Tired of Procrastinating and other stuff (LIFE)

[ranmaru]

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Sort of rant, and maybe a note of me trying to get serious with life and do better.

I'm tired of leaving school work until the last minute and then struggling to keep up. I wonder, why do I do things like that? Can't I be strong and do things in a better way? Or is there a way I can do things but it would be totally random and I wouldn't know until it just happened?

I'm tired of not having a job now, and that even worse the economy isn't so good. I'd wish I could get a job as a second change, don't I deserve a second chance so I can man up and not have to put up with my parents always yelling at me for not having a job at this age? Gah...

I also am a mess, my allergies are acting up, and I don't even EXACTLY know what I'm exactly allergic to. Sure I had that test that tells me everything I'm allergic too, but that was taken when I was a child, and all I know I am allergic to is pollen, many other things. My skin is sensitive, and gets itcchy. What do I do? I SCRATCH.

I'm tired of not having a girlfriend, but its not all too bad... Thankfully for porn. But still, it'd be nice to have one.

I'm tired of life being so complicated, why can't life be simpler?

Thats about it... I guess it turned out to be a I'm tired about life thing... Oh well, hope you read and maybe give advice to me, maybe there are things you use as techniques to go by life a bit easier that I don't, or logic that I don't know. Or Maybe you'd like to post what you are tired about.

 

[Jam Stunna]

Just relax. Take the negatives in your life and look at the positive aspects.

You don't have a job, so it's a good thing that you don't have a girlfriend trying to take what little money you do have, right?

 

[ranmaru]

Thats true I guess. xD Thanks I'll do that. :]

 

[Teran]

You don't have a job, so it's a good thing that you don't have a girlfriend trying to take what little money you do have, right?

The beauty of love, Jam.

It takes over everything.

 

[Firus]

I know precisely how you feel...I've been shaping up, but I'm pretty bad about procrastinating. The most irksome part is that a year ago I was PERFECT about getting my work done on time. I know it can only benefit me to get it done, but...meh, I just screw it up anyways. I get a sick feeling about how much work I have to do and I can't bring myself to do it.

As for the girlfriend thing, personally I'm not really with you on wanting one, and in addition to what Jam said if you're stressed out about procrastination and everything I don't think the stress of a relationship is going to help...I mean, they can be great, but they can also really suck. A friend of mine was in a relationship a few years ago with this guy who was uber possessive/emo and once a week she was in tears because he was making her feel bad about something or other.

I wish I could offer more advice than that, but I'm not really sure how to help you with your procrastination problem since I don't really know how to solve my own. The best solution I can offer is to have a night where you've got so much work that you put off that you're up really late(/early) or pull an all-nighter to get it done and feel so crappy from it that you realize that you HAVE to change. That's not very good advice, though...don't TRY to do that, but after two really late nights last week I'm trying to be really responsible about work because it made me feel like crap. All I'm saying is that if that does happen, it may help. But again, don't do it on purpose.

 

[ranmaru]

Well about the girlfriend thing I never really had a real relationship so I don't really know the stress of it, haven't experienced it. But I can see it logically I guess... Err...

Hmmm, that may work. Why? Because if I don't, it'd probaly happen if I didn't plan it anyways, lol. Not that I would do it, lol. (I am one who likes to sleep, and I can't even do that right, I mean sleeping at the right times) But I may have to do that if I really wish to change and to always fall in my slump of "Oh I'll do it later now I'll just play paper mario or something" and I'm so used to procrastinating Its even easier to put stuff off because I know that it'll HAPPEN ( I mean I know that I can put up with the stress of the little time I'll have to do the work I have, and I know how that feels too, so I know what to look forward to, or prepare for the stress I might have coming to me) anyways... wish there was a clearer way of saying that.

Thanks for the advice. :]

 

[Firus]

I can understand what you mean about not really knowing how much stress relationships can yield -- I actually don't know firsthand myself. The one relationship I've been in was actually rather happy and stress-less until the last week or so (and that was purely on my end). But I have seen how stressful they CAN be, and it stands to reason that they would have that factor.

Glad to give any advice -- I really hope it helps, or at least that you get out of the slump in some way.