Helsong
Smash Ace
You're absolutely in the right, if you go and pursue a degree just for the sake of pursuing one, it will not turn out well. You have to love what you're studying, because you'll be studying it for four damn years. Any sort of idea of "keeping up with your peers" stops mattering after you graduate high school and people start going their own way. I've had friends and students struggle with that idea a lot. If you're able to keep going the way you are now, then that's ok. I kinda went through something similar myself, though it didn't impact me as much as it did a lot of others. Parent-related frustrations were involved, but they came around. If your parents want you to be happy, then they'll come to understand too.Parents keep bugging the hell outta me if I registered for classes since dropping my younger sis off to college. Tell them I didn't, considering holding off of college for the moment. The ****ing sky is falling.
I'm sorry I'm not so keen on having our family spend thousands of dollars when I'm not even dead set on what I want to do. Not what other people say I should do or what pays a lot, but actually am interested in. Lack of passion leads to half-*** work ethic, and I refuse to let that happen.
I have a job, I hang out with friends, I'm healthy, I don't see what the problem is, I can go back when I'm ready. I don't give a **** what other people are doing or who's "surpassing" me, like it's a ****ing race for who can live their lives the fastest, grand prize being the fleeting, passing approval of judgmental relatives.
I walked my dog for like 2 hours trying to clear my head and now he's spent. I'll need a nap too.
@Player -0 So when it comes to publishing, it's usually papers or scholarly articles, dissertations, etc on what we've researched, new stuff we've discovered/found out, new ways of doing things, stuff like that. Getting published is a fantastic way to be able to jerk your academia-peen(as it were) among other academia snobs and be taken decently seriously.