The Happiness of a lover

[Richie3341]

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Hello, SWF. Which reminds me, what does that stand for? It's always kind of bugged me, not knowing, ya know? Anyway, so I really like this boy and I know he likes me back, but, we aren't in a relationship with each other, but, we kind of are, If you get my meaning. He is a great guy and I just know in my heart that he could be the one. I want to spend everyday with him, but, because of a few stupid factors in his life we can't.

These factors being that:
1. My ex lives with him and I don't evn want to see his face and R(let's just call the boy I like R) doesn't want to have to put me through the misery of being in the same room with him.

2. His family hates him and doesn't like seeing him happy. Which is just ******** because I mean, hey, they shouldn't hate him because of his mistakes.

3. Last, but, not least a friend of his and mine(but, I don't consider her my friend anymore) likes him and threatened to kill herself if he kept dating me because she "couln't stand the pain of seeing him with someone else" and he is sweet enough to break it off wit me so that she won't do herself any harm. Which is stupid because we had already been dating for 3 months anyway.

So, I end up only seeing him, if I'm lucky, once a week. Since his phone broke I can't text him and I just have to wait for his responses to my messages on myspace. Everytime he just reads the messages and doesn't respond I just get a little sadder(but, i never give up because I hate being ignored)so I send him a message and he's just someone that even a little bit of conversation with him will make me happy.

Ugh I'm no good at these things, I'm Rambling now so I'll stop typing. This was just a kind of way for me to vent.


QUESTION TIME!!!!

1. Is there someone in your life that you can't get your mind off of and they're all you think about?

2. Do you like spending time with them and does every mkoment make you happy?

Bonus Question!

What's the square root of Pi? (i just like asking that question)

 

[Kewkky]

QUESTION TIME!!!!

1. Is there someone in your life that you can't get your mind off of and they're all you think about?

Right now, no. I'm pretty much anti-relationship after my last one, at least for now. I'll wait until the college semester starts before I open my heart again for any other woman.

2. Do you like spending time with them and does every mkoment make you happy?

If I had a special someone at this moment, I would assure you I would be right next to them, rather than in front of this monitor. Boredom doesn't even give happiness a challenge.

Bonus Question!

What's the square root of Pi? (i just like asking that question)

TRICK QUESTION! Since we don't know the real value of "pi" because it has an indefinite number of decimals, we can't give a real answer to this question! However, we CAN give the square root of the value of "pi" once it is rounded up to a measurable number of decimal spaces! Let's say "pi" has 2 decimal spaces for the sake of a quick and simple answer...

√π = 1.77

 

[Richie3341]

Right now, no. I'm pretty much anti-relationship after my last one, at least for now. I'll wait until the college semester starts before I open my heart again for any other woman.

If I had a special someone at this moment, I would assure you I would be right next to them, rather than in front of this monitor. Boredom doesn't even give happiness a challenge.

TRICK QUESTION! Since we don't know the real value of "pi" because it has an indefinite number of decimals, we can't give a real answer to this question! However, we CAN give the square root of the value of "pi" once it is rounded up to a measurable number of decimal spaces! Let's say "pi" has 2 decimal spaces for the sake of a quick and simple answer...

√π = 1.77

aww, im sorry about your relationship issue. :C However, i do like your answer for the bonus question. C: you get EXTRA POINTS!

 

[Kewkky]

EXTRA POINTS

I DO dislike pointy things...

[/crappy_pun]

 

[Richie3341]

hahaha and that crappy pun brings you to 30 POINTS!!! Congratz C:

 

[Kewkky]

Sweet, 30 points :D

Now I gotta find out what the points are for and I'm set for life!

 

[Sosuke]

SWF = Smash World Forums

 

[Richie3341]

Sweet, 30 points :D

Now I gotta find out what the points are for and I'm set for life!

The points are for awesomeness. haha

SWF = Smash World Forums

ohhhhhh ok, thanks a bunch C:

 

[Delta-cod]

These factors being that:
1. My ex lives with him and I don't evn want to see his face and R(let's just call the boy I like R) doesn't want to have to put me through the misery of being in the same room with him.

