Adolescent Woes Thread

[RyuReiatsu]

There's something I really don't understand.
Why the **** does he even need to ask her out?

Neither I or my first girlfriend asked for a date or ****.
Things went much faster than Zook and we ended up making out.
Couple, lasted not long at all. Bull**** all the way, lust. And finally the breakup.

Then again, Zook.
You're older than I. You're a man. You'RE ZOOK.

*P.S: I held her hand and hugged her before even dating her >_>... Come on, just do it.

I have a friend who is in a similar situation Him and this girl both like each other and its obvious that they or bf/gf, but they don't talk about it like that and actually seem to deny being bf/gf. They just spend a lot of time together and are more best friends than anything...so don't ask her out as a date, but as friends, and it'll grow into a date eventually

That last part kinda bothers me.
I've known a 'couple' that still don't date despite the fact that it has been 3 years.
The guy's that lame, and the girl's that dumb. Yes.

 

[Leekduck]

Im going to get attacked for saying this but, Mabye your very good friends and if you get Into a more intimate relationship it may ruin Your friendship, Be careful

And by the way just tell those telling you to ""Grow A pair"" to Bug off, Put downs dont help

 

[Aurasmash14]

There's something I really don't understand.
Why the **** does he even need to ask her out?

Neither I or my first girlfriend asked for a date or ****.
Things went much faster than Zook and we ended up making out.
Couple, lasted not long at all. Bull**** all the way, lust. And finally the breakup.

Then again, Zook.
You're older than I. You're a man. You'RE ZOOK.

*P.S: I held her hand and hugged her before even dating her >_>... Come on, just do it.

I really dont think everyone on earth is that brave RyuReiatsu, and besides as you said you and your first GF was just all Lust right? what if Zook would like a meaningful relationship? Not everyone just goes straight to making out you know. some like it in baby steps.

 

[Zook]

There's a hug barrier?
Wow, teenagers these days are really afraid of physical contact to think that there's a BARRIER for hugs.

Yes.





Well, there is in New England, anyways.

 

[Teran]

Yes.





Well, there is in New England, anyways.

You see in ORIGINAL England, that barrier doesn't exist.

That's why you should always stick with the original and shun its newfangled versions.

 

[Leekduck]

WHat are all these stupid rules stupid people make up ""Hug barrier""??

 

[Teran]

WHat are all these stupid rules stupid people make up ""Hug barrier""??

I think just touching a girl is a big deal to the yanks lol.

Conservatism ftl.

 

[TwentyTwo]

And by the way just tell those telling you to ""Grow A pair"" to Bug off, Put downs dont help

Zook, If you took offense to my comment, my bad, was just a joke, I thought that came across.

There's not really a hug barrier, but there usually are steps, something like hug -> kiss -> french kiss -> so on and so forth. But I touched a boob, like 3 years before I french kissed a girl(If this is inappropriate, just go ahead and edit me teran, or just say so, and I'll do it.) Point is, if you're taking it slow don't get friend zoned.

 

[Teran]

I thought french kissing was a little kids barrier.
The first with every girl/boy for me involved a french kiss from the age of about 12 upwards. No, kissing isn't really an inappropriate subject, it appears in Disney films.

 

[Leekduck]

Isent french kissing just blowing into someones ear??

 

[Teran]

Isent french kissing just blowing into someones ear??

We call it pulling once we've reached the age of about 8.

Come on England!

 

[Sosuke]

I've only met one girl who had a "hug barrier", but she was just someone who didn't like touching boys at all.

From my experience, girls WANT to hug a **** lot(for no reason, usually). =/

 

[Leekduck]

some people dont like bieng touched, witch is fair enough, I hate bieng touched by anyone

 

[TwentyTwo]

I thought french kissing was a little kids barrier.
The first with every girl/boy for me involved a french kiss from the age of about 12 upwards. No, kissing isn't really an inappropriate subject, it appears in Disney films.

I was more talking about the boob touching, lol.

Isent french kissing just blowing into someones ear??

It's a kiss that has a lot of tongue involved as far as I know.

 

[Leekduck]

Eskimos kiss with noses

 

[Teran]

I was more talking about the boob touching, lol.

Yeah I don't really care too much, just don't elaborate.

 

[The Cunning Weasel]

Isent french kissing just blowing into someones ear??

It's a whole lot of tongue. Once you french kiss, you'll love doing it.

 

[Leekduck]

Oh you mean Tounge Tennis!!

 

[TwentyTwo]

Yeah I don't really care too much, just don't elaborate.

Can do, my good sir.

And lol at you doing this stuff at like age 8 and 12 >.>

 

[Teran]

Can do, my good sir.

And lol at you doing this stuff at like age 8 and 12 >.>

Yeah, my teenage life is completely not suitable for this place, so that's why I don't really talk about it on SWF.

