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Link to original post: [drupal=2398]"Death to liberals!" - how my dad has turned into a right-wing extremist, and how it's creating a *major* rift in my family.[/drupal]
I guess it starts with the background info.
My dad is *very* conservative. He hates government, almost to the point of wanting anarchy. He believes Ronald Reagan was the best US president ever without question. He thinks Fox News is perfectly fair and balanced, and it's on in our house 24/7. If he's not listening to Fox, he's listening to Rush Limbaugh. If he's not doing that, he's reading Ann Coulter ("an absolute disgrace to women" says my mom). You get the idea. This hasn't been too much in the way of new information or anything to me since I've known this for a while.
However, it's gotten a lot worse ever since Obama has been president, especially these last 3 months or so. I knew my dad hated Obama, but I didn't realize that his hatred towards Obama and liberals in general would actually be affecting our day-to-day lives. But it is.
About a week ago, my sisters invited one of their friends over so they could study for a math quiz and hang out afterward. Long story short, it was getting late, so she asked to stay for dinner, which wasn't a problem with us at all. We had steak for dinner, but there was one minor problem:
"Umm... I'm vegeterian. I don't eat meat."
"That's fine," said my mother, "we have some other things that I know you'd like." My mom isn't an actual vegetarian, but she does cook a lot of non-meat and non-poultry based foods, so it was nice we didn't leave her out.
"Why don't you eat meat?" asked my dad.
"Because I believe it to be ethically wrong to slaughter animals just to eat them."
"God, I hate liberals and their stupid rules about how 'we can't eat meat it's ethically wrong!'"
"Don't you think you should apologize to her for jumping to conclusions dad?" I jumped in.
"Don't buy into this. This is the exact same kind of bull**** that liberals are trying to shove down our throats to tell us what we can and can't do."
"But it's a personal decision!"
"What makes you think that all this "go green" garbage is going to outlaw other types of food in the future?"
"Why can't you just respect her choice?"
"Because it's the path that is going to destroy this country by taking away all our freedoms! Death to liberals!"
After some more arguing, my sisters' friend eventually just got out of the house and walked back home. The next day after school, my sisters came home and they were visibly upset. They said their friend was never going to come over to our house again until my dad apologized to her. When my dad heard about this, he just blew it off.
More recently, I was trying to watch Monday Night Football since it was a doubleheader and I love watching the NFL. Well when my dad came home from work, he saw what I was doing and he started to go off,
"What are you watching?"
"Monday Night Football."
"Why are you watching that pointless piece of trash? Turn the channel to Fox News right now."
"I'll just stop watching TV then and let you watch." I was kinda pissed, but I could just watch MNF from my laptop off the internet.
"No, you're staying here. And the rest of you, come up here, we're all watching the news."
"Why do we *have* to watch?" I asked.
"Are you going to just stand by, do nothing, and watch as liberals desecrate this country into a pile of ****? No, I want all of you to see the truth."
"Fox News is far from the truth."
"That's what those liberal lunatics want you to think. Fox News is perfectly fair and balanced. I don't want you ever watching any liberal brainwash and Fox News will teach you that."
"Fox News has shown to be the most distorted news show without questi--"
"MORE LIBERAL BRAINWASH!"
"Are you just going to throw out ad hominems regarding anything about liberals?"
"They are everywhere, and THEY ARE DESTROYING THIS COUNTRY!"
I was the only real person that was able to stand up to my dad on that day. My mom is really soft and gentle, and she almost never tries to get into arguments. Same with my sisters. I just decided to drop the argument since it was starting to become pretty pointless arguing with my dad. So we were forced to watch Fox News for at least an hour, and I felt absolutely sick to my stomach.
I really can't wait until I move out in about 8 months after getting my transfer degree and transferring to WOU. I feel my dad's zealous, conservative ways are only just going to get worse, and I really don't want to have my mom continue to have her marriage strained because of it and I don't want to see my sisters grow up with someone like this. Even more, I don't want to see my dad channel his rage and anger with his anti-liberal sentiments and do something stupid.
I don't think conservatism is bad as a principle (I'm a moderate BTW), because I do like some of the things it preaches (less government for more efficiency for example), but my dad is someone who takes it too far. He has such a warped vision about politics and life because he is about as far right-wing as you can get. I hate extremeism on both ends, but it has gotten to the point where it has actually affected our day to day life in my family. Every time one of us tells my dad to stop talking about politics, he immediately retorts "Ignorance is strength." in regards to one of the mottos in 1984. As much as I do like some conservatism principles, my dad just makes me less and less likely to be one.
Anyone else experienced something like this before? Also, I really don't care if it's about left-wing extremism as well. I hate political extremism equally since radicals take their beliefs and push them to limits that are beyond the threshold of what most people want to live under.
