1337marth
Smash Ace
Oh joy, but I still win.
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Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
Bah I got my heart broken in highschool a bunch. Never ever do that wussy crap. I'm like almost 20 years old now so I know way better.
Basically, dont be a wuss, dont let her know you like her more than she likes you or she'll manipulate you. Be arrogant, nonchalant, and most of all, non wussy.
Basically, dont be a wuss, dont let her know you like her more than she likes you or she'll manipulate you. Be arrogant, nonchalant, and most of all, non wussy.
1337marth
Smash Ace
freak j/k, but I still am right.
Red Exodus
Smash Master
Right about what?
EDIT: Oh. I don't know what love is so I can't say if you're right or wrong but I know love is a strong word.
EDIT: Oh. I don't know what love is so I can't say if you're right or wrong but I know love is a strong word.
Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
Love is for idiots. You're not in love. Whip your c*** out and bang that b****
1337Marth, you defined love as: love, and wanting to be with someone for the rest of your life.
Since our wants are superficial and very much static, that's a silly, superficial and inexperienced way of looking at it. Also, you cannot define love as "when you love someone."
You don't know what love is.
Dylan knows what he's talking about.
Since our wants are superficial and very much static, that's a silly, superficial and inexperienced way of looking at it. Also, you cannot define love as "when you love someone."
You don't know what love is.
Dylan knows what he's talking about.
Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
**** straight. Take it from someone who got his heart broken in highschool 20 times. DO NOT LET GIRLS KNOW THAT THEY HAVE ANY SORT OF CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS OR THEY WILL MANIUPLATE YOU BEYOND BELIEF.
You have to make them work for it, heck I wouldnt date a girl that came up to me and acted all ''I like you I like you I like you''
Just be yourself man, is the best advice I can give you. Treat this girl like any other of your friends, and see what happens. A relationship takes two people and if something happens, itll happen. You cant make anything happen, and there are no strategies to getting a girl. They're all individuals.
But for the love of god, stop saying you're in love with someone who doesn't love you. You'll never ever, ever be with her. Youll probably make her hate you.
Same history here. I got ****ed over in high school big time because I was a supplicating wuss about it, and always let the girl on to the fact that I had feelings for her. Sooo glad I learned better.
But there are "strategies" for getting girls. It's called being a pickup artist
Which includes learning to play off of what makes them individual from other girls and exploiting it to build rapport.
themysterymethod.com/forum has a lot of articles on it, and NLP.
But there are "strategies" for getting girls. It's called being a pickup artist
Which includes learning to play off of what makes them individual from other girls and exploiting it to build rapport.themysterymethod.com/forum has a lot of articles on it, and NLP.
Blackadder
Smash Master
(Not trying to start a debate again XD)Same history here. I got ****ed over in high school big time because I was a supplicating wuss about it, and always let the girl on to the fact that I had feelings for her. Sooo glad I learned better.
But there are "strategies" for getting girls. It's called being a pickup artist
themysterymethod.com/forum has a lot of articles on it, and NLP.
I actually let the girl I dated know how I felt, and that I had the hots for her.
Now, this is where I DO agree with you fully.
Picking a girl up is all about figuring her individual stuff, but I woulden't say exploit it, more try and relate to it. Of course, I'm not stranger to hearing a girl likes to go to the park on wednesdays after school, then mysteriously appearing there myself at the same time, but I like to just find out what they like, and getting a hand from it.
Also, 1337...man, I'm sorry, but josh is right here. You have a crush..
You'll get over her you really will. Just wait a few months.
Edit: @Dylan
Manipulate you? At first I thought that was crap, but then I remmeberd we are talking about teenagers here.
I would assume there is truth to his words there, but I would get to know her. Make friends.
Then tell how you feel. Don't use the word love, that's to strong and "Umm..." ish.
Say you like her, but make sure she is a nice person. Dylan is prolly right on the manipulation thing, to an extent.
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Being a wuss CAN work if she doesn't have LSE, a strong b**** shield, and other conditions. Blackadder probably did other things right that made it work. But the thing is, it's highly improbable to turn out well in your favor.
And I'm not talking about being a creep and sneaking to her favorite places, I'm using the term exploit as in do whatever to build rapport with it. Which can be relating to her, if you feel it's actually a cool aspect you're relating to.
And I'm not talking about being a creep and sneaking to her favorite places, I'm using the term exploit as in do whatever to build rapport with it. Which can be relating to her, if you feel it's actually a cool aspect you're relating to.
Blackadder
Smash Master
I woulden't really say being a...
Actually, when you bring up the "Wuss" thing what do you mean?
Do you mean the people that get strait up there and go "I like you, will you go out with me?" as I would deem that rather brave, myself. Explain what you mean.
And I took exploit as in a more jaded cynical way. You know, extorting her.
But I agree with you in relating to her via what she likes. That's one of the first basic steps to get to know and like her..
A boy who puts women on a pedestal, cannot fend for himself, is unconfident, supplicates all the time, doesn't speak his mind, and does not go for his desires. The only wussy part of saying, "I like you, will you go out with me?" is the asking part.
