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Another blog about a girl...

o-Serin-o

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Link to original post: [drupal=4414]Sooo, I'm kinda depressed (But I don't wanna really claim it)[/drupal]



I've pretty much hit a pretty low point, seeing as though the girl I love has kinda played me.

There's a tl;dr down at the bottom. It doesn't give much detail though.


I'm not really gonna give another deep detailing of what happened, but I'll just quote what I've already said in another thread.


Originally Posted by [B said:
o-Serin-o[/B]]
Off-topic, but I ****ing hate when women lead you on when they know DAMN well how you feel about them.

****ing women, man. I feel depressed, but I dont wanna think about it that way.


Quote:
Originally Posted by T3h Albino
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srvADB2arbI

;3

When women get me down (which never really happens cause of the mindset I have approaching relationships) I tend to listen to a lot of Joey or Nujabes to just mellow out.
Just gotta be like "There's more fish in the sea /generic" and keep it pushing ya know?
Quote:
Originally Posted by Jane
don't think about it that way bro. yeah it sucks you didn't get the girl you had your eyes on, but theres sooooo many girls out there. like ridiculous amounts of super hot, super awesome girls out there. near you, too. like in your larger social circle.

from what i'm getting from your situation it just seems like you ****ed things up with her. it seems like she was interested in you in the beginning (hence the "leading on") but then you did things that made her decide you weren't for her. learn from your mistakes, try to figure out why she stopped liking you, and use it to grow, and make sure you don't repeat those mistakes for your next target.
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Originally Posted by o-Serin-o
I've known her since October. She's been flirting since I've seen her. Last time I saw her was yesterday, while i was in GA, and decides to tell me about her boyfriend like 5mins before she gets ready to leave. Bull****, if you ask me.

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Originally Posted by o-Serin-o
Well, I won't say everytime she saw me, but about 85% of the time.

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by me said:
decides to tell me about her boyfriend
this shouldn't stop you. I wouldn't even believe her till I saw the dude honestly. Girls lie about that stuff all the time to make you jealous or let you know other guys are interested in them.
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Originally Posted by o-Serin-o
They've been together since the 10th [of this month]. I was with her yesterday. She was flirting. I get in the car with her to tell her bye and see you again. I go in, and she tell me 'i have a boyfriend'. I said what the ****, when did this happen? She said the 10th, I reply in turn that this should have happened at prom, which was in April. The only reason it didnt is cuz we were never alone after prom and we both somehow fell asleep.

So now, im all, "**** your boyfriend, I've been here since goddamn October". And I know she likes me too.

Also, about her boyfriend, I won't be able to prove she has a boyfriend because she a state beside me.


Did I also tell you how we met up yesterday? She drove an hour from where she lives to the hotel I was at. Now tell me she doesn't like me.


Quote:
Originally Posted by MBlaze
As for that it seems like she did and all the signs were there. Especially going out her way to see you like that.. I'd say keep pushing and don't taint the friendship. Wait for him to **** up if she's really that important to you.

Games get on my nerves in a relationship... Gotta find the right person to you wanna put up with it I guess though....


I dunno anymore. Only reason I made this blog is because my mom just brought it back up after it wasn't on my mind. Now it won't go away again.


And as far as the whole depression thing goes, I'm just listening to music to keep my mind off of this whole thing.

[collapse=tl;dr] Show
Girl I love led me on, has a boyfriend, and now I'm a whiny little ***** about it.[/collapse]
 

o-Serin-o

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The ****ing blog ****ed up -_______-

EDIT: **** it.

If you can understand it the way it is, great. If not, I'll just attempt to fix it later.
 

Super_Sonic8677

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I know the feeling man..I know the feeling. Keep busy and flirt back if she still flirts with ya. If she plays head games you have to play back. Or, there are better people out there. Find someone else.

I went through a similar situation except including a crazy ex boyfriend and jail crap among other things. But yeah it's heard but I assure you can get through.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2G_7act670

Good song to listen to.
 

o-Serin-o

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Oh yeah, it wasn't said above, but she's 2 hours away from where I live. A state apart, if you will.
 

Life

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I don't know if you do TVTropes or not, but go read this for a while, usually helps when I'm down. (Actually, troper tales in general is awesome when you need to get something off your chest like this.)
 

ADHD

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lol, well you learned the hard way. Don't become attached to anyone until you fully know you can trust them.

Why are you depressed over a stupid girl? If you want to continue the relationship, then acknowledge its fake and just do it for the fun. I'm not saying that you should do this often, but many guys and girls have numerous non-boyfriend/girlfriend partners that are basically I guess.. friends with benefits. A partner that genuinely cares about you is hard to find.
 
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I do not believe in all that plenty fish in the sea and *the one* and stuff, but I do know that relationships come and go. Time moves foward and so must we.

Of course these are only my thoughts, Only yours should have any power over you.
 

o-Serin-o

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Her personally is actually what made me fall for her the way I did.

