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i need girl help

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quatripain

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alright so im young,just learning bout how important love is
and im in it.
I told the girl once but idk if it was her(i did it on IM)
help?
 

DeliciousCake

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Here are the levels of how to communicate about a relationship with someone:

Best: In person
OK: Phone
Bad: IM
Worst: Text message
 

fantanoice

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Instant messenger? Probably not the best way to go. In person, although the most awkward, is still the best choice.

But it seems you've already told her. Does she seem at all interested?
 

Cookiez

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You don't know if it was her? O.o

Anywayz, been said but please do it in person.

Its the reverse, but my mate dumped his girlfriend via IM and the situation now certainly isn't pretty >.<.
 

starcock

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If you are asking this on a smash bros forum, then this girl issue isn't the least of your worries.
 

Brookman

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If you are asking this on a smash bros forum, then this girl issue isn't the least of your worries.
That's pretty ignorant of you to say. I mean, we're all people, right? Why should asking for advice about anything on this forum make someone any less of a person than asking for advice on some other discussion forum?
 

KevinM

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That's pretty ignorant of you to say. I mean, we're all people, right? Why should asking for advice about anything on this forum make someone any less of a person than asking for advice on some other discussion forum?
Because we're on a video game forum and therefore ARE less of a person Brookman... sheesh I thought that was common knowledge by now.
 

Brookman

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Oh yea, I forgot we're all socially-inept-videogame-playing-nerds with no hope of a happy future, my mistake.
 

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That's pretty ignorant of you to say. I mean, we're all people, right? Why should asking for advice about anything on this forum make someone any less of a person than asking for advice on some other discussion forum?
Simple, this is because they're thousands of these threads everywhere like this, the people giving advice, isn't valid for **** and could lead the poor child into doing horrible things. The person could be an 80 year old man, getting off to your answers. Would you take advice from killalifesucksdieeatcandy54? no, kids don't know this so I am actually helping the human being and protecting him from you guys, the real threat.
 

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What happened to your dolphins anyway, Zapdos?
 

The 5th Horseman

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Everyone joined this forum because of the dophins, not the smash


I declare topic derail
^Lol....

For some reason, there has been a lot of threads about people asking about relationship (girl) advice. But besides that, just go up to her in person and ask her if you can "hit that". She will most likely remember you then, hell, maybe you'll get a yes out of it.
 

Brookman

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Simple, this is because they're thousands of these threads everywhere like this, the people giving advice, isn't valid for **** and could lead the poor child into doing horrible things. The person could be an 80 year old man, getting off to your answers. Would you take advice from killalifesucksdieeatcandy54? no, kids don't know this so I am actually helping the human being and protecting him from you guys, the real threat.
*looks at your sig*


>______________________________>
 

starcock

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You might think that if the fact of the matter is that he is wrong and proves my point, Do you really want to come on a smash forum asking personal advice about girls and get answers by brook, souls and starcocks? no, so sit down, eat your salad and call it a day.
 

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Unless he provides more information than that, it's hopeless.

Advice comes on par with information about the girl.
 

KevinM

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Simple, this is because they're thousands of these threads everywhere like this, the people giving advice, isn't valid for **** and could lead the poor child into doing horrible things. The person could be an 80 year old man, getting off to your answers. Would you take advice from killalifesucksdieeatcandy54? no, kids don't know this so I am actually helping the human being and protecting him from you guys, the real threat.
You might think that if the fact of the matter is that he is wrong and proves my point, Do you really want to come on a smash forum asking personal advice about girls and get answers by brook, souls and starcocks? no, so sit down, eat your salad and call it a day.
Man you're an idiot.
 

quatripain

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@ starcock-your an idiot
@ zero beat-ill get tat when i have time

cmon starcock get a life
 

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I think it's a pretty simple matter of fact that you can be taken more seriously if you express your emotions face to face or, at the very least, voice to voice.

Text and instant messaging sure is convenient, however its not personal by any stretch of the word. As an individual you have the power to make your OWN choices, when someone asks for advice they are just looking for different points of view, not a code of law.

Should someone come on here and ask for advice only to be misdirected and end up having their relationship go sour then, frankly, **** HAPPENS.

Again, it comes down to individuals making decisions for themselves.
 

Azua

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Please for the love of god DO NOT get a tattoo for someone else, you'll give all of us tattooed freaks a bad name.
 

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It brought me joy to read about someone somewhere else asking what a good tattoo cover up is. See, she needed it to cover up her ex's name for her wedding day. Heh.
 

Azua

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Can we have one thread that doesn't boil down to a bunch of 'NO, U!' crap, please?
 

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Can we have one thread that doesn't boil down to a bunch of 'NO, U!' crap, please?
Well you're a girl with apparent experience, judging from your age. How about giving the old chap a bit of general tips on girls.
 
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