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KilZ

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So im at work and kinda bored, and i need some smashers opinions on something.

so there is this girl that i liked about a year or so ago and she is starting to come around again.
I kinda feel feelings coming back.
We never dated, but for a whole summer we pretty much hung out like everyday/every other day.
So it took so sososossosososo long to ask her out( i choked alot),
when I did she said,
Since she had just gotten out of a realionship, and didnt want a bf at that time but said
"just not now, maybe in the future..."
So we stopped talking after that point, not just cause i got shotdown but other reasons as well.

So to get to the point,

there was DEFF, a connection between me and her, i know she noticed it as much as me.

and im wondering should i just give up on her?
I kinda already have cept, these feelings keep coming back, I just dont think i should let her go yet...


Advice Smashers?
 
handsockpuppet

handsockpuppet

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just because your not going out doesn't mean you can't be friends. you don't have to ask her out immediately. NEVER GIVE UP!
 
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Wavedash towards her and knee her that question deep and deep she shall have it, and in no time you'll have her heart as if you air dodged + Z it right when she threw it.
 
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inside said:
Wavedash towards her and knee her that question deep and deep she shall have it, and in no time you'll have her heart as if you air dodged + Z it right when she threw it.
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Just toss a pill at her. The Doctahs always get teh laydeez.
 
Livvers

Livvers

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davidw89 said:
well you shouldn't have asked her about when she just broked up..bad time 2 ask
but yeh got for a second chance when you know she's ready
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Seriously. Never ask right after a break up. Especially if she was the one broken up with.

Are you sure there was a connection? If so, just give her some space and time and remain friends for now. If she really is into you, then hopefully it'll work out.


Lol, relationship advice on Smashboards.
 
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Um yeah. Get away from her for a **** long time. If you don't, it's over. Basically. Give her space asap plz kthkxbai. Girls are touchy and fickle, as most boys should already know by now.
 
KoreanDJ111

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Lol... you know what man, you are already in the "Friend Zone" with her, and you should have asked her out ASAP. No amount of convincing or begging will change her mind to feel ATTRACTION. It may trigger AFFECTION, but that doesn't mean anything if there is no ATTRACTION. If you keep trying to go out with her, you will be continually frustrated as she says that you are such a nice guy and she isn't available, while riding on the back of some rugged badass in his new Motorcycle.

When she said "just not now, maybe in the future..." she really means "No, I don't feel any attraction for you. I'm just saying that to cover up what I REALLY mean because I don't want to be mean to you."

You say you felt a connection with her? Hahahahahaha...
Well, it doesn't look like it was a strong enough connection for you two to be together. It triggered AFFECTION, NOT ATTRACTION. That's why she doesn't want to be with you.
Stop taking things for face Value... We men are very direct with our communication; if we want something, we say it. Women, on the other hand, are very indirect with their communication; if you say something, they go "What does he rlly mean?". This is why a lot of men get very confused/frustrated with women, and vice versa.

People are saying second chance? You got to be ****ting me. Drop her like it's hot. You ****ed up. It is all your fault that this happened, so take responsibility for it, and next time, if you like a woman, ask her out immediately. Don't wuss out and be friends, then turn her into a lover. That is the worst thing to do with a woman.

You at least realized you choked. Learn from your mistakes, and MOVE ON! If you don't move on, no one is going to be able to help you.
 
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