I give a **** about how some girl looks if they're attitude is ****.
 

Matador

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The ****ing blog ****ed up -_______-

EDIT: **** it.

If you can understand it the way it is, great. If not, I'll just attempt to fix it later.
I gotchu, dawg. Post this ****.

Link to original post: [drupal=4414]Sooo, I'm kinda depressed (But I don't wanna really claim it)[/drupal]



I've pretty much hit a pretty low point, seeing as though the girl I love has kinda played me.

There's a tl;dr down at the bottom. It doesn't give much detail though.


I'm not really gonna give another deep detailing of what happened, but I'll just quote what I've already said in another thread.


Off-topic, but I ****ing hate when women lead you on when they know DAMN well how you feel about them.

****ing women, man. I feel depressed, but I dont wanna think about it that way.
.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srvADB2arbI

;3

When women get me down (which never really happens cause of the mindset I have approaching relationships) I tend to listen to a lot of Joey or Nujabes to just mellow out.
Just gotta be like "There's more fish in the sea /generic" and keep it pushing ya know?
don't think about it that way bro. yeah it sucks you didn't get the girl you had your eyes on, but theres sooooo many girls out there. like ridiculous amounts of super hot, super awesome girls out there. near you, too. like in your larger social circle.

from what i'm getting from your situation it just seems like you ****ed things up with her. it seems like she was interested in you in the beginning (hence the "leading on") but then you did things that made her decide you weren't for her. learn from your mistakes, try to figure out why she stopped liking you, and use it to grow, and make sure you don't repeat those mistakes for your next target.

I've known her since October. She's been flirting since I've seen her. Last time I saw her was yesterday, while i was in GA, and decides to tell me about her boyfriend like 5mins before she gets ready to leave. Bull****, if you ask me.
Well, I won't say everytime she saw me, but about 85% of the time.
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They've been together since the 10th. I was with her yesterday. She was flirting. I get in the car with her to tell her bye and see you again. I go in, and she tell me 'i have a boyfriend'. I said what the ****, when did this happen? She said the 10th, I reply in turn that this should have happened at prom, which was in April. The only reason it didnt is cuz we were never alone after prom and we both somehow fell asleep.

So now, im all, "**** your boyfriend, I've been here since goddamn October". And I know she likes me too.

Also, about her boyfriend, I won't be able to prove she has a boyfriend because she a state beside me.


Did I also tell you how we met up yesterday? She drove an hour from where she lives to the hotel I was at. Now tell me she doesn't like me.


As for that it seems like she did and all the signs were there. Especially going out her way to see you like that.. I'd say keep pushing and don't taint the friendship. Wait for him to **** up if she's really that important to you.

Games get on my nerves in a relationship... Gotta find the right person to you wanna put up with it I guess though...
I dunno anymore. Only reason I made this blog is because my mom just brought it back up after it wasn't on my mind. Now it won't go away again.


And as far as the whole depression thing goes, I'm just listening to music to keep my mind off of this whole thing.


[collapse=tl;dr] Show
Girl I love led me on, has a boyfriend, and now I'm a whiny little ***** about it.[/collapse]

Btw, my two cents...

Time heals all wounds mah dood. Give yourself time to move pass this, and you'll undoubtedly bounce back. Until then, it's okay to wallow...just don't do anything stupid that you may regret later...like an addiction or something.
 

o-Serin-o

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Shes known me since October of last year, and just got with her bf on the 10th. I also took her to her prom. I just think she has a boyfriend simply because of the fact that we're a little far apart.
 

Everlasting Laughter

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Some girls are just very very flirty and don't mean it in the least and will dump you if you pressure them into sex(not what I did but her old boyfriends).

Sigh I don't think they mean to break our hearts it's just how things work out when they don't work out.

I wish you well man don't let the world keep you down.
 

Teran

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The fact that you keep mentioning my name also means I'll see it.

I could be all haw haw but I think all I'm going to say is HAHA I'M GAY sux2bu

It's very rare I get to say that so...
 

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Better than **** teases my whole life.
 

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I you're under 6ft (180cm) tall and not ugly, the sure.
 

o-Serin-o

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I concur.

I feel better, so I changed the title.



What I plan on doing today is just being completely blunt with her and asking what she really truly thinks of me. If she bull****s, then that's that. Nothing more I can do about it.
 

StealthyGunnar

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The same thing happened to me:
I liked this girl a lot, but she decided to break up with me over a ****ing note... She didn't like me, just kept stringing me along for months. Now she has some ****ing boyfriend and hopes we can be friends..? **** her man.

If ur crazy about this girl than keep pusuring her. But is it worth the trouble?
 

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I concur.

I feel better, so I changed the title.



What I plan on doing today is just being completely blunt with her and asking what she really truly thinks of me. If she bull****s, then that's that. Nothing more I can do about it.
All like yo Monique where u at where u at?
 
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