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FalKoopa

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How about theresno one to begin with.

When i say she wants to have a social life, i mean because she doesn't have one and wants to change that. She hardly ever hangs out with another, and her only friends have been of the online variety. Sometimes being shy, eccentric, and a dose of anxiety in means can be crippling

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Well, that's why I included acquaintances.

I can understand some of her anxieties, like wanting to avoid the spotlight and being around crowds, as I have faced those too. The number of offline people I consider close friends can be counted on one hand. And I also use SmashBoards as a substitute for RL socialising, as I don't really enjoy that.

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LoneKonWolf

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Okay!

Let me run my way to Nevada and ask her :p
. . . whatever sigh be my guess than mate
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Well, that's why I included acquaintances.

I can understand some of her anxieties, like wanting to avoid the spotlight and being around crowds, as I have faced those too. The number of offline people I consider close friends can be counted on one hand. And I also use SmashBoards as a substitute for RL socialising, as I don't really enjoy that.

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And i included the acquaintances, its either i don't know them, or they don't exist.

And honestly I'm like that too on the boards, only I'm quite happy to only spend my time here in fourm games. Like i said before this whole thing runs in the family, even kyler my older brother whos probably the mot extrovert out of us has it. Only i don't have a problem and quite happy on where i am unlike katt who wants to expand but is constantly double checking and worrying over fears and such.

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Hi everyone!
Hello dark pit how is your day?

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And honestly I'm like that too on the boards, only I'm quite happy to only spend my time here in fourm games. Like i said before this whole thing runs in the family, even kyler my older brother whos probably the mot extrovert out of us has it. Only i don't have a problem and quite happy on where i am unlike katt who wants to expand but is constantly double checking and worrying over fears and such.
Does she have a fear of rejection?

It seems her anxiety is stemming from her seeing herself as not "normal" and trying to conform to what is considered "normal". If she can overcome that, she'll be among the happiest people around.

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I spelled it wrong, a hikikomori
Just replace psychological stress and snap with extreme immovable interest

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Hi Kon! Pretty good so far, what about you?
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Does she have a fear of rejection?

It seems her anxiety is stemming from her seeing herself as not "normal" and trying to conform to what is considered "normal". If she can overcome that, she'll be among the happiest people around.

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*Shrug* i don't know, sometimes she brushes it off fine, nothing wrong, others can be devastating, and everything else in between

I don't know if she does and tries to hide it, or just completely frank about it and just does what she currently feels.

. . . you. . . do know katt right?
She sure as hell isn't the type of person to conform to something else. She takes her usual self and parades it around in spectacular, in sometimes disturbing manors. Maybe she has a fear that she sees herself unable to be in a social situations of being "un normal" but she sure as hell isn't trying to become this "normal" she sees and prefer, probably her own words "gas it down and burn it alive to make smores"

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*Shrug* i don't know, sometimes she brushes it off fine, nothing wrong, others can be devastating, and everything else in between

I don't know if she does and tries to hide it, or just completely frank about ot and thays what happens.

. . . you. . . do know katt right?
She sure as hell isn't the type of person to conform to something else. She takes her usual self and parades it around in spectacular, in sometimes disturbing manors. Maybe she has a fear that she sees herself unable to be in a social situations of being "un normal" but she sure as hell isn't trying to become this "normal" she sees and prefer, probably her own words "gas it down and burn it alive to make smores"
Be "normal?"

That's not even a thing? How can you be "normal" when everyone is so different from one another?

If anything, being different than everyone else is the norm...
 
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It may be funny but is it also fun?
Be "normal?"

That's not even a thing? How can you be "normal" when everyone is so different from one another?

If anything, being different than everyone else is the norm...
Were talking about a psychological stance, as in what one feels is "normal" inside their head.

And what i'm saying is if even if katt has that (which i doubt) she wouldn't care and try to do something to entertain herself with it (as in the smores thing)
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. . . you. . . do know katt right?
She sure as hell isn't the type of person to conform to something else. She takes her usual self and parades it around in spectacular, in sometimes disturbing manors. Maybe she has a fear that she sees herself unable to be in a social situations of being "un normal" but she sure as hell isn't trying to become this "normal" she sees and prefer, probably her own words "gas it down and burn it alive to make smores"
I can't really think of any other reason why she would double checking her fears and all.

It's just a conjecture, but just because she's parading her quirkiness doesn't rule out the possibility she has a hidden wish of being more "normal" and conform to society. I'm speaking for my experience. Once I came to a realisation that I was rather different from my group of friends, I really did a lot of weird stuff in an attempt to stand out more and get noticed. I still do weird things sometimes, although I no longer do it specifically for being noticed. It's just me rolling with what I like.

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Were talking about a psychological stance, as in what one feels is "normal" inside their head.

And what i'm saying is if even if katt has that (which i doubt) she wouldn't care and try to do something to entertain herself with it (as in the smores thing)
Why would she want to be "normal" though?

She'd be more boring that way...
 

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People have a hard time deciding whether or not I'm normal. It's fun watching them talk about it.

Oh hey, I can see Uni's username at the bottom now. His is usually hidden.
 
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Most people know I'm not normal by now. I'm perfectly fine with that.
 
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Honestly, Katt seems like someone that would fit in with people I hang out with.

Alone, we're a bit socially awkward.
Together, it's a frigging party.
 
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I can't really think of any other reason why she would double checking her fears and all.

It's just a conjecture, but just because she's parading her quirkiness doesn't rule out the possibility she has a hidden wish of being more "normal" and conform to society. I'm speaking for my experience. Once I came to a realisation that I was rather different from my group of friends, I really did a lot of weird stuff in an attempt to stand out more and get noticed. I still do weird things sometimes, although I no longer do it specifically for being noticed. It's just me rolling with what I like.

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I see your point fal, and do admit it's a possibility. But i just don't think katt is like that. Ever since shes been young shes always been headstrong about her wants and interests. No matter what was around her, schoolmates, randoms from outside, just us as family, or even by herself. I've never seen her crazy antics as a cry of attention, but more rather as a declaration that shes there and doing this. A sign that nothing will ever stop her. Her sociopathy and quirkiness are her being her because she likes that and is happy to be like that. I'm not denying that she has a secret wish. But just from my experience of living with her, i just don't see it.

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I could be an extrovert of I cared enough to talk to people that aren't my friends/acquaintances
 
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