Damn...that's pretty far. Pretty much Ontario's entire competitive (offline) scene is in Toronto/GTA (Greater Toronto Area), and seeing as how you're 13 and it's a 4 hour drive on the highway..................yeeeeaaaahhhh I don't see that happening, as much as I hate to admit it
Also don't worry about being young, that's not the issue. It's mostly that you're so far away, but also having overprotective parents is also quite an issue I guess. Also ftr I'm not going to assume you're dumb just because of your age.
Sorry, I don't play online (I can't stand Wifi personally) but a bunch of other good people from down here do, and they're good too. I can give you their names; Toronto Joe, Meekspeedy, Blacktwins, Poke are the main ones but there are lots more. If you're looking to play online though, AllisBrawl is generally a better website for that.
Yes there are online competitive scenes but since they're online they're not as strictly geographically defined, if that makes sense. ie there isn't much of a competitive Southern Ontario Wifi scene, it's more of a competitive Canada/NA scene.