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I got it bad......

Dylan_Tnga

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Im gonna repost my advice from the other thread too... AH ill retype it

In my experience, I learned this

NEVER. EVER. let a girl know you like her more than she likes you. not all girls are like this, but about 99 percent of them will capitalize on it, and manipulate you.

Be strong, treat this girl like any other of your friends, and if something happens, it happens. Theres no real strategy with girls, you just have to hang out with em, be yourself, then ask em out.

Do not put her on a pedastle, and do not let her know through actions, through words, through anything that you like her more than she likes you.
 

joshisrad

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Girls don't know what they want, and if you ever get one to try and tell you what she thinks she wants, she'll be wrong.
It probably seems odd to you. Well, it is. But it's the truth.
 

Blackadder

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Girls don't know what they want, and if you ever get one to try and tell you what she thinks she wants, she'll be wrong.
It probably seems odd to you. Well, it is. But it's the truth.
As you know from before, this is where I disagree with you.
If you mean "girls don't know what they want" as in teenage girls, I agree fully. Same for teenage boys.

But if you mean women through and through, I would disagree.
 

Dylan_Tnga

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hey umm, we need a girl smasher to explain this...
No we don't. Gamer girls don't count for obvious reasons, they're actually weird enough to find video game references cute, even attractive when you hit on them. Any other girl will never talk to you again.

As you know from before, this is where I disagree with you.
If you mean "girls don't know what they want" as in teenage girls, I agree fully. Same for teenage boys.

But if you mean women through and through, I would disagree.
QFT. I've been with older women as well as teenage girls. Older women are way more horny, they don't play around when it comes to sex, they want it and theyll tell you if they want it. Teenage girls have NO idea what they want. None. Same goes for teenage boys up until the age of about 17. I found that by 17 I had a grasp on who I was and could make logical decisions regarding relationships as not to get my heart broken

hell, I got it broken a few more times after that but its been quite some time now. Im 19 going on 20, and im done with teen drama for life.
 

Dibs

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There's more fish in the sea... Specially if you're only 15 or 16....
 

Zook

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Rather than making a new thread, I'll just add on to this one about my heartful woes.

I've had a huge crush on this girl since last year. (You may have read some of my bad poetry about her I posted here and there.) I think I may even be in love with her... Anyways, we're pretty good friends, and I would have told her how I feel for her by now... If it wasn't for the fact that she's a Senior, and I'm a Sophomore. :urg: I really wanna tell her my feelings towads her, but I'm a little intimidated. What should I do? Am I too young for her? Should I just move on? Give me some help!!
 

Zook

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Just a bit. Really, I'd recommend moving on, she's moving at the end of the summer in all likelihood, and how would you feel about people talking about her dating a younger guy? But, I'm not the 'end all' argument, do what you feel you should.
Hmm... You have a point. Still, it'll be hard to do. I'll just see what everyone else has to say.
 

brawlpro

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lol good luck Zook.

i like this girl and she is new...now, she seemed to get popular quite quick...and my chances with her are shortening, because my school IS FULL OF THESE ***S WHO think smash is a game for 6 year oldz...because its from nintendo wtf..and i would be cooler than i am right now if smash was popular in my gay school...but it isn't...i need a good way to get to a popular chick that is new...
 

Falco&Victory

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lol good luck Zook.

i like this girl and she is new...now, she seemed to get popular quite quick...and my chances with her are shortening, because my school IS FULL OF THESE ***S WHO think smash is a game for 6 year oldz...because its from nintendo wtf..and i would be cooler than i am right now if smash was popular in my gay school...but it isn't...i need a good way to get to a popular chick that is new...
Um, wow, you popularize your smashing? NOT a good idea. If she is new and you don't know her that well then why do you want her? Wouldn't you rather date one of those girls that's always nice to you, but not too obsessive? Find a nice girl, that you like, and become good friends with her. Don't let on that you like her, just be the best friend in the world. [\my two cents]
 

brawlpro

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lolz, i'm popular, but not for smashing...i said that just to say that if smash was popular...i would be hella more popular...she just hangs out with these other ppl that iono...and those other ppl r considered popular..i have no clue why...

and i know her as a bit of a friend, and she seems nice around ppl, other chix in my school, are either whack or taken...
 

Falco&Victory

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Ask her to a group event, and NOT as a date. Don't spend every second with her, just make her feel welcome, then be the BESTEST friend you can be.

If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you, but you can still be besties, right?
 

Falco&Victory

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Life isn't fair I guess. And you don't know if you can be besties if you haven't tried. And eventually ALL boy/girl besties fall in date lol.

Well, I don't mind be love doctor for awhile. Lol, I'm helping 3 of my best friends get hooked up with people they like, I'm on fire.
 

