OnyxVulpine
Smash Champion
I know they say honesty is the best policy but this has been bugging me for a while. I try to be a real honest guy, I don't like to lie unless I feel its absolutely necessary.
I have a friend (or a person) that I know, she tries so hard to be my best friend because she likes me (Or so I've heard) The truth is.. She really really bugs me, she has called me up to 20 times a day. She used to ask sometimes if I'm bugging her which I honestly say "Yes, a bit" and she would dim down the calls to mayve 2-3 a day but it picks up again in about a week.
Recently, she asked if I have a problem with her (Which I used to say "Not really") and I said "Kinda". I haven't asked her, but I heard from some of her friends that she said that she no longer likes me. I think shes really hurt and I don't like to be a mean guy either like saying mean things about people. And I'm wondering if it was right to say.
This also goes with what I am going with... In relationships there are things that happen. Like when the girl asks something like "Does this make me look fat?" or some things like that.
I'm not asking for advice. I'm simply asking around about.. since "Honesty is the best policy." Do you think there are times that lying is really appropriate? Most are going to say yes, but since I don't like to lie, no matter how little an effect it will have. Could not lying EVER get you into trouble through out your life?
*Sigh, hope this isn't a bad topic*
-Onyx
I have a friend (or a person) that I know, she tries so hard to be my best friend because she likes me (Or so I've heard) The truth is.. She really really bugs me, she has called me up to 20 times a day. She used to ask sometimes if I'm bugging her which I honestly say "Yes, a bit" and she would dim down the calls to mayve 2-3 a day but it picks up again in about a week.
Recently, she asked if I have a problem with her (Which I used to say "Not really") and I said "Kinda". I haven't asked her, but I heard from some of her friends that she said that she no longer likes me. I think shes really hurt and I don't like to be a mean guy either like saying mean things about people. And I'm wondering if it was right to say.
This also goes with what I am going with... In relationships there are things that happen. Like when the girl asks something like "Does this make me look fat?" or some things like that.
I'm not asking for advice. I'm simply asking around about.. since "Honesty is the best policy." Do you think there are times that lying is really appropriate? Most are going to say yes, but since I don't like to lie, no matter how little an effect it will have. Could not lying EVER get you into trouble through out your life?
*Sigh, hope this isn't a bad topic*
-Onyx