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As the title says, I need some advice.
I've been friends with a girl for about two years now. Over time, as we both went through a bunch of crap together, I became great friends with her. The problem is, I like her more than a friend now. I have a feeling that she feels a little bit of the same way, since when I suggested that we go to homecoming together she said that she wouldn't mind going. It probably doesn't mean much, but at least she's open to the idea.
Anyway, she's been going through a bunch of stuff with her ex (one of my best friends), so she's not sure what to do about dating. She also hasn't decided to move away to Colorado (to live with someone that she knows) or to stay here in Georgia. She wants to move away because of the ex, but I have a feeling that it will pass eventually.
Still, I really want to go out with her, but I almost made a huge mistake today. As I was texting her, I semi-jokingly suggested that we go out. However, she had just gotten out of a long, stupid conversation with the same ex. She didn't like my joke, and she explained to me what happened. She DID say that she was ok with going out, but not now. Of course, she could have been saying that to be nice, but I don't know.
So here's my question. Do I push for going out, or wait a bit and slowly work my way up to it? I'm really leaning towards the second one.
By the way, any prayers, sacrificed goats, or whatever you do for your beliefs that are done for me would be appreciated.
As the title says, I need some advice.
I've been friends with a girl for about two years now. Over time, as we both went through a bunch of crap together, I became great friends with her. The problem is, I like her more than a friend now. I have a feeling that she feels a little bit of the same way, since when I suggested that we go to homecoming together she said that she wouldn't mind going. It probably doesn't mean much, but at least she's open to the idea.
Anyway, she's been going through a bunch of stuff with her ex (one of my best friends), so she's not sure what to do about dating. She also hasn't decided to move away to Colorado (to live with someone that she knows) or to stay here in Georgia. She wants to move away because of the ex, but I have a feeling that it will pass eventually.
Still, I really want to go out with her, but I almost made a huge mistake today. As I was texting her, I semi-jokingly suggested that we go out. However, she had just gotten out of a long, stupid conversation with the same ex. She didn't like my joke, and she explained to me what happened. She DID say that she was ok with going out, but not now. Of course, she could have been saying that to be nice, but I don't know.
So here's my question. Do I push for going out, or wait a bit and slowly work my way up to it? I'm really leaning towards the second one.
By the way, any prayers, sacrificed goats, or whatever you do for your beliefs that are done for me would be appreciated.
