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People do things because it makes them content.

IShotLazer

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A lot of people don't understand this concept and that's okay.
Some people have simply never been introduced to it.
Anyway here it is.

People do things because it makes them content, every course of action you take is because you currently thought that it would be the best course of action possible at the time.

Everytime you breathe it was because you thought it was the best course of action.

Reading this small article at the time, you felt was the best course of action. Perhaps you did it to argue back and that's what you find stimulating, perhaps you did it because you were lazy and concluded within yourself that this is the easiest, most productive, least emotionally stressing thing you could have done.
Even doing what you might see as a bad deed objectively, you still did for what you saw at the time for a justified reason. Sometimes it's easy. Easy doesn't stress people out.

Even emotions that you feel your brain concluded that, THAT would be the most stimulating, satisfying emotion at the time. Sometimes there is none at all. Happiness is NOT the same as contentment. The two are used interchangable all the time however they DO have different meanings. Some people are honestly content with feeling what some see as a negative emotion. Some people go out of their way to cause trouble and anguish however to them, this is contentment.

I'm sure most people have gone out of their way to experience sadness or at least deep empathy. Have you ever watched a sad movie KNOWING that you were going to be sad as a end result? Sometimes, it's relieving to be able to experience multiple emotions so we go out of our way to experience them. This is a small example of what I mean. Almost everyone will do this a couple times which is perfectly normal, however a select few actually do this all the time. Because these people's drives are different in that they strive to experience a different emotion we see them as crazy... quite frankly they are to societies standards. Then again crazy is a relative term and you can take it for what you will.

No matter, it is still the basic human drive to achieve contentment in some form or another.

The second part, if that is what you want to call it, means every action that you take is the best action you could have made throwing in emotional attachment, a deeper understanding of something, just plain out bad logic, or habitual attachment.
There are more things that affect it, I'm just trying to get the general concept down.

Say you're being lazy and not studying. You know deep down you should be studying for a better future, however you have justified within yourself that it's not the best course of action. You probably did it because it's habitual. Perhaps you felt you had better things to do at the moment, or perhaps you just didn't want to go through a stressing situation at the time. Even though logically you KNEW you should have, emotionally or perhaps physiologically you already concluded that NOT studying was indeed a better course of action.

People need to realize that no matter what, we are never fully objective to ourselves. We can be reflective and change but we still are subjective to our own limitations.

People who strive to better their lives are still set within this boundary, however they have realized what makes them more content and are willing to go through the hardships to reach it. They said to themselves I'm doing this to make myself happier(content) in the long run, however at the same time again they were content with this very action because they had justification for it.

I find this hard to believe sometimes and feel it's flawed(It's got to be somewhere in there)... but at the moment I felt this is the best way to sum up what I mean... Not a great job T_T. Explaining things has never been my strong suit, and perhaps I'm just plain out wrong. Either way, take it for what you will.
 

Cyndi

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How about explaining why there are people out there who go out of their way to belittle, humiliate and otherwise be jerks to others? That can't be a "contentment" thing.

Power, maybe?
 

IShotLazer

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Power causes contentment.


When people belittle others, it shows inconfidence within and they act in the best way they see fit to make themselves content. They are actually becoming pathological liars. Perhaps that term is a bit to far but it's the idea.
By belittling someone else you assume to yourself superiority, whether or not it's true. Superiority is saying you have power over someone. Therefore you are content with the situation once you have said those things.

I guess it's better to say we are in a constant state of discontent, with every action providing contentment. Actually that's a much better way of putting it.
 

Lavos

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hmm...

Maybe you think about breathing, but I'm pretty sure it's a subconscious bodily function that happens whether we think or not for the rest of us. That's like saying we grow because we think it would be a good idea.

Also, I'm confused as to what you're meaning when you say that we can change our definition of contentedness, but we can't change our limitations? What limitations? Give me a definition here. That doesn't mean anything unless I know what your idea of limitations are.

Other than that, everything seems kinda obvious. People are always trying to attain contentedness. It's a fact.
 

Azua

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You are now breathing manually.


[Most of the time, however, it is not conscious thought.]
 

1048576

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The world operates on margin, not on absolutes. People do what is best for themselves, not what is good for themselves. If I have to choose between going to jail and starving to death, I'm going to jail. I'm not content in jail, but starving to death would make me even less content.
 

Eor

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People don't always do what is best for themselves, people do what they think is best for themselves.
 

OmegaXXII

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it's a known fact!!

people will always to what they think is the right thing do and yet will find contentment from it.
 

LordoftheMorning

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People don't always do what is best for themselves, people do what they think is best for themselves.
QFT. I agree with this essay and I've felt that way for quite some time. But that isn't to say we should become complacent with our decision making skills. We must strive to combine this drive to seek contentment with an analytical mindset. Analysis might include cause and effect and consequences.

I'm sure most people have gone out of their way to experience sadness or at least deep empathy. Have you ever watched a sad movie KNOWING that you were going to be sad as a end result? Sometimes, it's relieving to be able to experience multiple emotions so we go out of our way to experience them. This is a small example of what I mean. Almost everyone will do this a couple times which is perfectly normal, however a select few actually do this all the time. Because these people's drives are different in that they strive to experience a different emotion we see them as crazy... quite frankly they are to societies standards. Then again crazy is a relative term and you can take it for what you will.
I liked this passage. The term Catharsis comes to mind. Catharsis is enjoying experiences such as violence or emotions such as sadness without the negative consequences. This is why we like horror movies.

Edit: Here's another theory on why people do what they do. Or at least males. Here is is:

The ultimate reason a man has for doing anything is to impress women. Why do I eat food? To impress women. Everyone knows that women aren't impressed by a dead person. And so I eat to stay alive to impress women. This does not apply to gays. It's more of a joke really, but it's a pretty defensible joke.
 

IShotLazer

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Yeah, people are subjective to themselves, therefore people do what they THINK is best for them.

@Lord
Well, I know where you are coming and you are just stretching a bit but I still feel the need to tell you that it's not quite the same. You want to please women because that is your drive for contentment.

We all run off of our own self survival. Sadly. Those who don't have this philosophy kill themselves.
On a side note true suicidal people don't tell people they are going to commit suicide, I mean wouldn't that just make it more difficult?

Hypothetically if you were a barbarian and you and another woman were being attacked, if you were in a situation to save yourself or that woman you would definitely save yourself. That's definitely not pleasing women. You please women because you find pleasure and reassurance within yourself.
 

LordoftheMorning

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What don't you understand about women are not impressed by dead people? GET IT RITE!

Seriously though... that's a joke, maybe a feeble one. I don't really think that.
 

missedwithtruestrike

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How about explaining why there are people out there who go out of their way to belittle, humiliate and otherwise be jerks to others? That can't be a "contentment" thing.

Power, maybe?
honestly, im a jerk. i love it, i also "enjoy" (for lack of a better word) making fun of people, im good at, and it makes me laugh...laugh at them, but regardless,i laugh and therfore i am content because i like to lol.
 
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