You mean me, I assume. I apologise if I made you feel down for it. The intention wasn't to make you feel your emotions feel little, but for you to try to choose your wording more carefully if you wish for people to know how you feel.
On the Internet, everything is up in the air for whether something is true or not. We will never ever know whether someone is indeed being emotional or if someone is simply trying to get attention or whatnot. It's sad, but it's a harsh reality of the Internet. A place where people can say whatever they feel like with very little consequence.
What I tried to say was that if you wish for your words to be taken in a good light, than you should try to be courteous to others if you wish for others to be courteous with you. If you only respond with aggressiveness, others will either respond just as aggressively or it can make them think you're being self-centered or acting impulsively or other things. But if you speak courteously and without aggression, it helps inspire others to speak back with courtesy as they see you as trying to be respectful, it helps them to help you when you want it, etc.
Nobody here wants to hurt anybody's feelings and nobody wants to let down anybody when they need help. Nobody wants to fight or hurt anybody here and want to help or be respectful. But it's important to know that people cannot help you or respect you if you speak back with aggression or aren't going to respect others. The phrase, "Treat others the way you wish to be treated." is a very important phrase for a reason. Because it does affect you and the people around you and not even the Internet stops that.