I'm 0-2 now with the girls I loved :/

[Surrender]

Sinz, I used to go through the same thing... I guess sometimes pain and suffering can be a blessing in disguise. Do you want an insecure, non-trusting woman to be your girlfriend. The obvious answer is no. I know it seems tough and emotionally upsetting, but when you don't search for a girl, tends to be the time that they appear. Let me tell you what happened to me. I was used, 3 year relationship. I was dumped and had been actively trying to find a new soulmate. After a series of bad disappointments and very mean women, I had given up. So at the time I was living in New York, and then jetted to MA for the weekend. I went to see my oldest best friend, whom I picked up and drove to his girlfriend's house. During that car ride I listened to a song called "Boys of Summer" by the [Ataris]. The lyrics that changed my perception of life and my breakup were these: "Out on the road today I saw a black flag sticker on a Cadillac. A little voice inside my head said don't look back, you can never look back! I thought I knew what love was; what did I know? Now that those days are over, I should just let 'em go." At that moment I just didn't care. I wanted to have fun and play video games with my friend and forget about the rest. So we played Gears of War till 2am, and the next afternoon, my best friends girlfriend had a friend come over. I stuck around to chill with my friend and.. That's how I met my fiance'. Point being, sometimes in life, things come to you when you least expect it. It wasn't an easy road in my relationship with my fiance', but it was rewarding. You cannot find things when you try too hard sometimes. Create some mystery, don't be available, and gain confidence, because women smell confidence on a male from miles away. Trust me confidence smells much better than cheap cologne to a woman. When you can be happy with your current life (minus a girl), that's the moment when magic may happen. So what I'm trying to say is get through the emotional pain as it stands now, and try to be content by yourself. Once your own life is built up, happy, and meaningful; you will then have something to give to the person when she appears. Hope this helped. I may not be that great at smash, but trust me, I have had a lonnnnggg road with relationships.

 

[Sol]

Sounds like you have bad luck brah. But you can`t make a judgement call off two girls lol there are millions of others out there who wont go lesbo on you

 

[Mr.Freeman]

Not to be mean, but I think they turn lesbian because of you. :/

They "turn" lesbian? If your serious, I guess I can be gay whenever I want.

Otherwise, your more or less openly insulting him, cause he sounds like a nice guy to me.

 

[Kingdom Come]

cool story bro

lol this ftw!!!

 

[kataklysm336]

Considering this is the internet and I could tell you that I bed another girl every night, there doesn't seem to be much of a point in this, does there?

As it stands, I'm doing pretty well though, thanks for asking.

But if I weren't, it's good to know that my problem is that I'm just not lame enough.

"You wanna go do something Friday?"

"Sorry no, I'm busy."

"SILLY ME, I MEANT SATURDAY OF COURSE."


That's not exactly clever or sly son, I don't really understand how you can think so little of the female mind's ability to pick up on things, but apparently it isn't much.

Let's hypothesize that she, for whatever reason-- potentially mental ***********, doesn't pick up on the fact that you threw on the brakes and backpedaled faster than thought possible. Do you think her mind springs to "oh my, he's a busy and important guy, I'd better watch my thoughts before I get all hot and bothered"? Really?

Yeah, I bet you're just rolling in *****.

I lol'd hard at the last part. Well played, Switch, well played.

 

[Kason Birdman]

tldr; Sinz made two chicks go lesbian.

lmfaooo



tbh, it sounds like you just have **** luck man. those stereotypes suck for sure. but unless you can show them your not like guys who have placed these labels for you then theres nothing to do

 

[CRASHiC]

Considering this is the internet and I could tell you that I bed another girl every night, there doesn't seem to be much of a point in this, does there?

As it stands, I'm doing pretty well though, thanks for asking.

But if I weren't, it's good to know that my problem is that I'm just not lame enough.

"You wanna go do something Friday?"

"Sorry no, I'm busy."

"SILLY ME, I MEANT SATURDAY OF COURSE."


That's not exactly clever or sly son, I don't really understand how you can think so little of the female mind's ability to pick up on things, but apparently it isn't much.

Let's hypothesize that she, for whatever reason-- potentially mental ***********, doesn't pick up on the fact that you threw on the brakes and backpedaled faster than thought possible. Do you think her mind springs to "oh my, he's a busy and important guy, I'd better watch my thoughts before I get all hot and bothered"? Really?

Yeah, I bet you're just rolling in *****.

