Siiigghhhhh...

[Chronodiver Lokii]

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[I need a slight vent right now. Dont worry, nothing that needs to be censored. Just kinda bleh with stuff]

Lately, ive become rather annoyed with a whole group of my friends. Usually, i can just get over it after a few minutes. But lately, a lot of my friends have been really getting on my last nerve. They just seem so...immature...but that doesnt seem like the right word for it (im one of the most immature people i know...so thats wierd). I dunno...over the past few months, ive grown more chill about stupid stuff like drama that basically plagued that group for our entire sophomore year. And i basically took a break from them during the summer (spent most my time at Denzi's house or my local friends, i go to a private school 15 minutes outside my city).
I've found in coming back, the drama died down...but its still lurking. New stupidity lurches out of the darkness of high school, of course. One friend suddenly becomes more abrasive, and well, downright rude to everyone. Another defends that friend when i get attacked for having an off day (bad day, i didnt talk to people, suddenly im getting yelled at for ignoring people?) by saying "well, they had a hard past." Excuses, excuses, excuses. For everything. Sure, i feel bad for what some of my friends have gone through...but they never do anything about it.
I dont know...im just kinda annoyed...ya know?
Ah well. Stupid venting.
Otherwise, life is pretty good. Denzi is gone for the week though on a retreat (no phones allowed) so there goes my daily amusement of bugging him through texts (best buddyyyy D: ). And my little sister is standing behind me wearing a fuzzy hat and fake glasses for no reason.

tl;dr
Drama is stupid, people annoy me, but life is good.
How you doing, UB?

 

[Tranzworld]

I know your pain. You'll just have to deal with it (which I think you know already) but yeah :/. Unfortunatly, welcome to high school. Some people just take forever to mature. I still had people in my senior year that would call me out and say "you've been **** talking me! We gonna fight!" And considering i'm quieter than a serial killer at school anyways, i found it quite funny.

My best advice to you is to ignore it. People can't seem to get over themselves sometimes. If they annoy you, tell them to grow up. Really. They may hate you for a couple days, but when they realize you've been giving them geniune advice, they probably won't hate you so much.

Also, I've found that finding a good stress reliever helps out.

Good luck man, 2 more years and you're done with the social hell that is highschool.

 

[Darkshadow7827]

And then college will welcome you with its fair share of douche bags too. It never ends, although social cliques tends to be less prevalent. My friends still act a lil immature too - they do P90X and started acting like meatheads yelling "skadoo" while pretending to flex to muscles that they didn't gain. Well, maybe it did them some good, but they're not nearly as jacked as they think they are.

Anyways, this is your blog and about your feelings. But yea, there will always be moments of immaturity in life, high school, college, daily life. And yes, it will piss us off too. I hear ya man, good luck getting through the next 2 years. Hopefully it'll become less prevalent.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

Thanks guys
Srsly great advice!
And thanks for taking the time to read my lame rant haha

 

[Jupz]

Hopefully it wears off soon

 

[Kinzer]

I'm super, thanks for asking.

I had a friend that was really obnoxious... I didn't say anything, but eventually I just stopped seeing him and I was a bit happier after that...