TLDR: Beginners, don't
expect free wins.
I'm just speaking from my personal experience at being bad and not improving. (but I'm working on it, okay! ლ(ಥ Д ಥ )ლ)
I'd like to add that sucking at the game and losing isn't
that bad, it's only when a player starts
expecting wins when problems to one's mental game arise.
When someone loses and says, "I should have done that or that" or "I should have won", they are in a bad place mentally and it could lead to further losses/mistakes because they are in a negative feedback loop.
They are performing poorly, because they are in a bad mental state; and their mental state is stressing them out, because they aren't performing well. This mental state can continue into a snow-ball and really frustrate some players, myself included, if they don't recognize it and prevent it.
Anyway, I was expecting too much from myself and it was stressing me out. Each loss felt devastating, because I felt like I should have performed better/won. This mindest stayed with me for months and was really messing with me to the point where I was:
-Changing my Main every week
-Contemplating quitting the game
-ONLY playing Smash 4 to try to break through the rut.
I actually took a break from going to tourneys, because I was actually taking the game (and my losses) TOO seriously. I think that may be a problem for many, the few times I've competed I've seen people take losses extremely poorly. Like their soul had been crushed because they got 2-0'ed. I think they may have been going through the same things I was experiencing.
I mainly play Smash for fun. I still study up on it and go to tourneys just to play friendlies, socialize, and talk about MU and what-not. And I think that helped me improve over the last few months, because I'm learning the game without all the added stress. It's been slow improvements, but pretty steady.
Also, remember to respect your opponent, and if they beat your butt. Shake hands, good game, and don't carry the salt if you picked some up during the set.
P.S. Sorry for the wall of text, but I had some time to kill
Peace, guys. And Happy Smashing!
*edit*
I forgot to say nice video Omni. I watch your videos from time to time. I don't really see them as super informative a lot of the time, more like, a good starting point for discussion. However, I think this video was both! GG bro, I enjoyed this one quite a bit. Even if the title has been deemed "trollish". Keep up the good work.