see douchebag guys getting all the attention from the decent ladies.

 

[Kinzer]

Online communities can't see your face, and it's just easier to get along with people through words, rather than face-to-face whe all you can think about is whether or not they think you're ugly or your fly's down or your hair's not right, or if only you could get your hands on some Pantene Pro-V or... etc.

You claim to be a Grammar Nazi, but you let this slide?

I don't know what is anymore...

Good that Azua is a mod here. The internetz

Spoiler

(aka loser men)

have no respect for women.

This is... sadly true... *sigh*.

I'm glad they're a minority though! (oh btw to avoid any confusion, I meant the jerks, not the women.)

I tried to think the same thing but truly I was just masking my sadness from see douchebag guys getting all the attention from the decent ladies.

That is somewhat on the mark as well...*cough* ... d***it...

 

[ama(m/t)]

Aw man I haven't seen high school girls in forever

 

[lain]

Woopsies didn't realize this thread had some life in it.

 

[Mith_]

Well it did but you left for a while

 

[lain]

lol. yeah. it's hard to keep those feelings for a long time. you get bored. *shrugs*

whatevz. i got 3rd at this past huge canada tourney! yayyyy

 

[Waluigi911]

Uh... So, would this be considered spilling your guts?

 

[McFox]

I hope you told her lets just be friends, because if you left her out like that on her own then you suck xD.

As less-guilty as this makes you feel, that doesn't necessarily make it the correct course of action.

Trust me.

 

[Eor]

It's obvious that all women want is a strong man to do everything for them because they're weak animals who only exist for male pleasures and to be servants to him.

Now, the best way to get women is to prove that you're the strongest man of the pack. I use the word pack because women are weak animals and therefore only think in animalistic ways. To assert your dominance there are several different things you could do. One popular example is to take the initiative, and immediately drug her drink. This is to "mark" your target, so other men know to stay away.

After you have proven your position as pack leader, it's time to use this position to attract a female. Some people say you should be charming, but they've obviously never encountered the female creature. The best way is to be direct and showcase raw sexuality. Another popular example is the pick up line "I like your breasts, I want to take your clothes off and sodomize you"

By this point she should either be "all over you", or sleeping if you did the first example. Either way, this is the point where you take her back to your lair to ravage her.

Now, for sex, it gets tricky. Some say it's a magical act. This is false. It is a rugged and horrid affair between a swamp of evil and the a righteous lance that cleanses the power of Satan out of her body (metaphorically, that is). Do not show mercy, do not show restraint.

Afterwards she'll probably attempt to engage in something they call "cuddling". This is done so their weak minds can recuperate after the previous events. Women need encouragement during this stage so their minds can return to previous levels and pass as a regular human. However, if you, as a male, ever actually engage in this then you'll immediatly forfeit all man rights. If she says something like "Was that good for you", the best answer would be "A better question is 'What the **** are you still doing here'?", followed by a kick while you roll over to sleep.

If she, in her animalistic cunning, manages to get your phone number, you're SOL my friend, because there is no way to stop them. You'll just have to get a new phone.

 

[lain]

Epic post by Eor just made me die of laughter

 

[slave1]

that is hilariously horrible.

yeah gf's sweet deal. i miss having one. there is something magical by getting a good night kiss

 

[GreenKirby]

Here's an easy way to get a date. It can't fail:

Point a gun to her head and say "*****, will you go out with me?"

I guarantee an instant 'yes'