Red Exodus

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Is there a love bug going around? These stories are coming up pretty often. Keep 'em coming, some are kinda interesting.
 

Falco&Victory

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Hmm, after that recent fiasco in the last thread, would I be allowed to make a 'love advice thread', so these don't keep popping up

and awwwwwww, infracted, how could you E:p
 

Cinder

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Hmm, after that recent fiasco in the last thread, would I be allowed to make a 'love advice thread', so these don't keep popping up

and awwwwwww, infracted, how could you E:p
Yeah, that's a good idea...we don't need another fiasco like that (it was fun, but I'm still afraid of getting infracted for it...)

So...what kind of advice were you thinking of giving, anyway, F&V?
 

Boomer

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Note: This quote is from the link that guy put up:



I gotta say, to me, you really sound like a walking romance book blurb.
And a lot of it goes against what I would say you should do to get a girlfriend, or just shag her then and now. I would say the idea of "Ignoring" her and changing your lifestyle is pretty whack. I mean, al of of that stuff to "improve" your life sounds like pretending to be someone else, and that will hardly work. Also, a lot of this stuff sounds VERY much like it came out of...well, the movie Grease!:laugh:

I would say the best way is very different to this, as women aren't just ONE big mind or personality. I know many girls coulden't care less about a guy with big abs, plays hard to get, and taking up a hobby in one day while being passionate about it. Wha? I would recommend just getting in there, making the girl laugh a lot, and building up a friendship with her. Then, when you feel the time is right, ask her out. Not try to be something your not, simply because eventually she will find out your not who you pretend to be.

I'm not flamming, just saying I think you sound a little like Dr. Phil, only more pushy and know-it-all. (And he's pretty pushy know-it-all!)

I would, however, agree with the point about hygeine. :p
Though I have had girlfriends and I'm pretty scruffy long haired/laid back type of guy, and I don't make sure I look awesome everyday.

Just my opionion guys, I just wanted to say.
OMG thank you.
 

joshisrad

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SURPRISE Adder and I already spoke on that post in the other thread. Go take a look and you'll see that my advice still stands solid.
 

Falco&Victory

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Hmmm, same advice I gave to everyone actually looking for a real relationship. If you like a girl, get to know her, become friends, make her feel welcome, then involved with her emotionally. Talk about how they're feeling, ask them why they're sad or mad or so happy or w/e. If you're just obsessed with a girl's appearance then no addvice for you :p
 

Xsyven

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You know what's really crazy? A gay friend of mine confessed his undying love to me when he was drunk the other night. And supposedly he's had a crush on me for the past year that I've known him.

You kids and your simple problems.

By the way, I'm not joking.



What I'm guessing, is that he passed out and woke up the next morning, not remembering too much of what happened the night before. I think it's best that I don't bring it up, to avoid his awkward explanations.
 

spam_master

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I'm 17 and used to be in the same boat as you guys until I realized the most important thing you can learn about realtionships. You know how insecure you are about yourself? Multiply that by 20 and thats how insecure girls are. Unless your looking to date someone who is like a 10 and recieves compliments constantly all you have to say is, "hey you look great in that shirt" or even,"hey did you get a hair cut? It looks good." My first girlfriend was in every musical in our school and was always the lead, and all i told her is that she has the best voice of anybody in the cast, which was blantantly true and within three days I heard that she started liking me. All that was up to me was to ask her out and you should always do something casual but that can evolve into a converstion (aka NOT the movies). It's also alwasy good to talk to your firends about it especially if those friends are girls because buds are usually good wingmen and girls love to be matchmakers and will constantly talk about how cool you are to her (unless they are *****es).

Remember that she is way more nervous than youand you should never put the pressure of "hey do you wanna go out?" on someone because even if she des like you she might panic, just play it cool and don't get nervous.

Its the three C's: Calm, Casual, and Compliment
 

joshisrad

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DAMMIT, I typed all this **** that explained this really well, and then firefox freaked on me. Okay, super brief version because I don't care to type it all out again. If something confuses you, ask for clarification.
I began it with a silly little "My three C's have always been c o c k, condom, coitus" etc etc then I explained negging. It concerns compliments when it comes to 10s, which spam master spoke about. But instead of typing it all out again, I'll just quote fastseduction.com

The biitch shield is a natural reaction the really hot chicks (specifically 9s, especially 10s, and usually strippers/dancers) build up. It's perfectly understandable for her to brush off the guys who approach. If she's in a crowded club or bar, she has dozens of guys a night coming up and kissing her ***, buying her drinks, telling her she's beautiful. She knows she's beautiful. ... So she's become good at brushing guys off. She assumes (rightly so) that every guy that talks to her would give his right arm to fuuck her. She's probably dying to be swept off her feet, but there's no challenge. It's like playing Quake on God mode. Its fun at first, but quickly gets boring.

