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Browsing through Facebook, my friend posted a video about Whoopie Goldberg's opinion on whether or not Jay Z had the right to defend himself against Salonge when she attacked him. You can view the video here:
My whole stance on this is that, yes, if someone puts their hands on you, you have every right to hit them back or defend yourself. For me, I don't look at the gender of that person. I look at them as a person who felt that they thought putting their hands on me was appropriate.
I'm advocating domestic violence nor am I insinuating that if someone hits you then you should "beat" them up.
I'm tired of society's double standards these days. It's even more grating when there are some women who believe that no matter what, I man should not strike a woman. A Youtube commenter stated something so ridiculous it really begs the question of whether this person has any lick of common sense and reality. This is what she said:
If she actually did her research, there's proof that women have killed men either shooting them or stabbing them. Death is death no matter how you paint it. You cannot die from punch to the face unless you have a chronic condition (for example, my eye doctor suggested I don't play physical or intensive sports because I have floaters in my eyes and any impact to my head may lead to severe mental problems) or you're extremely frail. A woman can strike me with so much force right now and it would be no different than a man striking a woman across the face who has the same condition I do. There was even a case where a girl kicked a boy's testicles and it left permanent damage- he cannot have any children and it was over something so petty and because she wanted to do it "for fun" (this was when I was in High School).
Very recently, there was a case of a woman shooting her husband in the stomach because he "did not ejaculate enough semen during sexual intercourse" therefore, she assumed the man was cheating despite him being 50+ years old. I mean, forget about the age and understanding that older men normally have the same sex drive like they used to years ago, but no, let's jump to conclusions without any solid evidence and shoot them in the stomach because we think they were doing someone the night before.
She also shot her ex-husband years ago and charges for that case was dropped because he didn't show up to court. The woman still had access and a right to have a gun despite her pass. And to make matters worse, she got away free even though the poor guy was hospitalized for 4 weeks as the bullet punctured several vital organs and this woman is sitting at home right now with no charges pressed against her.
I need to reiterate: I'm not for domestic violence. But the double standards in this society doesn't jive with me at all. Everyone has a right to defend themselves and gender should be a non-issure. The reason why were hardly ever see any cases of "Women abusing Men" or what have you is because stigma behind it. Men are often afraid and embarassed to report any domestic violence their significant other is putting them through and even if they do report it, they are often dismissed most likely and often because "Oh, it's a woman."
We can all come to that assumption because I'm pretty sure many of us have read stories where society is dismissive against FoM (Female on Male) violence but will hammer down on MoF violence.
In the end, I'm on Whoopis side. I've never personally had a woman put their hands on me or fight me but I know from what I've learned and it's that I will never let anyone disrespect me or allow them to put their hands on me.
It's also immature and adults, we should be better than that.
It's a classic Kindergarden rule: "Keep your hands, feet (and objects) to yourself."
My whole stance on this is that, yes, if someone puts their hands on you, you have every right to hit them back or defend yourself. For me, I don't look at the gender of that person. I look at them as a person who felt that they thought putting their hands on me was appropriate.
I'm advocating domestic violence nor am I insinuating that if someone hits you then you should "beat" them up.
I'm tired of society's double standards these days. It's even more grating when there are some women who believe that no matter what, I man should not strike a woman. A Youtube commenter stated something so ridiculous it really begs the question of whether this person has any lick of common sense and reality. This is what she said:
Wait. So, because she is a woman, I have to make sure that I resist myself and not hurt her even though she is trying to inflict harm onto me? What? That makes no sense. Why would anyone in their right mind try to protect their aggressor? Non-sense. And thus, it goes on:"Just because a woman slap you, you can't turn around and shoot her and call it self defense. Self Defense is that a woman slap you and you tried to hold her hands and tried your best to stop her from hitting you and you even tried your best to walk away but she would not stop coming at you and even tried to stab you so you had to shoot her. That is self defense."
This individual has made some repetitive statements about women being weaker than men (physically) and how a man can kill a woman. Okay."I'm not preaching that men should be abuse what I'm against is Whooppis silly advice that the man should turn around and knock the mess out of the woman. How about if he hits her so hard and kills her, he is only making it difficult for himself. He just going to wind up in jail for life. I can't believe that you guys agree with her ridicules advice."
If she actually did her research, there's proof that women have killed men either shooting them or stabbing them. Death is death no matter how you paint it. You cannot die from punch to the face unless you have a chronic condition (for example, my eye doctor suggested I don't play physical or intensive sports because I have floaters in my eyes and any impact to my head may lead to severe mental problems) or you're extremely frail. A woman can strike me with so much force right now and it would be no different than a man striking a woman across the face who has the same condition I do. There was even a case where a girl kicked a boy's testicles and it left permanent damage- he cannot have any children and it was over something so petty and because she wanted to do it "for fun" (this was when I was in High School).
Very recently, there was a case of a woman shooting her husband in the stomach because he "did not ejaculate enough semen during sexual intercourse" therefore, she assumed the man was cheating despite him being 50+ years old. I mean, forget about the age and understanding that older men normally have the same sex drive like they used to years ago, but no, let's jump to conclusions without any solid evidence and shoot them in the stomach because we think they were doing someone the night before.
She also shot her ex-husband years ago and charges for that case was dropped because he didn't show up to court. The woman still had access and a right to have a gun despite her pass. And to make matters worse, she got away free even though the poor guy was hospitalized for 4 weeks as the bullet punctured several vital organs and this woman is sitting at home right now with no charges pressed against her.
I need to reiterate: I'm not for domestic violence. But the double standards in this society doesn't jive with me at all. Everyone has a right to defend themselves and gender should be a non-issure. The reason why were hardly ever see any cases of "Women abusing Men" or what have you is because stigma behind it. Men are often afraid and embarassed to report any domestic violence their significant other is putting them through and even if they do report it, they are often dismissed most likely and often because "Oh, it's a woman."
We can all come to that assumption because I'm pretty sure many of us have read stories where society is dismissive against FoM (Female on Male) violence but will hammer down on MoF violence.
In the end, I'm on Whoopis side. I've never personally had a woman put their hands on me or fight me but I know from what I've learned and it's that I will never let anyone disrespect me or allow them to put their hands on me.
It's also immature and adults, we should be better than that.
It's a classic Kindergarden rule: "Keep your hands, feet (and objects) to yourself."
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