That's just silly. Why don't you two, y'know, go somewhere that isn'this home?

2. His family hates him and doesn't like seeing him happy. Which is just ******** because I mean, hey, they shouldn't hate him because of his mistakes.

People can be stupid like that. But how can they stop you two from dating, unless you two are still in high school, in which case they can.

3. Last, but, not least a friend of his and mine(but, I don't consider her my friend anymore) likes him and threatened to kill herself if he kept dating me because she "couln't stand the pain of seeing him with someone else" and he is sweet enough to break it off wit me so that she won't do herself any harm. Which is stupid because we had already been dating for 3 months anyway.

She's mentally unstable in that case, and I'd stay faaaaaaaaaaaaar away from her. That's too much to deal with. I advise the boy to do the same.

QUESTION TIME!!!!

1. Is there someone in your life that you can't get your mind off of and they're all you think about?

Yes.

2. Do you like spending time with them and does every moment (fixed) make you happy?

Yes.

Bonus Question!

What's the square root of Pi? (i just like asking that question)

The same answer Kewkky said.

 

[Richie3341]

That's just silly. Why don't you two, y'know, go somewhere that isn'this home?



People can be stupid like that. But how can they stop you two from dating, unless you two are still in high school, in which case they can.



She's mentally unstable in that case, and I'd stay faaaaaaaaaaaaar away from her. That's too much to deal with. I advise the boy to do the same.

because we have no money and yes, we r still in high school.

as for the girl, he's not going to stay away from her and i don't plan on letting him be fiends with her if im not by his side in case something happens.

 

[Delta-cod]

Having no money has nothing to do with going somewhere that isn't home. Go for a walk. If you just enjoy spending time with him, taking a walk to the park (if there is one nearby) is still a valid thing to do.

 

[Falconv1.0]

Delta Cod that color font is basically unreadable, at least for me. Just saying.

Anyways, wow, the drama train sure is right on your *** isn't it. Relationships during times with lots of drama and stupid bs are never fun and almost NEVER work out. So you just maaaaaaybe might want to wait.

 

[Richie3341]

Having no money has nothing to do with going somewhere that isn't home. Go for a walk. If you just enjoy spending time with him, taking a walk to the park (if there is one nearby) is still a valid thing to do.

as much as i'd lov to do just that he doesnt like walking bcause he always thinks of running away and he lives about half an hour away from me by car and even if i did walk there its not certain his mom would let him go with me. :C

and neither of us have our liscences or permits yet.

 

[mzink*]

Dang that is a rough situation. I know what its like when you are apart from someone important to you and you feel like all you can do is wait to hear from them.

I just wanted to tell you that sometimes when someone reads something but doesn't respond right away, it doesn't mean they don't plan on responding or that it isn't important to them. Sometimes people just run through their mail real quick but they wait to respond till they have the time to say everything they need to. When you're writing to someone special you don't wana rush it. So when he reads them and doesn't respond right away he's probably just waiting untill he can put the time into sending a thoughtful message back, because its important to him. Don't let it make you sad, just try to be patient.

I hope things get better. I know what its like to not be able to hear from someone you care for deeply, if you ever wana chat feel free to pm me.

 

[Teran]

1) Yes

2) Noooooo xD

Bonus) Sq root of Pi = Chaco

 

[bobson]

Hello, SWF. Which reminds me, what does that stand for? It's always kind of bugged me, not knowing, ya know?

How the hell can you miss this?
Look up.

 

[Chaco]

Lolwut Teran?

 

[Teran]

That should teach you not to namesearch so often. :3

Just kidding, I do it several times a day.

 

[Chaco]

I actually didn't, I just read through blogs and responses.

 

[POKE40]

Square Root of Pi:

 

[Richie3341]

I like the pic but, that isnt the square root of pi, sorry. That IS pi, and it makes me hungry. o.o

 

[Xivii]

Doesn't sound like he feels the same way honostly...

If I were you I would move on.

 

[DtJ Jungle]

There is someone in my life that I can't get my mind off of, and I love spending every moment with her. So much so that I spent the whole summer living with her in a different state from which I'm from.

 

[Firus]

1. Is there someone in your life that you can't get your mind off of and they're all you think about?

Nerp.