 

[thanortinzak]

Huh? Teran kisses girls?
I thought you were gay, Teran xD
No offense meant or anything.

 

[Teran]

Huh? Teran kisses girls?
I thought you were gay, Teran xD
No offense meant or anything.

This was back in the day son.
I was bi until like late 15.

Then I was basically in denial till 18. ie recently.

 

[Leekduck]

Im ambiguous if anything, ive Never been attracted to anyone

 

[Zook]

This was back in the day son.
I was bi until like late 15.

Then I was basically in denial till 18. ie recently.

I have a friend the exact same way.

He considered himself to be bi until he finally had sex (with a girl, that is), then he realized "Hey guess what, I'm gay."

 

[Fatmanonice]

There's a hug barrier?
Wow, teenagers these days are really afraid of physical contact to think that there's a BARRIER for hugs.

Just wow, I'm actually in shock.

You should be. Thanks to all the forms of media we have now, social contact is become more and more awkward.

 

[Jonkku]

I have a friend the exact same way.

He considered himself to be bi until he finally had sex (with a girl, that is), then he realized "Hey guess what, I'm gay."

lol.. I bet that didn't do good for the girl's self-esteem though.

 

[Fatmanonice]

lol.. I bet that didn't do good for the girl's self-esteem though.

No kidding. I would be a wreck if I were that girl. Wow, I suck so much in the sack that I made someone gay. XD

 

[Teran]

Let's be a bit careful with the content of this discussion people.

 

[orange/xd]

Im ambiguous if anything, ive Never been attracted to anyone

Just wondering how old are you? If you're done with puberty, you could be asexual.

 

[Sosuke]

My girlfriend thought I might have been gay for the first few months we were dating and that I was trying to hide it by being in a relationship with her.

THAT'S a self-esteem drop for you.

 

[Fatmanonice]

My girlfriend thought I might have been gay for the first few months we were dating and that I was trying to hide it by being in a relationship with her.

THAT'S a self-esteem drop for you.

I think people have always suspected me of being gay simply because of how I am. I dress a lot nicer than most men, I cook, I don't mind cleaning, I don't really care for most popular sports aside from baseball, most of my friends are girls, I'm fairly well kempt, I prefer wine to beer, etc. There was a short period of time where my dad strongly thought I was simply because I didn't have a girlfriend. Well excuse me for being out of my head depressed at the time and not being much of socialist for a huge chunk of my life.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

I really dont think everyone on earth is that brave RyuReiatsu, and besides as you said you and your first GF was just all Lust right? what if Zook would like a meaningful relationship? Not everyone just goes straight to making out you know. some like it in baby steps.

True, it wasn't meaningful one bit.
But there was that girl I had loved for years and still asked her out regardless of how scared I was. Seems like it didn't end all that well and after a pretty long period of time, I'm totally fine with it.

Oh and btw, Zook. If I've offended you, I'm sorry.
I was just joking around. :embarrass

I think people have always suspected me of being gay simply because of how I am. I dress a lot nicer than most men, I cook, I don't mind cleaning, I don't really care for most popular sports aside from baseball, most of my friends are girls, I'm fairly well kempt, I prefer wine to beer, etc. There was a short period of time where my dad strongly thought I was simply because I didn't have a girlfriend. Well excuse me for being out of my head depressed at the time and not being much of socialist for a huge chunk of my life.

I can relate. My mom and her boyfriend thought I was gay for a whole year.

 

[Zook]

We're going out now. :D

 

[Teran]

Awwwwww

Zook's got a new squeeze!
Congratulations yo. :3

 

[POKE40]

We're going out now. :D

Yay!
Happy endings!

<3

 

[PurDi]

Oh you mean Tounge Tennis!!

Lol, I about died when I read this! I literally fell out of my chair.



But anyway good job Zook! How'd it happen(if you don't mind me asking)?

 

[RyuReiatsu]

We're going out now. :D

You're the man!

I knew you'd do it!

 

[9Kplus1]

So, I'm in a new state, a new school and I've made a good amount of friends. None of my grades have dropped below a B during my first three weeks of school and I'm finally going to a tourney this weekend. I'm happy, right?

Bull****. I just found out that I've flunked gym for the first semester for not changing into the "proper" gym clothes. Now I just feel sketchy :/.

Adding onto that, I've hated my friggen username since this account was made, but I'm too much of a ***** to make a new account, or ask a mod to change it for me.

 

[¯\_S.(ツ).L.I.D._/¯]

Get premie then man.

 

[3747373796432]

Shoot, summer is so boring. The only real friends I have live like thirty minutes to an hour and a half away, except for some middleschool girls (I swear, they're just friends) but, me being a highschool boy, probally don't have their parent's consent to hang out with them.