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I'm not mocking you. I just didn't know that it was legal to cuff an innocent civilian and force him to an interrogation room. To me that sounds a lot like kidnapping. Also, at the end of the show, they summarize the results of the cases as statistics. Like 54 apprehended and 98% success in court trial or something like that.Also it should be noted that like in the show COPS, all parties are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law, and the show makes no mention of the outcomes of these "predator's" trials.
Usually they keep in contact over a span of weeks to months.Succumbio said:Besides, it's good tv, I guess. I mean seriously, how thick do you have to be to fall for that ****? Its not like the show is unknown like it was when it first came out. You go to a chat room and some 13 yo is trying to get a date for sex, you better believe you'll end up on Dateline, lol.
Some of the people who do get caught are honestly perverted to the extreme. While waiting in the kitchen, one guy started to jack off as Christopher Hansen walked in. Was that pretty sick? Yes. But that guy was under the impression that he was going to get consensual sex so I guess he was getting pretty excited. It just sucks that he was on national television.Nday said:Best part is when the alleged predator tries to lie himself way out of the situation. "I-I-I must be at the wrong house *dashes out the door*"
Oh and also I like the issue of parents allowing kids the kind of freedom on the Internet. Not that they shouldn't be allowed to use it, but I think more needs to go into educating the **** kids about it.
I apologize, but one word pops in my mind when I hear education and prevention in the same sentence: smoking. Tons of people know the health risks connected to smoking, yet they still continue because they are stressed, addicted to the nicotine, developed a habit, do it for social reasons, and several other factors. I don't want to victim smokers as the straw-man so other examples are drinking, proper diet, and even academic studying. We've been educated on drinking, told about getting our proper food groups, and know that we should study in order to get good grades for a better future. Yet we don't always follow through on the information that we are being fed. Most advice being offered to society is a promise for the long term, the future. But most people want to be happy in the present and they have a certain degree of guarantee that smoking, drinking, and partying will make them happy.~automatic said:Education and prevention is the key, much like most things affecting society. Like Fatman said, the resources used on putting the show together could be used to prevent this type of thing from happening by going after actual people who are likely to go after kids and teens. Also, educating children about the sick people out on the internet would also make them aware of the danger signs of predators and scams and **** like that.
All the Catholic sexual abuse scandals has left me with a deep seated skepticism in the pursuit of sex offenders. Granted I'm not stating that efforts are futile, it just seems that a huge pool of resources would be required to catch the most elusive predators and may require violation of privacy in order to catch such offenders in the act. In the end, catching a predator is a good deed done. But the methods employed and the justification used might be similar to the ones used in TCAP.Fat said:Considering how much money is spent on the show, I believe it would be much better for them to use those resources to find registered sexual offenders/those who have been diagnosed as mentally ill who have "fallen off the wagon" and people who are potentially dangerous instead of these guys who decided to spend a day away from /b/.
I'm not sure restriction is the proper method. Especially when there are innumerable variants when it comes to IRC, social network boards, and other forms of cross-communication with compete strangers. I think that parents need to raise their kids, instead of holding strangers on the internet liable for the welfare of their son or daughter. I also think that parents should encourage an open relationship about what goes on in their young child's life, including what they read or see on the internet. Having discussions about it could facilitate growth depending on the type of material was discussed. In addition, it lets parents know of any possible threat the internet could pose. This is of course in a perfect world. :<Fat said:I also agree with you when it comes to actually educating kids about these kinds of people instead assuming that kids just naturally know what to do in these situations. It's really easy to find programs that block potentially dangerous sites and most parents don't even bother even though you can find a good number of them for free.
Absolutely well taken point. It's totally gestapo when its portrayed on TV and on that show. They "get away" with it because the proper formalities off screen have taken place, ie probable cause is established (the transcripts of the chat sessions), an arrest warrant is served, etc.I'm not mocking you. I just didn't know that it was legal to cuff an innocent civilian and force him to an interrogation room. To me that sounds a lot like kidnapping. Also, at the end of the show, they summarize the results of the cases as statistics. Like 54 apprehended and 98% success in court trial or something like that.
Perhaps, I mean I met my wife online, technically, but I did venture out to meet her "IRL" for a week before I decided to move to where she lived. Way back in the day we had little get togethers with people we chatted with over BBS services. And of course there's pay sites for online dating and such. The show's popularity is such that it really perpetuates itself, gives rise to itself, but there seems to be no staunching the flow of "predators" from showing up each week to get lectured on national television. One day we may find that they DID run out and had to start paying actors to fill the spots, lol.Usually they keep in contact over a span of weeks to months.
Hey Succumbio you want to be friends? Hey Succumbio I noticed that you're really smart. Hey Succumbio, we really have a lot in common. Succumbio do you mind if we meet somewhere for a little date?
Granted it seems ridiculous when presented in a clustered paragraph format, but one of the main reasons why I used to join forum communities was the fact that I looked forward to developing a relationship with the community and finding specific users who I could relate to in particular. Shows like Dateline make tangible relationships much harder as people become more skeptical about the person behind the screen. Haha, perhaps I just have too much trust in the people I meet online.