2. Do you like spending time with them and does every mkoment make you happy?[/QUOTE]

Nerp.

It's relationship drama like this that causes me to not really want a girlfriend, to be honest. Not that I could really say that I could get a girlfriend if I wanted one, but I'm not really looking nevertheless.

Regardless, I wish you the best of luck with said drama.

 

[Richie3341]

Doesn't sound like he feels the same way honostly...

If I were you I would move on.

I know it doesn't sound like he doesn't feel the same way about me in the information i gave you but i just know he cares for me he just isn't giving his all because he doesn't want to be let down again

There is someone in my life that I can't get my mind off of, and I love spending every moment with her. So much so that I spent the whole summer living with her in a different state from which I'm from.

How did that go? I am probably happiest during state festival for drama club because "R" and i share a room and its a week of just me him and the hotel beds 3 hours away from home

It's relationship drama like this that causes me to not really want a girlfriend, to be honest. Not that I could really say that I could get a girlfriend if I wanted one, but I'm not really looking nevertheless.

Regardless, I wish you the best of luck with said drama.

honestly, i dont even care about the drama I'd do anything to make " R" happy and when im with him I have no worries. So, drama is insignificant to our love for each other.

 

[Teran]

So this is gay love right? Hot diggidy **** sexy time.

So yeah anyway my humble advice. Drop your pants and flash your credit card. Most gay guys fall for that.

Like I say, the reason why I don't chase boys so much is that they have the worst traits of both sexes. In this case, I'm talking about golddigging horndogs.

 

[Mota]

threatened to kill herself

She's bluffing.

 

[Richie3341]

So this is gay love right? Hot diggidy **** sexy time.

So yeah anyway my humble advice. Drop your pants and flash your credit card. Most gay guys fall for that.

Like I say, the reason why I don't chase boys so much is that they have the worst traits of both sexes. In this case, I'm talking about golddigging horndogs.

well, hes not gay he's bi. and he hates when i try to give him anything, so that flashing the credit card thing doesn't work on him, besides i have like 2 dollars on my credit card.

as for dropping my pants he says that is something that is my decision so that isnt really something i do too much though i will admit he's pretty good at it. He's a sweet sincere guy, not your average "golddigging horndog".

 

[Hive Mind]

threatened to kill herself

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Seriously, that's really lame. Let her die.

 

[Kewkky]

PSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHOPSYCHO

A psycho isn't someone who threatens to kill him/herself, you're thinking of a depressive person with a frontal lobe disfunction. "Psychotic" people tend to mess up their perceptions, believing they're seeing/hearing/feeling/smelling or tasting things that are not there. It's a psychiatric condition, just like depression, but doesn't make you threaten to kill yourself. That's a variant of depression that makes you think of those.

*got all technical*

Let her die.

If by that you mean do whatever you feel like you should do and don't worry about what she might do, then I agree. If she's threatening to kill herself, she's very unstable. Not something good for a relationship, they'd break up within a week if how I'm thinking she'd act would happen... Then she would threaten to kill herself if he didn't get back with her.

If you seriously HAVE to, then keep trying for the relationship, but make sure she never finds out by not being so "public". You could have a relationship and only keep to when you're both alone, I've been there... Just make sure that she is out of sight when you two kiss or the such.

 

[Richie3341]

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If you seriously HAVE to, then keep trying for the relationship, but make sure she never finds out by not being so "public". You could have a relationship and only keep to when you're both alone, I've been there... Just make sure that she is out of sight when you two kiss or the such.

Yea thats what we're doing right now is keeping our relationship private. Especially J(the girl) since she is just UGGGGGHHHHH to me. I mean, one time i asked her if R had been texting her cuz he hadn't texted me back yet and i wanted to make sure his phone didnt break, but when i asked her and she asked me why i wanted to know, when i told her she was all "i don't even want to talk about it right now cuz i'm about ready to hurt myself" and that just pissed me off

 

[Sosuke]

Silly teenagers and their relationships.
Don't stress it.

 

[Richie3341]

Silly teenagers and their relationships.
Don't stress it.

Well the girl is 18 and me and R are 16