there there dude
i can tell ya from experience that the world will **** on ya a lot, it'll hurt ya, it'll pain ya, and maim ya for an non predictable amount of time, bad stuff comes in waves and it'll always come to **** on us, life is hell that we live through, but its not all bad~
goodness always comes in the end, ya i got a lotta personal stories, stuff will probably turn this thread into a sob party....but evil stuff ends, sure it always crops up, but good and kindness do previal, happiness can happen it can be reached
so if ya lack some things, frustrated, hurt, pained, or just completley messed up, get it off your chest, and let it know swampy, that life is not static, things always move, they always flow, but the pain, the hurt, the frustrations now, they'll move and change and flow away to be replaced with other stuff, maybe more pain and frustrations, but also kindness, achievement, happiness, memories, many good things, and that happens naturally
do what ya do to get things out of ya, a key rule is one has to climb a wall for themselves and take the steps with their own feet, but there isn't anything wrong with having others push you on your back to get you going through life, and that if your falling down and stopping for others to pick you up and get you standing on your own two feet, everyones in their life have been at a point in time when they got messed up, everyone understands, so if you need a hand or a push or a pat on the back, get them and continue walking with your feet that is being supported by all those you love and who understands