Yeah. I really am interested in seeing a court case where IRC logs and vBulletin board posts are used as incriminating evidence against the defendant. I swear I would crap bricks if the lawyer was completely deadpan in his delivery to the judge.Absolutely well taken point. It's totally gestapo when its portrayed on TV and on that show. They "get away" with it because the proper formalities off screen have taken place, ie probable cause is established (the transcripts of the chat sessions), an arrest warrant is served, etc.
I think it's great that you managed to find your wife online (as long as you're happy together.) I don't think that anyone should limit themselves to their local geography to find a companion that could make them happy for the rest of their life. Then again I'm not sure how much stock I would put into dating sites. If I wanted to go out with someone, I would like to find them myself. Then again, history has shown that my sense of judgment is horrible in choosing people to be a part of my life.Sucumbio said:Perhaps, I mean I met my wife online, technically, but I did venture out to meet her "IRL" for a week before I decided to move to where she lived. Way back in the day we had little get togethers with people we chatted with over BBS services. And of course there's pay sites for online dating and such. The show's popularity is such that it really perpetuates itself, gives rise to itself, but there seems to be no staunching the flow of "predators" from showing up each week to get lectured on national television.
Sucumbio said:One day we may find that they DID run out and had to start paying actors to fill the spots, lol.
I thought they use female actors who look underage but are 18+? Also, when you think about it, it's kinda weird. Those pedophiles must envy the person dating the actor because it's almost like the real thing - a look-a-like.I honestly think that it's one of the funniest shows I've ever seen.
These guys are obviously the most amateurish sexual predators ever and really it's just hilarious to see them completely flop when trying to get some underage fun.
Also the male actor (who is like 18 btw) is really hot, I don't blame the predators.
It's completely hilarious to watch.I honestly think that it's one of the funniest shows I've ever seen.
These guys are obviously the most amateurish sexual predators ever and really it's just hilarious to see them completely flop when trying to get some underage fun.
Also the male actor (who is like 18 btw) is really hot, I don't blame the predators.
lol! All monotone and stuff, "oh, oh, oh baby, oh." crazy. Course we don't even want to get started on the whole cyber-sex thing or this newer "sexting" ugh! ><Yeah. I really am interested in seeing a court case where IRC logs and vBulletin board posts are used as incriminating evidence against the defendant. I swear I would crap bricks if the lawyer was completely deadpan in his delivery to the judge.
Oh yeah, totally too far, what would they have done if it'd been some 6 yo playing games? Uhhhh whoops! Yeah, lol.I really think that's going a little too far and is putting too much stock in online conversations.
Interesting. Does the phrase "In Real Life" irk you? It does me, I hate the fact that people consider online-based activity somehow.. fake? Or something... I dunno what they're thinking, but as far as I'm concerned the internet is as real as if I were having this conversation with someone in the park. Just because it's typed, and from a remote location, does not mean that the reactions on either side is any different! But this idea is also considered somewhat radical, as most people still cling to this idea that online life and real life are two different things.To be honest, a part of me looks forward to having a community that has greater accountability for the comments and statements being made. Then again, I don't want people to post mature content because they are being guided by the rules or out of a fear that law enforcement could arrest them in their own homes. I want to meet people who act responsible because that's how they naturally are and aren't compelled by consequences.
I used to be a bit radical in how I viewed the internet in the past, especially when it came to free speech. I always thought that if you couldn't stand up for yourself on the internet, then where else will you stand up for your beliefs? You can imagine that this line of thought made the moderators groan. I've really mellowed out since then, but I still believe that internet interactions should be seen as a catalyst for real life dialogue and development. Forum boards especially make it incredibly convenient to piece together so many different thoughts into a coherent belief. The internet should not be restrictive or be riddled with policeman and advocates pretending to be thirteen year old girls. It really should be seen as enabling and offering a collective service to those who are interested in taking a small part.
Even though I agree that there are a lot of douchebags that frequent the internet, there are a lot of people who are like that in real life. People naturally tend to tell a lot of lies or make excuses regardless of the time or the place. I'm not advocating that everyone online is a responsible and well-adjusted person. I'm just stating that I believe it's possible to find one or two people you can trust due to the fact that you genuinely might have a lot of things in common. Most of the time we judge people based on what clothes they were or how they look. Even though prejudices are justified to a certain extent, there may be a couple of stellar individuals that we write off due to our bigotry. In addition, there may be certain people across the world who we would never associate with on a normal basis. Yet thanks to the internet, they are right here for us to determine whether or not they interest, entertain, or bore us. Granted a lot of us may never be able to tell whether or not someone is a stranger or a friend, yet that doesn't stop us from sharing ideas and entertaining each other in mannerisms that express our individuality.Realistically, there are lots of dishonest immature people on the internet. To trust someone online is the same as trusting a stranger you meet in some common area. It's even worse when you have complete anonymity online.