The way to bypass this is a neg hit. A neg is a neutral comment. Its not an insult, merely a way of demonstrating that you aren't impressed (or intimidated) by her beauty. Some examples: "That's so cute, your nose wiggles when you talk", "I love your hair, is it dyed?", "Your nails look great. Are they real?" For the last two, if the hair/nails are dyed/fake, follow up with "oh... well, they look nice."

You aren't kissing her ***, in fact you might have noticed something wrong with her perfect form. You might not even want to fuuck her! This confuses the hell out of her, and gets her interested in you. What's up with this guy? Why isn't he telling me I look like an angel and buying me drinks like all the other guys (AFCs) do? ... Once its down, you can talk to her like a human being, rather than a peasant worshipping his goddess.

Note: These are NOT to be used on chicks without a biitch shield. Doing so will destroy her self esteem.
Negs to anything below an everage HB is generally BAD unless the chick is giving off vibes that she THINKS she is a 9/10
 

Red Exodus

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I guess you might be right Josh. It might only be that way for hot girls who always have guys trying to pick her up but I can imagine how hard it is to get through to those types of women.

Personally I plan to avoid even thinking about getting with those types, it might not even be worth the effort. The only way I would is if they approach me, which would be unlikely.

All will come in time, I guess. Not much a guy can do at 16 anyway. I'll give it more thought when I get my license in February.
 

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Here's my story. Make sure you have popcorn and aren't busy.

Almost two years ago, I met this girl. She was amazing! She had a great body, a beautiful smile, fair blond hair, and looks to die for! Plus she had an amazing personality. She was flirtatious, but not arrogant or proud, as she seemed to not notice or admire how great she was Infact, she didn't think she was all that special. To top it off, she was smart and she loved computer games!

Unfortuantly, she was almost two years my senior (well, a year and 5 months). She made friends with everybody quickly, including me. After about 2-3 months, we became close friends. I was used to this, as I seemed to make friends with females, but never anything more. I had a crush on her (obviously) and always felt embarrassed around her, but not enough for her to notice.

I thought my crush would pass, but it never, the only thing that happened was we got closer and closer and it got stronger and stronger. I could feel this happening and I tried to ignore it as though it was nothing. But it got to the point where my heart bet so fast around her and I could do nothing but constantly think about her.

We became the best of friends, and would constantly talk to each other. My male friends noticed this and started dropping hints to her that I clearly liked her. They often told us that if I was female, I would be her, and vice versa. She never picked up on these hints though. Annoyed at how useless I was at flirting, I kept to myself, but she told me that I could try practicing my lines on her if I wanted. I longed to tell her how much she meant to me, or how much I thought about her, or how fast my heart beat when I was with her. But I couldn't.

So I practiced my flirting on her whenever I had the chance, (Which usually involved a nudge from one of my friends, after she said something, to tell me that now was my chance to say something flirtatious). My confidence grew and my chat-up lines got better, but my feelings for her just got stronger. But she was completely oblivious to this.

Almost a year after we'd met, a guy in her year asked her out, she accepted. I went back to keeping to myself, but they quickly broke up. But to ruin my moment of happiness, my best friend told me that he's going to ask her out. (He didn't know how I felt about her). I could've strangled him.

I warned her about him, telling her that she would be his 15th girlfriend in 3 years, and how he doesn't treat ladies right, but she didn't seem to pick up on these hints either. Then one night when we were together, I asked her why she broke up with that guy, was it because she liked someone else? My best friend? Someone I knew? She told me that I knew this person very well. If my heart wasn't beating so fast at that moment, then I would've said something like "Oh? Who?", but instead I blurted out something along the lines of:

"I love you Vikki, I've loved you for ages, since the first time we met, I've never felt this way for anyone else.."

She was caught completely off guard, and to my utter shock, she said the same thing!

It's our anniversary tomorrow. We're moving in together in a few months, and moving away. I tell her I love her every single day. :)
 

joshisrad

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Haha, was totally expecting the guy to be your best friend. Neat story, you're one in a magical million that has that kind of fortune.
 

brawlpro

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Here's my story. Make sure you have popcorn and aren't busy.

Almost two years ago, I met this girl. She was amazing! She had a great body, a beautiful smile, fair blond hair, and looks to die for! Plus she had an amazing personality. She was flirtatious, but not arrogant or proud, as she seemed to not notice or admire how great she was Infact, she didn't think she was all that special. To top it off, she was smart and she loved computer games!

Unfortuantly, she was almost two years my senior (well, a year and 5 months). She made friends with everybody quickly, including me. After about 2-3 months, we became close friends. I was used to this, as I seemed to make friends with females, but never anything more. I had a crush on her (obviously) and always felt embarrassed around her, but not enough for her to notice.