Blackadder
Smash Master
I think this is where our minds come to that point where we disagree to extreem levels. Most of those "Wuss" points to me sound like someone who prolly just needs a helping hand here and there, and those types of people are usualy exreemly nice. But the whole "...Will you go out with me?" part to me, is only being polite. it gives the GIRL a chance to say what she thinks. Being "Macho" or whatever should never be about taking controll over ever aspect of the thing, and bullying the girl into dating you. I think it's both fair, brave, and kindly to ask "I like you, will you go out with me?" Besides, if you don't ask her out...how will you ever go out?
Blackadder
Smash Master
Agreed. I'm pretty sick of all this, our opinion are to different to not argue at, methinks. I'm just gonna ditch this thread.
I forget what it was originaly about, but I think it was on asking someone out.
1337, Just ASK her! If your friends with her, even better. If not, become friends, then ask her out. I suggest saying summat like "I like you, will you go out with me?" but that's just what I think.
I really recommend just asking her, and being friends with her.
Red Exodus
Smash Master
Here's the best way ever. I swear to god it will get you a girl in 5 minutes or less and it'll help you find out if she can read. Ok, get a piece of paper and write this:
I liek u do u liek mi?
Yes [] or No []
Pure genius, she'll be putty in your arms.
I liek u do u liek mi?
Yes [] or No []
Pure genius, she'll be putty in your arms.
Blackadder
Smash Master
Made of win. That's both funny, and seriously what I've been trying to say..
Just ask!
Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
It really depends on the girl. I fell in -love- last year, I knew I was in love, I knew she was the right girl. I told her immediatly how I felt, I didnt f*** around. She felt the same way, we lived miles apart, 5 hour busride but we knew eachother. I went down to Toronto and spent the best 5 days of my life with this girl.
But, we're still both young and whatnot, the flame died after I went back home, went to school, she went to school.
When you're in love, you'll know. Its ALWAYS better to take a chance, than to wonder forever if you could have had this girl in your arms.
But when it comes to trying to get a girl to go out with ya, spilling your heart, or getting too attached at first is a horrible mistake, 99 times out of a hundred. You gotta be friends first, let her know you like her through nice gestures, listening to her, talking to her. Don't be some sentimental wussbag all the time and change your attitude or behaviour around her. Be yourself, have fun. Either she'll like you, or she won't. It's all in how well you get along together.
Physical attraction pays a big roll too, We're all shallow to an extent, wherein if you dont find someone physically attractive, you generally dont want to date them unless you really, really get emotionally attached in which case you can look way beyond physical looks, and you'll be horny for her just because of how special she is to ya.
Do NOT tell her you like her on MSN. This will fail 100 percent of the time. Do not hit on girls on msn, ever. Have some balls, and hang out with her in person.
This is my advice, based on personal experience. I've loved, Ive lost, I keep going. Do what works for you, but trust me when I say don't give your heart to a girl before you know you can trust her with it. If she knows she has your heart, she can do ANYTHING to manipulate you, crush you, or extort you. The sad truth is theres a lot of girls like this out in the world.
Its all a matter of chance, in the end when it comes to teenagers. I was one recently and I can tell ya I had no idea what I wanted, and I thought I was in love every 2 months.
@ Red : Tacky enough to work on girls with monthly WoW subscriptions, not much else. Don't count on it pal.
But, we're still both young and whatnot, the flame died after I went back home, went to school, she went to school.
When you're in love, you'll know. Its ALWAYS better to take a chance, than to wonder forever if you could have had this girl in your arms.
But when it comes to trying to get a girl to go out with ya, spilling your heart, or getting too attached at first is a horrible mistake, 99 times out of a hundred. You gotta be friends first, let her know you like her through nice gestures, listening to her, talking to her. Don't be some sentimental wussbag all the time and change your attitude or behaviour around her. Be yourself, have fun. Either she'll like you, or she won't. It's all in how well you get along together.
Physical attraction pays a big roll too, We're all shallow to an extent, wherein if you dont find someone physically attractive, you generally dont want to date them unless you really, really get emotionally attached in which case you can look way beyond physical looks, and you'll be horny for her just because of how special she is to ya.
Do NOT tell her you like her on MSN. This will fail 100 percent of the time. Do not hit on girls on msn, ever. Have some balls, and hang out with her in person.
This is my advice, based on personal experience. I've loved, Ive lost, I keep going. Do what works for you, but trust me when I say don't give your heart to a girl before you know you can trust her with it. If she knows she has your heart, she can do ANYTHING to manipulate you, crush you, or extort you. The sad truth is theres a lot of girls like this out in the world.
Good man, Good man. I am definatly not talking about adults here. Teenagers are F***ed in the head, and half the time they think their in love, its their hormones talking. And teenage girls WILL manipulate you, ive had it happen to me, Ive seen it happen to others. Do not let your guard down around teenage girls when you're a teenage boy.
Its all a matter of chance, in the end when it comes to teenagers. I was one recently and I can tell ya I had no idea what I wanted, and I thought I was in love every 2 months.
