DeLux
Player that used to be Lux
- Joined
- Jun 3, 2010
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First off, I want to congratulate the people that made it in. Most of you that I was rooting for I've already personally talked to, but if I missed you, hopefully I get around to talking to you like I should. If you happen to stumble upon this note, you can go ahead and stop reading at this point, because the rest doesn't really apply to you.
Many of you that I was rooting for also had the circumstance that they did not get accepted. I actually happened to fall into this category. I applied and did not make it. Unlike most of the rejected, my immediate response isn't to discredit the validity of the BBR as an institution ("the BBR is ********" has probably been the most common response to rejection even if it is or isn't warranted). I'm more inclined to take it as an opportunity to reexamine my viability as a candidate.
I'm reminded of the following passage from one of my favorite books:
So I'll take the rejection in stride. I'll increase my efforts of being a viable candidate.
I've already made extensive contributions to the IC Meta-game. I'll discover more through my work in leading the Smash Lab.
I've planned to host a regional tourney. I'll make it bigger and better and more hype than any other tournament out there.
My placings are mediocre. I'll become the best and start winning.
At some point along the way, by improving myself, it'll go a long way towards improving people's perceptions towards me. At some point, if I earn the accomplishments, the reputation will follow.
I hope you take the shortcomings the same way. Instead of seeing it as a reason to become bitter and to withdraw from the community, perhaps this is your calling to help strengthen it. You have to believe you'll get there some day (otherwise you wouldn't have applied in the first place). And when our time comes, and our merit and achievement grant us access to the elite group of the boards, we'll have pulled through this together. We just have to
Keep Chasing It,
DeLux
Many of you that I was rooting for also had the circumstance that they did not get accepted. I actually happened to fall into this category. I applied and did not make it. Unlike most of the rejected, my immediate response isn't to discredit the validity of the BBR as an institution ("the BBR is ********" has probably been the most common response to rejection even if it is or isn't warranted). I'm more inclined to take it as an opportunity to reexamine my viability as a candidate.
I'm reminded of the following passage from one of my favorite books:
TLDR - "Keep your head up. Keep on swimming."Paulo Coelho; The Manual of the Warrior of the Light said:As if nothing had changed overnight, the warrior takes another wrong step and dives once again into the abyss. Ghosts provoke him, loneliness torments him. Now that he is more aware of his acts, he did not think this would happen.
But it did. Shrouded by darkness, he talks to his Master.
"Master, I fell again into the abyss ", he says.” The waters are deep and dark".
"Remember something ", responds the master. "What drowns is not the dive, but the fact of staying under water ".
The warrior uses his remaining strength to get out of the situation he is in.
So I'll take the rejection in stride. I'll increase my efforts of being a viable candidate.
I've already made extensive contributions to the IC Meta-game. I'll discover more through my work in leading the Smash Lab.
I've planned to host a regional tourney. I'll make it bigger and better and more hype than any other tournament out there.
My placings are mediocre. I'll become the best and start winning.
At some point along the way, by improving myself, it'll go a long way towards improving people's perceptions towards me. At some point, if I earn the accomplishments, the reputation will follow.
I hope you take the shortcomings the same way. Instead of seeing it as a reason to become bitter and to withdraw from the community, perhaps this is your calling to help strengthen it. You have to believe you'll get there some day (otherwise you wouldn't have applied in the first place). And when our time comes, and our merit and achievement grant us access to the elite group of the boards, we'll have pulled through this together. We just have to
Keep Chasing It,
DeLux