I thought my crush would pass, but it never, the only thing that happened was we got closer and closer and it got stronger and stronger. I could feel this happening and I tried to ignore it as though it was nothing. But it got to the point where my heart bet so fast around her and I could do nothing but constantly think about her.

We became the best of friends, and would constantly talk to each other. My male friends noticed this and started dropping hints to her that I clearly liked her. They often told us that if I was female, I would be her, and vice versa. She never picked up on these hints though. Annoyed at how useless I was at flirting, I kept to myself, but she told me that I could try practicing my lines on her if I wanted. I longed to tell her how much she meant to me, or how much I thought about her, or how fast my heart beat when I was with her. But I couldn't.

So I practiced my flirting on her whenever I had the chance, (Which usually involved a nudge from one of my friends, after she said something, to tell me that now was my chance to say something flirtatious). My confidence grew and my chat-up lines got better, but my feelings for her just got stronger. But she was completely oblivious to this.

Almost a year after we'd met, a guy in her year asked her out, she accepted. I went back to keeping to myself, but they quickly broke up. But to ruin my moment of happiness, my best friend told me that he's going to ask her out. (He didn't know how I felt about her). I could've strangled him.

I warned her about him, telling her that she would be his 15th girlfriend in 3 years, and how he doesn't treat ladies right, but she didn't seem to pick up on these hints either. Then one night when we were together, I asked her why she broke up with that guy, was it because she liked someone else? My best friend? Someone I knew? She told me that I knew this person very well. If my heart wasn't beating so fast at that moment, then I would've said something like "Oh? Who?", but instead I blurted out something along the lines of:

"I love you Vikki, I've loved you for ages, since the first time we met, I've never felt this way for anyone else.."

She was caught completely off guard, and to my utter shock, she said the same thing!

It's our anniversary tomorrow. We're moving in together in a few months, and moving away. I tell her I love her every single day. :)
*sniff** sniff*

that made me cry:cry:

good luck man, and fight the power...*sniff*
 

wtfumble

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Wait, Falco&victory just recommended me here, how did he get banned? I was just on the phone and he said he doesn't know why... WHY DID YOU BAN CODY!!!!

Here's my story. Make sure you have popcorn and aren't busy.

Almost two years ago, I met this girl. She was amazing! She had a great body, a beautiful smile, fair blond hair, and looks to die for! Plus she had an amazing personality. She was flirtatious, but not arrogant or proud, as she seemed to not notice or admire how great she was Infact, she didn't think she was all that special. To top it off, she was smart and she loved computer games!

Unfortuantly, she was almost two years my senior (well, a year and 5 months). She made friends with everybody quickly, including me. After about 2-3 months, we became close friends. I was used to this, as I seemed to make friends with females, but never anything more. I had a crush on her (obviously) and always felt embarrassed around her, but not enough for her to notice.

I thought my crush would pass, but it never, the only thing that happened was we got closer and closer and it got stronger and stronger. I could feel this happening and I tried to ignore it as though it was nothing. But it got to the point where my heart bet so fast around her and I could do nothing but constantly think about her.

We became the best of friends, and would constantly talk to each other. My male friends noticed this and started dropping hints to her that I clearly liked her. They often told us that if I was female, I would be her, and vice versa. She never picked up on these hints though. Annoyed at how useless I was at flirting, I kept to myself, but she told me that I could try practicing my lines on her if I wanted. I longed to tell her how much she meant to me, or how much I thought about her, or how fast my heart beat when I was with her. But I couldn't.

So I practiced my flirting on her whenever I had the chance, (Which usually involved a nudge from one of my friends, after she said something, to tell me that now was my chance to say something flirtatious). My confidence grew and my chat-up lines got better, but my feelings for her just got stronger. But she was completely oblivious to this.

Almost a year after we'd met, a guy in her year asked her out, she accepted. I went back to keeping to myself, but they quickly broke up. But to ruin my moment of happiness, my best friend told me that he's going to ask her out. (He didn't know how I felt about her). I could've strangled him.

I warned her about him, telling her that she would be his 15th girlfriend in 3 years, and how he doesn't treat ladies right, but she didn't seem to pick up on these hints either. Then one night when we were together, I asked her why she broke up with that guy, was it because she liked someone else? My best friend? Someone I knew? She told me that I knew this person very well. If my heart wasn't beating so fast at that moment, then I would've said something like "Oh? Who?", but instead I blurted out something along the lines of:

"I love you Vikki, I've loved you for ages, since the first time we met, I've never felt this way for anyone else.."

She was caught completely off guard, and to my utter shock, she said the same thing!

It's our anniversary tomorrow. We're moving in together in a few months, and moving away. I tell her I love her every single day. :)
If you could manifest your happiness into a giant teddy bear I would hug it until it died of suffocation
 
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