crap. only just realised that I put the online waiting room in PAL 5-8. you need to take that out the PAL set or add it in the NTSC set (second is recommended)
ok well i opened both the NTSC and PAL 5/8 codeset wih ocarina coded manager thing. from what i could see, the differences were...
Death Boundary Mod V2[spunit262]
Ignore Handicap [Y.S.]
Buffer scale = Handicap scale [Y.S, Phantom Wings]
Death boundary data
Unrestricted Pause camera
CSS fixes for Samus/ZSS and Zelda/Shiek V2 [spunit262] (6 Lines)
CSS fixes for Giga and Company V2 [spunit262] (10 Lines)
Yeroc's Custom CSS V3 [spunit262] [17 lines]
Independent Pokemon Engine +no wreck My Music V2 [spunit262] (11 lines)
File Replacment: v2.1a[Phantom Wings]
thats from what i could gether.annoyingly thought they arnt named exactly the same way on both PAL and NTSC, so im not usre if i missed one/deleated one i shouldnt have.
its still dysyncing now
hope this helps to enlighten u