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Friend Problem

BrawlMoptop11

Smash Rookie
Joined
Jul 27, 2009
Messages
19
Location
Oregon
So I'm having a problem here. So on the last day of school (Middle of June), some(9) friends went up to me and said they did not like me, and did not want to be my friend anymore.

(Time Goes On)

Just recently, two of those friends have said sorry for their actions and I accepted. Now, just 2 hous ago or so, one of them said they needed to talk, he said that many of the people who
said what they said on the last day of school, were not talking to him, because he told one friend they he is friends with me again, and that went on to the others. They were not talking to him cause they were pissed at him for being my friend again, and he told me that he does not want to lose 5 friends over 1 friend. I talked it over with him and I told him this: "Look, this should not be a big deal, those guys should not care weither or not you are my friend. This should not effect them what so ever. They should just treat you like they did when they were not ignoring you. This should not effect them at all, and this should not be a problem". He just agrees with me and told me that he is going to talk to them about it.

What I want to know is what you guys think, what you think I should do, what your views on this topic are. I don't know what to do.
 

Feyg0t

Smash Rookie
Joined
Aug 12, 2009
Messages
17
Find new friends, they sound like a bunch of ***s.
And there isn't much you can really do now.
It seems like you have done as much as you can.
 

Pikaville

Pikaville returns 10 years later.
Joined
Feb 16, 2006
Messages
10,897
Location
Kinsale, Ireland
That is way harsh.

Just forget about the others.

My theory about "friends" like that are always stick with the ones who dont make you choose between them and other friends.
 

Fuelbi

Banned via Warnings
Joined
Jun 17, 2009
Messages
16,894
Location
Also PIPA and CISPA
My philosophy is "If they are mean then leave them".Trust me Ive done that with most of my friends and if there is this one person... ONE PERSON who isnt mean then its worth it trying to get to know him/her. Trust me its been like that WITH ME for years and my philosphy has never let me down
 

condemned_soul

Smash Champion
Joined
May 10, 2007
Messages
2,100
Location
detroit MI
well my advice would be that you need to explain to them that real friendship can not be taken away because you have a friend that they dont like. people who value friendship will accept you as you are
 

derfleurer

Smash Journeyman
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
292
Location
Hurlock, MD
1 - They have a big problem with you for a completely viable reason.
2 - They're just acting like children. Welcome to high school.

Pick one. Either way, why be friends with someone that'd trade you for the very fact that someone else doesn't like you?
 
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