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Bah! What should i do you guys?! Advice Wanted!

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Okay sooo, lets just put it all out there.
This involves:

No Video games
Gay (Boy x Boy) relationships
and Regular friendships

Still here? Good :D

Okay so I met my now boyfriend a few days before i met my friend.....we'll call him.....Beyonce. Well beyonce has always had a huge thing for me. And at first i was into him, but then he started getting slightly obsessive so ive been slowly talking to him less and less. Hes twenty, and Im seventeen. He sometimes says things like "I would leave Minnasota to see you right now" and im like.... D:
Anyways, my boyfriend doesnt give a f!ck that hes all up in my bizz and trying to get with me. He doesnt know the full extent but he seems to not totally care. Ayways, Beyonce is just being mean to me now, hes taking everything hes angry about and being mean to me. He says hes having a bad day, but anger on top of obsessive equals scary. Should i stop being friend with him? How should i do it?

I dont really care if hes outta my life. Hes nice, but too creepy for my taste. I like my Boyfriend, not him at all.

Sorry to use your name for this kid Beyonce :p

Thanks guiis
 

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I assume he lives in Minaasota and you dont, so do what i do when i dont want to deal with people ever again.

"You annoy the **** out of me, im not going to talk to you anymore, bye"

If he attempts to contact you, ignore it. Despite what im sure you think, you owe nothing to this person and have every right to cut ties immediately and for any reason. Now then this post is already way to serious for me so here's a picture of a bear riding a horse

 

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Associating with people you don't like is detrimental

The easy answer is cutting all ties
But clingy people are persistent and it doesn't help that he seems to act out of anger

My lol advice is if you need to explain yourself to him, do it in a public place so he'll (hopefully) be less likely to go all :rageface:
 

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How should i do it?
Call Chris Hansen.

More seriously, I don't think you should have anything to do with this guy. 20 and 17 would be illegal in my state, though it might be different where you live. I don't know if this is someone you've already met in person or if it's an online friend, but if you really want to try to salvage the friendship, just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and don't want to be involved with him that way. If he can't respect that, I wouldn't be associating with him anymore because people who can't respect boundaries tend to be bad news.

If it's someone you met online and haven't met in person, I wouldn't be meeting him in person.
 

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If you do not like him you don't have to talk to him.
If you want to continue to be his friend, however talk to him. Many problems can be solved just by talking about it. Tell him what the deal is, how you feel about everything, and what you think should be done. Try and come to a compromise. He may not even know he's bugging you because you don't tell him.
If he still chooses to be mean and you dislike it then stop being his friend.
Good luck!
 

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Call Chris Hansen.

More seriously, I don't think you should have anything to do with this guy. 20 and 17 would be illegal in my state, though it might be different where you live. I don't know if this is someone you've already met in person or if it's an online friend, but if you really want to try to salvage the friendship, just tell him that you already have a boyfriend and don't want to be involved with him that way. If he can't respect that, I wouldn't be associating with him anymore because people who can't respect boundaries tend to be bad news.

If it's someone you met online and haven't met in person, I wouldn't be meeting him in person.
This is what Im mostly looking for. The "how" part :p I dont like him that much, and quite frankly dont care to know more about him. He is kinda a d***** >;/
 

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shortie are you gay?

i promise my opinion of you wont change.
 
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