Serious responses only please

[Smoke and smash]

Okay, so there's this girl (woman, rather, she's in her 20's) who I met recently at a party. She indicated very clearly that she is in to me, and is hot for me. I'm fairly confident I can bang her the next time we meet, because she displayed an array of telling signs that included sexual hand gestures, sexy facial expressions, and she also said I am welcome back ANY time (the way she said it made it obvious). She even called my friend who brought me to the party and told him that she wants me at the next one. She never calls him for any reason, so I'm obviously still on her mind. This situation is very strange, because I do not think any kind of relationship could potentially develop from this and we barely know each other to begin with.

I'm all for this, and I'm souped at the idea. However, I don't know how to make a move that quickly. I wouldn't want to just say, "you wanna ****?" I also don't want her to make all the moves. I really don't know what to do here, and I was hoping you could share your experiences with one night stands to help me out. Advice is very welcome, and please be serious in your replies. Thanks in advance.

 

[thegreatkazoo]

This belongs here.

And with that, the thread can be closed...

 

[Smoke and smash]

This is a specific question and I need specific answers. Please don't close the thread.

Instead of telling me the thread needs to be close, why not help me out first?

This doesn't belong in that thread, I'm not trying to vent, I'm seeking advice.

 

[Clownbot]

This is a specific question and I need specific answers. Please don't close the thread.

Instead of telling me the thread needs to be close, why not help me out first?

This doesn't belong in that thread, I'm not trying to vent, I'm seeking advice.

Advice can go in the thread too. >.>

Sorry for not helping you out, but.... Well, it can.

 

[Smoke and smash]

Nobody is going to help me in that thread, since there are already a million other people posting their sob stories and whatnot.

 

[Scott!]

If you read through the Something Bothering You thread, you'll see that a lot of the people who post there asking for advice usually receive it. I'd offer you some of my own, but 1-night stands are definitely not my thing.

 

[Smoke and smash]

I wasn't terribly optimistic about the amount of people here who can help me. But there has to be some people out there who have experienced enough to help me. I mean, I got into this situation somehow, so I figured I can't be the only one, and I am a nerd for video games just like a lot of you after all. If I can do it, anyone can.

 

[DtJ Jungle]

Makers Mark is my secret.

No seriously, (this is going to sound ridiculously piggish of me and I apologize to all women who may feel offended by this, and guys too), if she wants it, tease her a bit. Kiss her neck or somethin like that, show her that you want her. Show her that you're diggin her, and her body. But don't get...right to it, even if they are into it, it's still not all that smart. Like, if theres music grind up on her from behind, kiss her neck, smoethin like that.

FWIW, i lurk the Something bothering you thread, and i wouldve gladly helped you there as well.

 

[Crimson King]

You aren't special. Use the thread.