Parents

[Rigor Mortis]

My dad 20 years ago used to be an *******, a drinker, and prety much bad.

He turned catholic, boom all better. And he treats my mom like the best thing in the world since then.

Now my mom is arguing about stuff 20 years ago.

She looks for problems everyday, and my dad never says anything. Like my dad bought me some fried chicken, my mom is talking about somethinhg that happend back then because she remember she ate fried chicken and my dad was doing something bad that day.

She is been arguing about this for weeks........

What the hell is wrong with my mom? Every day she makes my dad live in a living god **** hell.

And when my dad says, your the angry one you should change. She gets all cry like and everyone has to be sympathetic for her...

another edit:
My mom is talking about divorce because apparently my dad causes all the problems....She isnt seriuos though i know it ahhh god ...i dont want to share meh pain T . T

Also my mom goes out when EVER she wants. While my dad has to be like a lap dog and tell her where he is going, even for like gas or anything.

Im hating my mom...

EDIT

Im sorry there areguing now...im just kinda sad.....

 

[1048576]

uhhh 50%. Suck it up or kill yourself. It's never gong to get better.

 

[Rigor Mortis]

uhhh 50%. Suck it up or kill yourself. It's never gong to get better.

Well if thats true id reather live with my dad alone than with my mom

 

[Rigor Mortis]

Ugh ignore this thread my mom just started the sympathy cry now. Its all done for today ..

 

[Mr.Bazerkus]

This is kind of off topic I not saying this is bad or anything

but I'm kind of shocked at the things people are willing to share on the Internet with people they don't know.

I guess that is one benefit of being anonymous you don't have to worry about peoples reactions to your story and theirs no awkwardness to go with it

 

[1048576]

Yeah, it sucks to be you. I know I hate it when my problems don't have solutions, but your mom is unstable. Even if you abandon her, she'll track you down and go crazy. I say call the police and put her away (unless her income is important to your livelihood)

 

[Canvasofgrey]

Your mom might be going through a state of premenopause or something. Either that, or she's just working up on your Dad because females are from Venus.

I wouldn't worry about it. There will always be marital problems in a relationship.

Besides, it's also part your dad's fault since he obviously doesn't stand up for himself.

 

[Rigor Mortis]

Your mom might be going through a state of premenopause or something. Either that, or she's just working up on your Dad because females are from Venus.

I wouldn't worry about it. There will always be marital problems in a relationship.

Besides, it's also part your dad's fault since he obviously doesn't stand up for himself.

ITs safe for you to assume that he doesnt stand up forhimself, but he does. alot. he NEVER screens. He never gets close. He talks, real talk. But my mom just shouts and throws stuff. My dad ignores her anger and tries to actually talk to her..
Problem is she doesnt coopeerate


And now there arguing again 0.o...

 

[Omis]

Yeah, it sucks to be you. I know I hate it when my problems don't have solutions, but your mom is unstable. Even if you abandon her, she'll track you down and go crazy. I say call the police and put her away (unless her income is important to your livelihood)

Can you like stop commenting on serious personal situations? I doubt he wants to here your pessimistic views when he is already down.

@OP
I can relate to your situation. A similiar thing is going on in my home. Just persevere, it got better with time in my home.

 

[Evil Eye]

Do yourself a favor, if your parents go splitsville:

Live with dad, visit mom.


Something awful similar happened when I was around what I assume your age is... although my father is a completely innocent party in that story. Long story short, I'm a kid with the barest conception of free will and no balls whatsoever, so I end up with mom, unable to see through her various psychological games.

Surprise, suddenly I'm the one that does all wrong in this world and so on and so forth. Insert a miserable near-decade of that. If I could do it again, I'd go with my dad and enjoy growing up in a household with a stable parent that doesn't seek out conflict and the opportunity to dish out abuse that won't be reciprocated.

Word has it, people with similar mothers have better relationships with them when separated, because they realize they're not going to see you at all if they don't treat you like a human being.




So, again, if they split... do not not not not NOT go with your mother. No matter what she says.

 

[Rigor Mortis]

Do yourself a favor, if your parents go splitsville:

Live with dad, visit mom.


Something awful similar happened when I was around what I assume your age is... although my father is a completely innocent party in that story. Long story short, I'm a kid with the barest conception of free will and no balls whatsoever, so I end up with mom, unable to see through her various psychological games.

Surprise, suddenly I'm the one that does all wrong in this world and so on and so forth. Insert a miserable near-decade of that. If I could do it again, I'd go with my dad and enjoy growing up in a household with a stable parent that doesn't seek out conflict and the opportunity to dish out abuse that won't be reciprocated.

Word has it, people with similar mothers have better relationships with them when separated, because they realize they're not going to see you at all if they don't treat you like a human being.




So, again, if they split... do not not not not NOT go with your mother. No matter what she says.

Yeah i noticed that too. When my dad is working, All the blame goes to somebody else. And when there is a visitor, suddenly where the best behaved family on the block.

 

[Evil Eye]

Do we... have the same biological mother?

Drop me a PM if it ever looks like your parents are actually going to split up for real, and I will send you a how-to on surviving it, and your mom.


EDIT:

Canvas, obviously you have absolutely no experience in this kind of situation. If you yell at someone who yells at you, they cry foul. If you defend yourself against someone striking you, they call abuse. If you do anything at all to defend yourself in any way whatsoever against people like that, you are wrong. You cannot blame someone because the person they deal with is too much of a blockhead to face a reality not in line with what they want to be reality.

 

[Canvasofgrey]

ITs safe for you to assume that he doesnt stand up forhimself, but he does. alot. he NEVER screens. He never gets close. He talks, real talk. But my mom just shouts and throws stuff. My dad ignores her anger and tries to actually talk to her..
Problem is she doesnt coopeerate


And now there arguing again 0.o...

What's the point of talking if the point doesn't get across?

If the point doesn't get across, then his defense for himself is worthless.

 

[1048576]

Can you like stop commenting on serious personal situations? I doubt he wants to here your pessimistic views when he is already down.

@OP
I can relate to your situation. A similiar thing is going on in my home. Just persevere, it got better with time in my home.

Um, at least I'm being realistic. People used to tell me all the time that things would get better. Guess what, they didn't. I'd have rather known at the time that my life was going to suck instead of being instilled with false hope by people like you and then having it shattered.

 

[Rigor Mortis]

What's the point of talking if the point doesn't get across?

If the point doesn't get across, then his defense for himself is worthless.

You dont relise who my mom is. She ends an argument happily, or at least quietly. and later makes fun of the arguement as if NOTHING happend. Saying things like "Oh said you want to speak quietly, lets speak quietly cmon i got all dressed up like im going to a dance"


That crap is ******* evil.

 

[TheLinkus]

yeah, I'd say go with your dad

 

[Zero Beat]

I judge my parents based on their performance as parents, and repay them accordingly. So far, things have been fine. The fact that they're letting my girl move in with us says plenty.

I don't buy into any of that inherent "pretty" talk.

 

[Pluvia's other account]

Word has it, people with similar mothers have better relationships with them when separated, because they realize they're not going to see you at all if they don't treat you like a human being.

You wont believe how true this is. I left a few weeks ago and our relationship has been much better now we're not together.

Go with your dad.