@ Red : Tacky enough to work on girls with monthly WoW subscriptions, not much else. Don't count on it pal.
I only date my girls on t3h intraweb, its safer that way
Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
What if they have hydralisks though?
Rx-
A.K.A. Disafter
NOT TRUE!!!! I've been after my current girlfriend for the last 4 years, and we only just started going out 6 months ago (this 27th). Perserverance is key, but sometimes you have to stop and think about what qualities she would like to see in a guy.
Dylan_Tnga
Smash Master
Congratulations and all, but jesus christ that's a long time. She better have put out on the first date.
Hm I don't quite understand what you mean, I'm ranting about something else down here so bear with me
Changing certain aspects of yourself for the sake of getting a girl to like you, is among the most pathetic things you could do.
This is infact lying. You won't change. unless you're really commited to change yourself for a woman, in which case you're a weak person to begin with.
And I'm not talking about things like wearing better clothes, or trying to be a better listener. Im talking about changing your style, the way you talk, what you like, what you do, just for the sake of creating a different person for this girl to fall for, when its not even the real you.
Don't do that if you have any self respect. Find a girl who likes you for who you are, because you can't be with one who doesn't.
Zook
Perpetual Lazy Bum
Tell her you wanna poop where she pees.
1337marth
Smash Ace
Na I better not>_><_<
Darkurai
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Ah yes. I remember that I had a somewhat similar problem once. I've already gone into detail, so I won't do it again.
Everytime I asked someone what I should do, they all said the same thing. Only you can decide what to do when you're in love. So no one else can tell you what to do.
But I can tell you this. Those who don't try don't risk loss. But those who do not risk loss can never gain.
Everytime I asked someone what I should do, they all said the same thing. Only you can decide what to do when you're in love. So no one else can tell you what to do.
But I can tell you this. Those who don't try don't risk loss. But those who do not risk loss can never gain.
Red Exodus
Smash Master
It works very well
if you're in elementary school Oops I think I just gave pedophiles an idea.
pikachun00b7
Smash Lord
I like it especially when they are guys.
1337marth
Smash Ace
Now What!?!?
Boomer
Smash Apprentice
DO A BARRELL ROLL!!!!
Cinder
Smash Master
Only you would do that, my friend
You, sir, are a disturbing individual...
Marth...let me tell you a story (it might not help, but what the hell): Over the summer, a friend of mine admitted to having a crush on me, and I admitted that I had feelings for her. The next time we hung out, she took me by surprise...while she was getting ready to play Pokemon Diamond, she turned around and kissed me...
So, after going on and on about how my girlfriend and I got together, I just wanna say that you need to be open...if it's meant to be, she'll fall for you at some point...take it from a guy who's been stood up, lost crushes to football players, and been too nervous to admit feelings...it will work out, my friend...trust me
Boomer
Smash Apprentice
Or you can tap "R" or "Z" twice.
Cinder
Smash Master
That works too...of course the relationship I got in after doing that only lasted a couple months...but MAN was it fun
Boomer
Smash Apprentice
I may have been joking around but I highly recommend that you don't take his advice. You can tell a lot about him by his advice and other hints. For example,you can tell he's obviously slightly to quite egotistical by looking at his username. Also, he doesn't think too highly of women or if he does he still holds them inferior. You can tell this by his suggestion of using hormones. Overall you are two different people with different experiences and you should play things by how you think they should be played. Such is the relationship between Smash... Life... and Love.
The barrel roll is still recommended
The barrel roll is still recommended
Falco&Victory
Smash Champion
uh, football playersOnly you would do that, my friend
You, sir, are a disturbing individual...
Marth...let me tell you a story (it might not help, but what the hell): Over the summer, a friend of mine admitted to having a crush on me, and I admitted that I had feelings for her. The next time we hung out, she took me by surprise...while she was getting ready to play Pokemon Diamond, she turned around and kissed me...
So, after going on and on about how my girlfriend and I got together, I just wanna say that you need to be open...if it's meant to be, she'll fall for you at some point...take it from a guy who's been stood up, lost crushes to football players, and been too nervous to admit feelings...it will work out, my friend...trust me
I still find it odd that I am trying to hook up the girl of my dreams with a guy she likes.
and joshirad, stop giving advice. Most people here are looking for you know, a relationship
Cinder
Smash Master
Smooth, dude...that is the way to go, Marth...listen to my pal Boomer!
F&V: yes, football players...it was so heartbreaking...and not a girl I'd think would be so shallow...ah well, it wasn't meant to be...they broke up though, I think...but still, it wasn't meant to be
Boomer
Smash Apprentice
You weren't quite as philosophical as I was but, w0rd.
Falco&Victory
Smash Champion
Soooooooo, no one else wants help? Lol, I find that hard to believe.
I would laugh if Gimpy or Gideon asked for help
I would laugh if Gimpy or Gideon asked for help
Boomer
Smash Apprentice
Lol. You'd think he'd have more girl troubles with a nick like Gimpy( if you catch my drift)
Falco&Victory
Smash Champion
Ah, Gimpy could probably get any girl, he's hilarious in real life, ever met him? Washington homies for the win
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