I don't believe that a face to face encounter really is an adequate representation of trust. I've seen plenty of people scam others with a perfect smile on their face. I can't account for other people, but I know that I use discretion when I type because I want to be taken on a serious level. I care about how I present myself because I want to make things work out. I'd like to believe that deep down there is a certain feeling inside you that tells you, "this guy is alright" or "this guy is full of crap."DarkShadow said:We gotta use discretion when talking. Hell, my relative had a stalker because she talked too much in chat room. Karaoke turned into harmless talk about jobs and general location. The guy used those 2 bits of info to find out landline (haha, who uses those?) , the job location, and the job locations number. Thank god that went away. As far as trust goes, it's a big risk until you meet face to face.
I'm glad that it worked out for you. I don't think that it's an issue of trust, but more an issue of maturity. Being able to keep your promises and not leave someone stranded is a sign that the person has some moral backbone.DarkShadow said:To clarify, I'm not arguing against you, TC. I just wish the internet wasn't filled with morons that can't be trusted either. Haha, to be completely honest, I met with SWF member to participate in their weekly Smashfest. I met him at some location with a cell number. I remember thinking to myself, I hope this is a real number and that I didn't get super-trolled, haha. I took a risk and it worked out![]()
In my blog I referenced the Louis Conradt case in which Dateline waited outside Conradt's house and waited for him to come out. When they noticed that he wasn't leaving, they made a tip to the police who ended up having a SWAT team charge straight into the house. Upon finding Conradt in his room, he stated, "I'm not going to hurt anyone" and then shot himself in the head with a handgun.DarkShadow said:You can cyber, talk nasty, and say whatever to a underage girl online, but the moment you meet, it's solicitation. I understand your point if they don't mention sex though. Sex would have to be explicitly mentioned. I guess intent can be detrimental too. Intent to buy a controlled substance, solicitation of a prostitute. Online in my mind is the same thing.
Real life isn't idealistic, but that doesn't mean that injustice should be ignored. If you simply ignore something appalling, rude, or over-the-top, then you're ignoring a part of who you are as a person and the ability to find out who you are deep down inside a society that is filling you with crap. In addition, if you can't state how you feel about something on the internet, then where else will you express yourself?DarkShadow said:I agree with many of your points, but acknowledge that real life isn't so idealistic, especially the internet. MY main reason for not liking this show: depressing. Man, I don't wanna come home from school or take a break and watch a show about potential child molesters. It's because of shows like this, along with current social trends, that make all my friends want to have boys for a child. Just so depressing.
I used to frequent a forum board that had a thirteen year old moderator. Granted, the forum board continues to have a terrible sense of judgment... in basically everything. Yet for all intents and purposes, she did not act like some flippant underage child. Even though I thought she was absolutely boring, there were some users who thought that she was an interesting person and had little get-togethers from time to time. Due to the anonymous nature of the internet, it is possible that someone you find romantically fascinating could be many years younger. If such feelings are mutual and under a mature context, then I don't understand why age should play such a limiting factor in exploring romantic relationships. I'm not on the market to find a partner in real life or on the internet, but I feel that I would be happy with someone who is able to inspire and interest me on a daily basis.Dekar said:@Acrostic- The ONLY way you could possibly make a meaningful analogy between yourself using irc and sexual deviants doing the same, is if you're actively trying to find underage girls to have sex with. It's not like these men are looking for 16-17 year olds, either, they're looking for undeveloped 13 year olds. They're looking for little girls who haven't even BEGUN high school. These men drive sometimes 8-10 hours just to get to the little girl's house. You finding people with similar interests to yourself isn't a very comparable scenario. Sure, you may want a relationship with someone, but are you trying to find someone your age, or someone 1/3 your age?
Yea, that definitely was too far. I dunno if it was my choice of words, but I agree that Dateline took it too far by going to the guys house. Sure he shouldn't have said those things to a minor, but he didn't act on it even if he wanted to. Going to his house and breaching their way in just to get him on TV and harass him is too much. I don't know all the details, but gathered from what you said - his suicide must be where South Park took the "joke" from. But yea, I totally get what you're saying.In my blog I referenced the Louis Conradt case in which Dateline waited outside Conradt's house and waited for him to come out. When they noticed that he wasn't leaving, they made a tip to the police who ended up having a SWAT team charge straight into the house. Upon finding Conradt in his room, he stated, "I'm not going to hurt anyone" and then shot himself in the head with a handgun.
Is this the type of scenario that you would want to wind up in?
There is no doubt that Conradt committed a misdemeanor, but I don't believe that the man deserved to be harassed outside his own home and have it broken in by the police. Even though Conradt stopped communicating with the sting personnel on the other line, this only triggered Christopher Hansen and Perverted Justice to become even more aggressive in their attempts to capture him and bring him to jail.
I do not sympathize with perverts, but I do not believe that any American deserves to have their private property breached for their conduct on the internet. I honestly believe that Christopher Hansen, Perverted Justice, and law enforcement went over the line in order to arrest this man.