Relationship advice

[Binx]

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Here is my situation, it's finals week, and my girlfriend is going to be busy studying until friday and on saturday she is leaving for a week to go to cali with some friends on a vacation. My dilemma you ask: should I go over to her house tomorrow with flowers and bubble bath or let her study?. On one hand I think relaxing for an hour or two before bed could really help, on the other hand I'm worried I'll keep her up late and she'll flub on her final. Any advice would be super, especially from the 2 or 3 ladies we have on the site luls.

 

[Blooqkazoo]

Let her study. Just wait. It's not like she'll be gone forever.

Be patient.

 

[Dart]

have you ever thought about helping her study? im pretty sure you could try to help

 

[Binx]

I have thought of helping her study, but we usually end up getting distracted, shes kind of a solo studier =)

 

[Dolente]

My advice: Let her study. In the long run, her studying is a lot more important than anything you two could do together. It will almost certainly produce a more desirable outcome.

 

[Binx]

maybe for her... LOL, fine I guess I won't do it.

 

[Pr0phetic]

Plan something ahead, and let her study. Both results will be better.

 

[Zero Beat]

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Here is my situation, it's finals week, and my girlfriend is going to be busy studying until friday and on saturday she is leaving for a week to go to cali with some friends on a vacation. My dilemma you ask: should I go over to her house tomorrow with flowers and bubble bath or let her study?. On one hand I think relaxing for an hour or two before bed could really help, on the other hand I'm worried I'll keep her up late and she'll flub on her final. Any advice would be super, especially from the 2 or 3 ladies we have on the site luls.

If she is insisting on studying, trust me, LET HER STUDY. You do NOT want to get in her way. No need for "surprises" on these type of situations either. Communicate with her and ask her if she'll have any time at all to relax with you, that you want to do something for her before she goes, or whatever, however you two communicate with each other.

If you have

Spoiler

sex

on a daily basis, that is a great way to pass time as well, seeing as post-

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sex

talk is great.

 

[Binx]

the other non video gaming forum I participate in has widely suggested I go for it and worst case scenario she is too busy it won't be a big deal. This includes a couple girls who said they would love for their boyfriends to get their minds off finals for a little while.

Thanks for everyones help =)

 

[Blooqkazoo]

I wouldn't be too sure. They don't play videogames so they must be addicted to ••• instead.

I really don't play videogames that much.

 

[Zero Beat]

Like I said, ask her if it's okay to go by her house while she is studying. I wouldn't "go for it" without her consent.

 

[Jam Stunna]

Do it Binx. What the hell, who wouldn't want to be surprised with such a gesture in a stressful time?

 

[Binx]

Sure will picard!