It's not so much about the rules that the idea anyone should be harassed... is a load of ****. Like, seriously, no. They're all bad. There's nothing to equate. Bigotry is bad. Harassment is bad. Doxxing is bad. Flaming is bad. Trolling is bad. I mean, seriously, there's just no justification for any of these.
Yes, we don't take care of offsite stuff. But there's more to it than the "we don't care". We do care, in that we keep an eye on them upon learning these actions. It's important to remember that we can only enforce what happens within our jurisdiction. That's something that's beyond key.
And yes, mentioning what somebody did on another site is 100% harassment. There's no reason to do it. All you do is create a situation to make a user a giant target for others. And you know what happens? A scumbag, as much as they are, get harassed severely and flamed severely(and trolled too, or one of those three). This is beyond unacceptable and cannot be justified in any way. There is a purpose in bring it up to the Staff of a user's offsite actions. And that's so we can keep a close eye on them to see if they cause trouble. We also may not know the whole context, and what happened on another site could be a very long time ago. People change all the time. People do get educated on why they're wrong. What happened in the past only affects here if it happened here in the first place. There's a reason why our infractions systems builds higher, from warning(0 points) to more. Because it's for repeated actions. If they've never done it here, then we can't actually do anything about them existing here. Opinions aren't good enough. When you let offsite stuff give you the ability to enforce the rules(instead of onsite only), that means you can ban anyone for anything they do offsite. Oh, they're a porn artist? Welp, they did it offsite. Guess they should be banned here. That can be 100% applied to every rule and why it is bad to ban based upon offsite stuff only. And that's one of our few "auto-ban things" we have. What happens offsite is not our business. We make it our business when it's here. Cause it actually relates to the site. You know what's also our business? People raiding the site. People using this site to dox others. Yeah, it's a big deal and we will stop it hard. We will stop bigotry hard when it comes here too. But if it doesn't come here, we have no power to enforce it. How on earth can we? It's nothing to do with us. I get that people feel uncomfortable, but that's why you bring it up to us so we keep an eye and enforce it the second they do anything bigoted.
The thing is, it's pointless to think of others as bad people here. It creates pointless drama and causes tons of turmoil while not improving the site at all. Nobody will ever justify bigotry. The fact bigots exist here does not mean we can them. What happens if they were a former bigot? Welp, apparently them changing for the better is irrelevant because of offsite stuff that happened some time ago. What happens if they're trying to get better? Guess they can't because people are so filled with hate instead of understanding what's actually going on. This is why harassment towards members is against the rules too. Because it's 100% malicious in every way. Hating on people is malicious. There's no excuse for it. Yeah, some are scumbags. Instead of hating, why not actually report their behavior and let us handle the behavior itself? I get the feeling uncomfortable, but how can you feel uncomfortable when you don't see the actions here? You can be weary of the user and avoid them. Hell, ignore them if you aren't sure they had changed. We understand that. But we can't justified inappropriate behavior towards any member of this site. Everybody is a human being here and will be treated as such. Even those who are getting permabanned for bigotry are still treated like a human being too. We professionally do it. And there's a reason for that. By not acting with hatred, we make the world better. The site's biggest important thing is making the place better for everyone. We cannot do that with people trying to spread hatred. Harassment is hatred, frankly. So think about it, what do you hope to accomplish at that point? Are you really making this place better? No. You're just making someone's life miserable. That's still wrong. Instead, try to help people improve. Those that can't will overall be banned from this site depending the situation(bigots and harassers will be banned indefinitely at some point).