Holy ****, she came out on a single site that she felt she could trust then they ****ing dug through and found sites she hadn't come out on? That's absurdly ****ed up, holy ****.
Here's the thing. None of us here knew the context or had any reason to. Calling her (or hell, him if the person changed their mind) it just seems uncalled for when no one here should have any idea what you're talking about. Does it make you a bad person? No. It just helps serve to dehumanize and poke fun at people like that, whether you mean it to or not.
It's like trying to be correct and say "negro" instead of "******." You're simply continuing to set them aside as something distasteful and outside the norm.
I'm not mad or anything, I'm just a bit annoyed that you see calling a person "it," drama or not, to be ok.