Its all in the presentation of the line, if you're gonna deliver it like that then yeah, its not going to work, you interrupt her no and then say it, as if you never heard her no. Honestly if you're going to doubt the ability of Woody Allen, a man who had little money, a man who is ugly as they come and has by no definition of the word charm or masculinity or anything to attract a woman other than his sly and wit. Further more, that's only one tiny light example of his mastery. You'll almost never see Woody say "I love you" back to a woman, but he finds ways to dance around it all day and keep himself out of trouble.

People run on supply and demand, they value what is limited. Why would a woman want to spend time with someone who has nothing going on in their life? Asking for two dates one right after the other is going to make you look desperate and is going to make it look like you don't have anything happening in your life. If you honestly believe that a woman isn't going to be bothered by that, then I am at full liberty to believe you don't have any success with women, as this is very basic stuff.

 

[Teran]

You guys give love too much credit.

It's easy to fall in and out of love. We really don't have "that one special person". Whoever believes that is an idiot.

We have many special persons out there, unfortunately **** happens and we move on. People get married to someone they love and the spouse dies. They definitely loved the spouse, but the widow/widower can still fall in love again.

Why do you guys put love up on some pedestal like it's some unattainable mythical relic? It's like having a best friend that you can f***, it's aight.

 

[Evil Eye]

I think I can help you out, somewhat.

How about 1 year 6 months and 3 weeks? That's how long we were dating. Haha. But, I see your point. The problem really becomes what is love? Which there is no solid answer to because it is truly a matter of opinion. The definition changes for each person. For some it may be a marvelous feeling of admiration and trust. While for others it could be the undying wanting to be together forever.

 

[Teran]

The reason everyone fails at it is their ****ed up opinion.

I mean really, it's funny how arranged marriages seem to work just fine all over the world and our highly developed culture of courting and romance causes nothing but a string of divorces and breakups. It's because our opinions on love and our expectations are so absurd.

I think we should just be picked a spouse by a national lottery system.

 

[BnC-Missingno.]

Really sorry to hear it, Sinz, but you know that girls used to be treated a lot worse.
In fact women have come a long way towards equality with men.

I agree with this. Just find someone who doesn't believe in the stereotypes. If they do, try to prove it wrong to them.

 

[CRASHiC]

I mean really, it's funny how arranged marriages seem to work just fine all over the world and our highly developed culture of courting and romance causes nothing but a string of divorces and breakups. It's because our opinions on love and our expectations are so absurd.

There's nothing wrong with divorces though. Everything must end, why must relationships be any different? A 1 night meeting with someone that changes your life, and you never see them again, that's just as important as a relationship that last for 60 years. The goal of a relationship shouldn't be to stay together for as long as possible, but to be as happy as possible.

 

[§witch]

Its all in the presentation of the line, if you're gonna deliver it like that then yeah, its not going to work, you interrupt her no and then say it, as if you never heard her no. Honestly if you're going to doubt the ability of Woody Allen, a man who had little money, a man who is ugly as they come and has by no definition of the word charm or masculinity or anything to attract a woman other than his sly and wit. Further more, that's only one tiny light example of his mastery. You'll almost never see Woody say "I love you" back to a woman, but he finds ways to dance around it all day and keep himself out of trouble.

People run on supply and demand, they value what is limited. Why would a woman want to spend time with someone who has nothing going on in their life? Asking for two dates one right after the other is going to make you look desperate and is going to make it look like you don't have anything happening in your life. If you honestly believe that a woman isn't going to be bothered by that, then I am at full liberty to believe you don't have any success with women, as this is very basic stuff.

I'm really not sure how he can get any *** at all what with you sucking his **** so excitedly.

You were talking about how clever and sly it is, when its really not at all.

Your last bit makes me laugh to be honest. You make it seem as if there are only two ways to go about it, when there are far more. What is truly sly would be to find an excuse to get her schedule beforehand without looking like a ******. And making her think you may be interested without explicitly saying it isn't necessarily a bad thing.

 

[Teran]

There's nothing wrong with divorces though. Everything must end, why must relationships be any different? A 1 night meeting with someone that changes your life, and you never see them again, that's just as important as a relationship that last for 60 years. The goal of a relationship shouldn't be to stay together for as long as possible, but to be as happy as possible.

Well I only object to divorce because the whole point of marriage is a lifelong union.

I mean honestly I absolutely despise relationships and monogamy but at the same time I hate divorce. If you want lots of sex/partners, then be honest and open about it and do your thing. If you're not really sure about someone, don't get serious with them. Don't get married and bring kids into the world and then find out that your black neighbour with a bigger **** is the man for you, that's not exactly great for the kids and it happens all the time.

Choose your guns and stick to them.

 

[Sinz]

I think I can help you out, somewhat.

When I saw this I turned up my volume completely expecting to hear that What Is Love was embedded.

However it isn't ):