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Link to original post: [drupal=1992]A Note that I wrote from when I was Younger[/drupal]
"I am sad for those who are confused. Many people have it hard physically, emotionally, or both. I wish that those who are emotionally (and physically) hurt would learn sooner that life is tough. I have learned this early the hard way, unfortunately. Life is full of ups and downs, but one of the most important lessons to learn in life is to keep a level head. If something bad happens to you, accept it, and move on, instead of wasting precious time of our lives. We have only one life, so why waste so much of it?
I know that it is much worse when we are young, within teenage years, the last years of our innocence. If we try to mature too quickly, by dating, kissing, and those unfortunate enough to have sex in early teenage years, we lose the only link from kids to adults. We lose our innocence. While some of us date, kiss members of the opposite sex, and (unfortunately) more, there is no more innocence left. I am not saying that if you have kissed someone, you are now no longer a child. Quite the contrary. All I ask is why? Why do we waste our innocent years on what will happen over decades and decades? The answer is that we are tempted by what maturity has to offer: potential (increased) happiness, kissing, and eventually, sexual intercourse. One may argue that our hormones make us think of these new possibilities. This is partly true. Yes, hormones do force our minds to think and consider having a sexual partner. However, we make the final decision as to when you start seeking another member of the opposite sex. Why must we consider a partner as an definite option for a lifestyle, so young? I don't think that we should start this so early. When you start kissing early, there is nothing forward to look forward to, other than sex! So, after kissing, the next option is what should be unthinkable at our current ages. Sure, our brains are hardwired for sex, but why start this activity so early? We need not to. Why must we start in Middle School? Why not High School?
My point is this: when we seek out a member of the opposite sex early, we do not consider the fact that we can get hurt. We are not mature enough to handle the fact that we will not always stay happy while involved with relationships. In conclusion, remember this: being in a relationship can be a double-edged sword. While you like being with a member of the opposite sex, you can be hurt as well.
Thank you for reading this all."
That is what I wrote a long while ago, when I was 13 and all of my friends were getting into the dating buisness. Not bad, but noone was as mature as I was, unfortunately.
"I am sad for those who are confused. Many people have it hard physically, emotionally, or both. I wish that those who are emotionally (and physically) hurt would learn sooner that life is tough. I have learned this early the hard way, unfortunately. Life is full of ups and downs, but one of the most important lessons to learn in life is to keep a level head. If something bad happens to you, accept it, and move on, instead of wasting precious time of our lives. We have only one life, so why waste so much of it?
I know that it is much worse when we are young, within teenage years, the last years of our innocence. If we try to mature too quickly, by dating, kissing, and those unfortunate enough to have sex in early teenage years, we lose the only link from kids to adults. We lose our innocence. While some of us date, kiss members of the opposite sex, and (unfortunately) more, there is no more innocence left. I am not saying that if you have kissed someone, you are now no longer a child. Quite the contrary. All I ask is why? Why do we waste our innocent years on what will happen over decades and decades? The answer is that we are tempted by what maturity has to offer: potential (increased) happiness, kissing, and eventually, sexual intercourse. One may argue that our hormones make us think of these new possibilities. This is partly true. Yes, hormones do force our minds to think and consider having a sexual partner. However, we make the final decision as to when you start seeking another member of the opposite sex. Why must we consider a partner as an definite option for a lifestyle, so young? I don't think that we should start this so early. When you start kissing early, there is nothing forward to look forward to, other than sex! So, after kissing, the next option is what should be unthinkable at our current ages. Sure, our brains are hardwired for sex, but why start this activity so early? We need not to. Why must we start in Middle School? Why not High School?
My point is this: when we seek out a member of the opposite sex early, we do not consider the fact that we can get hurt. We are not mature enough to handle the fact that we will not always stay happy while involved with relationships. In conclusion, remember this: being in a relationship can be a double-edged sword. While you like being with a member of the opposite sex, you can be hurt as well.
Thank you for reading this all."
That is what I wrote a long while ago, when I was 13 and all of my friends were getting into the dating buisness. Not bad, but noone was as mature as I was, unfortunately.