I guess it starts with the background info.
My dad is *very* conservative. He hates government, almost to the point of wanting anarchy. He believes Ronald Reagan was the best US president ever without question. He thinks Fox News is perfectly fair and balanced, and it's on in our house 24/7. If he's not listening to Fox, he's listening to Rush Limbaugh. If he's not doing that, he's reading Ann Coulter ("an absolute disgrace to women" says my mom). You get the idea. This hasn't been too much in the way of new information or anything to me since I've known this for a while.
However, it's gotten a lot worse ever since Obama has been president, especially these last 3 months or so. I knew my dad hated Obama, but I didn't realize that his hatred towards Obama and liberals in general would actually be affecting our day-to-day lives. But it is.
About a week ago, my sisters invited one of their friends over so they could study for a math quiz and hang out afterward. Long story short, it was getting late, so she asked to stay for dinner, which wasn't a problem with us at all. We had steak for dinner, but there was one minor problem:
"Umm... I'm vegeterian. I don't eat meat."
"That's fine," said my mother, "we have some other things that I know you'd like." My mom isn't an actual vegetarian, but she does cook a lot of non-meat and non-poultry based foods, so it was nice we didn't leave her out.
"Why don't you eat meat?" asked my dad.
"Because I believe it to be ethically wrong to slaughter animals just to eat them."
"God, I hate liberals and their stupid rules about how 'we can't eat meat it's ethically wrong!'"
"Don't you think you should apologize to her for jumping to conclusions dad?" I jumped in.
"Don't buy into this. This is the exact same kind of bull**** that liberals are trying to shove down our throats to tell us what we can and can't do."
"But it's a personal decision!"
"What makes you think that all this "go green" garbage is going to outlaw other types of food in the future?"
"Why can't you just respect her choice?"
"Because it's the path that is going to destroy this country by taking away all our freedoms! Death to liberals!"
After some more arguing, my sisters' friend eventually just got out of the house and walked back home. The next day after school, my sisters came home and they were visibly upset. They said their friend was never going to come over to our house again until my dad apologized to her. When my dad heard about this, he just blew it off.
More recently, I was trying to watch Monday Night Football since it was a doubleheader and I love watching the NFL. Well when my dad came home from work, he saw what I was doing and he started to go off,
"What are you watching?"
"Monday Night Football."
"Why are you watching that pointless piece of trash? Turn the channel to Fox News right now."
"I'll just stop watching TV then and let you watch." I was kinda pissed, but I could just watch MNF from my laptop off the internet.
"No, you're staying here. And the rest of you, come up here, we're all watching the news."
"Why do we *have* to watch?" I asked.
"Are you going to just stand by, do nothing, and watch as liberals desecrate this country into a pile of ****? No, I want all of you to see the truth."
"Fox News is far from the truth."
"That's what those liberal lunatics want you to think. Fox News is perfectly fair and balanced. I don't want you ever watching any liberal brainwash and Fox News will teach you that."
"Fox News has shown to be the most distorted news show without questi--"
"MORE LIBERAL BRAINWASH!"
"Are you just going to throw out ad hominems regarding anything about liberals?"
"They are everywhere, and THEY ARE DESTROYING THIS COUNTRY!"
I was the only real person that was able to stand up to my dad on that day. My mom is really soft and gentle, and she almost never tries to get into arguments. Same with my sisters. I just decided to drop the argument since it was starting to become pretty pointless arguing with my dad. So we were forced to watch Fox News for at least an hour, and I felt absolutely sick to my stomach.
I really can't wait until I move out in about 8 months after getting my transfer degree and transferring to WOU. I feel my dad's zealous, conservative ways are only just going to get worse, and I really don't want to have my mom continue to have her marriage strained because of it and I don't want to see my sisters grow up with someone like this. Even more, I don't want to see my dad channel his rage and anger with his anti-liberal sentiments and do something stupid.
I don't think conservatism is bad as a principle (I'm a moderate BTW), because I do like some of the things it preaches (less government for more efficiency for example), but my dad is someone who takes it too far. He has such a warped vision about politics and life because he is about as far right-wing as you can get. I hate extremeism on both ends, but it has gotten to the point where it has actually affected our day to day life in my family. Every time one of us tells my dad to stop talking about politics, he immediately retorts "Ignorance is strength." in regards to one of the mottos in 1984. As much as I do like some conservatism principles, my dad just makes me less and less likely to be one.
Anyone else experienced something like this before? Also, I really don't care if it's about left-wing extremism as well. I hate political extremism equally since radicals take their beliefs and push them to limits that are beyond the threshold of what most people want to live under.